Help How to deal with loss?

[LastAcrobat]

People die, a lot, we all very obviously know that. I know my time is near too, but still, how does one deal with loss.

I somehow made friends with some people here, bad mistake, but I seem to do that too easily. I know that once they CTB they are on a better place but how do I deal with missing them?

And in a more important way, how can I make other people be able deal with my own CTB? My family still, somewhat, cares about me, and some people irl may consider me a "friend." I don't want them to be upset ;w;.

 

[Scythe]

For SS people, just make the most of your time left together and be happy for them when they die. Try to give everyobe sone good moments before they die. At least you know why they left, it's better than having people randomly leave without a word to me.

For non-SS people, I don't know either, since I also don't know how to deal with them, not like I can tell them what I'm doing. I'm not happy with my family, and I'm telling myself this way we're even. But not all of them deserves this. As for friends... I'm just hoping they forget about me if I don't message them since that's how it usually goes. I don't have the heart to cut ties/ do smth to make them hate me either.

 

[k1w1]

IMO, death is a part of life, we all know this immutable truth; albeit the delusions of religion, the mysticism of the philosophers stone, & the folly of eternal youth by wealthy tech bros may mitigate this at an individual level.
Once you have reached middle age, it is likely you will have lost 10-15% of people you ever knew. This instills an acceptance of death, & it is wise to have conversations on the topic with those you care for as the opportunities arise. Sadly many people do not have open communication with parents and friends.
I believe that if you can make 30, the likelihood of making 50 inceases dramatically.
By middle age the results of your lifestyle choices/genetic health issues will begin to show.
After this it is all about quality of life, so it becomes an individual choice.