how the fuck are you supposed to overcome si

[ineedtogetout]

si is slavery

 

[xhersekk]

You need to feel horrible and be very impulsive

 

[endboss]

I'd also like to know. I think it depends to some degree on the motivation why you want to exit in the first place.

 

[Macedonian1987]

A bad chronic pain flareup can also absolutely obliterate SI.
If I had my SN back in 2024 during one of the worst and longest pain flareups in my life, I would have ended it all, right then and there without any second thought.

 

[NonEssential]

I feel like I need to get drunk af if I want to overcome it. No idea how I'd set up the rope then though.

 

[Dinorun]

Dig deep into the root cause of it if it stems from isolation, worries about the future, disappointing your parents, circumstances, negative self belief etc change/fix it
(Yes it's 100000000x easier said than done and sometimes not be able to be done)


But it will never ease until you hit the roots
And either you change your reality, yourself, or your perception.

Just to be clear what I said above is what helped take me out of si and heal

 

[OnMyLast Legs]

Dig deep into the root cause of it if it stems from isolation, worries about the future, disappointing your parents, circumstances, negative self belief etc change/fix it
(Yes it's 100000000x easier said than done and sometimes not be able to be done)


But it will never ease until you hit the roots
And either you change your reality, yourself, or your perception.

Just to be clear what I said above is what helped take me out of si and heal

They mean survival instinct not suicidal ideation

 

[SDB]

Dig deep into the root cause of it if it stems from isolation, worries about the future, disappointing your parents, circumstances, negative self belief etc change/fix it
(Yes it's 100000000x easier said than done and sometimes not be able to be done)


But it will never ease until you hit the roots
And either you change your reality, yourself, or your perception.

Just to be clear what I said above is what helped take me out of si and heal

If you cant find job despite thousands of applications you're literally helpless. I've done every suggestion. a million times

 

[dearlydeparted44]

You're just going to have to will your way to do it. The SI is an engrained program by life, itself. It's very powerful. But it's not invincible. People HAVE overcome it. Without drugs. Without alcohol. I think we underestimate the amount of impulsiveness that we have to muster in order to achieve catching the bus.

"Ready" isn't a feeling, it's a decision. You already know what to do, you're just negotiating with comfort. This life is cruel. It demands some form of suffering as a price to live in and leave it. Once you accept that, you can get past it more easily. And WIN against this life.

Good luck to you.