How would I ask out this cashier girl I like?

[Hurtstomuch.]

Thats the problem I wouldnt wana be put on the spot and then give my number out and give false hope and never text cus it's just not for me because I dont want to persue, but then I'm the sorta person to feel bad for telling someone point blank no. But us women are all different and fucking difficult haha. I say this but my best mate would rather give someone her number and decide on the spot, she would brutally tell them no if she wasnt interested. Depends on the person I guess. But respectfully goes a long way regardless of the person I think. Also you dont know there situation they could be in a relationship or genuinely just not want a relationship. Dont take it to heart If they say no, theres plenty of fish in the sea as they say and if shes not the one there will be others. I hope it went well for you either way and u find happiness, if this one didnt work dont give up, every woman is different x

 

[TotallyIsolated]

IDK isnt it creepy or at least presumptuous to assume a woman will want to talk to you at all? I would hate to think I was putting someone on the spot and forcing them to let me down gently.

I prefer to assume that women don't want me talking to them, because why the hell would they.

 

[justkindahere]

I think the best thing u can do in this situation is just give her ur number. That way, the balls in her court so if she doesn't want to go out with u then she can just not call/text rather than be put on the spot.

 

[itsallover]

I understand. I met my girlfriend of almost a year and a half a few months after I nearly took my life by OD. Everyone needs a companion in life.

 

[GoBack]

IDK isnt it creepy or at least presumptuous to assume a woman will want to talk to you at all? I would hate to think I was putting someone on the spot and forcing them to let me down gently.

I prefer to assume that women don't want me talking to them, because why the hell would they.

Ah no if that was the case no one would go out with anyone

 

[TotallyIsolated]

Ah no if that was the case no one would go out with anyone

Why should some random stranger be interested? What basis could you possibly have to think you might like each other, have anything in common, or even to want the same things?

Having seen the endless ranks of miserable couples trapped in cold, loveless marriages (my parents included) I rather think that just asking out whoever isn't such a great plan.

 

[noaccount]

Well, aside from all the stereotyping floating around - it is, in fact, TRUE that work especially customer service is a CAPTIVE SITUATION where people are not free to walk away or speak bluntly without risk to their income.