how to know when i'm ready? (DID system and good days)

[echo_loaf]

I've always known i'd do it myself to choose my way of ctb, since childhood. however i keep having "good" days where it feels like life could work, only to have i even worse right after. It's hard to project myself on my future because of that. We're also a DID system and some alters are against our ctb plan. Any advice is greatly appreciated..

 

[LittleMagician]

I've always known i'd do it myself to choose my way of ctb, since childhood. however i keep having "good" days where it feels like life could work, only to have i even worse right after. It's hard to project myself on my future because of that. We're also a DID system and some alters are against our ctb plan. Any advice is greatly appreciated..

There is no way, you either feel it or you do not. It is a very individualistic thing and nobody can tell you whether you know when you are ready or not

 

[echo_loaf]

There is no way, you either feel it or you do not. It is a very individualistic thing and nobody can tell you whether you know when you are ready or not

i see. i'll know when i'm ready then and plan while waiting for the feeling.

 

[moonflow3r]

That's a question only you can answer

 

[Liammm]

I understand somewhat. I couldn't follow through anything to take my life because "she," a personification of my emotions, had other plans. She wanted to live life differently than what I am doing. I say that to say, maybe you can't be rid of them. But you have power over them. Each of them are apart of you-- pieces of your being.

That being said, please communicate with them. It is perhaps much less... distressing in my experience.

I'm not telling you to do anything, I just wanted to let you know that you have power over them. Do with that information what you will.