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zdeweilx

zdeweilx

It's over
Dec 15, 2025
179
How often do you cry and how long does it last when you do? For me it's around 3 times a week, maybe for around 10 minutes in average when it happens.

I think crying isn't that bad. As long as you're still able to cry it means that you can still feel something, it's like vomiting, it feels horrible while you're doing it but the suffering stops for a short period of time once you're done.
 
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FoxSauce

FoxSauce

Emotionally unstable like an IKEA table
Aug 23, 2024
1,190
I want to cry but I cant idk how to explain it.

But I I do not so much- around a few minutes I hate crying or people seeing me cry
 
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aesthetic

aesthetic

forever young
Feb 28, 2026
14
i cry for several hours every day.
 
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absolute failure

absolute failure

Experienced
Jan 19, 2026
246
daily, especially at night
 
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Passenger4224

Passenger4224

Member
Mar 8, 2026
6
Like a few times a year I think. I just don't have the ability to cry in most cases. It's weird because when I was a kid it was the opposite.

I feel like it would be easier to be in despair if I could just cry... but I literally can't :/
 
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blush

blush

New Member
Mar 2, 2026
1
every single day! i've always been this way
 
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LonelyPrince

LonelyPrince

Rotten to the Core
Dec 12, 2025
161
How often do you cry and how long does it last when you do? For me it's around 3 times a week, maybe for around 10 minutes in average when it happens.

I think crying isn't that bad. As long as you're still able to cry it means that you can still feel something, it's like vomiting, it feels horrible while you're doing it but the suffering stops for a short period of time once you're done.
Before it was everyday. Now because of the meds it's once a week probably. At least my eyes aren't puffy everyday
 
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DownwardSpiral

DownwardSpiral

idiot
Jan 21, 2026
49
I barely cry from getting emotional, and I used to cry a lot from being stressed out (like getting yelled at), but I mostly avoid stressful situations so that doesn't happen anymore. I cry maybe once every 2-3 months usually in the middle of the night. I think crying isnt bad either. like others here I feel like I want to cry more but I can't.
 
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EMac

New Member
Feb 3, 2026
1
How often do you cry and how long does it last when you do? For me it's around 3 times a week, maybe for around 10 minutes in average when it happens.

I think crying isn't that bad. As long as you're still able to cry it means that you can still feel something, it's like vomiting, it feels horrible while you're doing it but the suffering stops for a short period of time once you're done.
I am medicated and cannot cry. Before medication I cried several times a day.
 
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itsgone2

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Sep 21, 2025
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I don't cry much. Not sure why. I'm only sad all day. I'm alone a lot so I vent to no one a lot. Just all of the misery I'm in. I hate it. But actual tears only come when I open up to someone which is rare. But it's immediate
 
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JRSadlife4011

JRSadlife4011

Life sucks
Dec 3, 2025
5
How often do you cry and how long does it last when you do? For me it's around 3 times a week, maybe for around 10 minutes in average when it happens.

I think crying isn't that bad. As long as you're still able to cry it means that you can still feel something, it's like vomiting, it feels horrible while you're doing it but the suffering stops for a short period of time once you're done.
I feel like sometimes I cry for absolutely no reason, then don't when I should. I don't get it
 
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Claymore7274

Claymore7274

never meant to be loved
Oct 4, 2025
125
maybe every once a month, in the morning after a specially bad dream, i just can't hold tears back, rolling on my bed in desperation
 
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Pluto

Pluto

Cat Extremist
Dec 27, 2020
6,506
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Pale_Rider

Pale_Rider

Enlightened
Apr 21, 2025
1,467
I haven't cried lately. I'm glad for that. I think I've numbed up on somethings, but happiness also isn't a reality.
 
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maplebar

I try to be a decent person
Feb 21, 2025
51
I used to cry a lot! That was a couple years back, 2023 I'd say I cried probably every other day. I don't anymore, I am quite dull now
 
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Spite

Spite

I don't like this world.
Aug 20, 2025
286
A bit embarrassed to admit it but I cry probably more than I should. Just thinking about this year alone, we're only in March and I think I've cried at least once every week since the start of the year. Lately it's been about once or twice a week I'll cry, and it's usually for less than five minutes. It's usually when I'm reminded of a painful memory from my past or if I am subjected to something that makes me miserable, like being ignored and ostracised, and made to feel invisible and worthless at my workplace.
 
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XxEstenxX

XxEstenxX

A Borderline is speaking. Listen and Learn.
Feb 10, 2026
18
How often do you cry and how long does it last when you do? For me it's around 3 times a week, maybe for around 10 minutes in average when it happens.

I think crying isn't that bad. As long as you're still able to cry it means that you can still feel something, it's like vomiting, it feels horrible while you're doing it but the suffering stops for a short period of time once you're done.
I easily cry over minor things like a sad scene in a show but can hold my tears for a long time and numb myself over major things that happen to me personally :p

forgot to add but usually when I do cry it only lasts for a few minutes. Rarely do I cry that long because I hate crying.
 
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Fate7

Fate7

Member
Jul 30, 2025
13
A few times a week.
it actually brings relief sometimes.
it's called catharsis
 
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chudpolonais

chudpolonais

just let me die already for christ's sake
Nov 16, 2025
12
daily, maybe 6 times a week on a good one
 
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pax420

Student
Jan 19, 2026
105
Not since I was 10. I'm 56 now. It's not a guy thing. It's a I am broken and something is really wrong with me thing.
 
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Dark Moon

Dark Moon

Paragon
Sep 21, 2022
953
I can't remember the last time I really cried; I usually don't cry because my father instilled me not to cry when I was a kid and I've remained that way since.
 
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TheDevilsAngel

TheDevilsAngel

LetMeFree (I'll never be free)
Apr 22, 2019
845
I cry when I am hurt and feel used. I also have nightmares regularly and wake up crying. I don't know if I feel any better afterwards...
 
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BlendedHeart

BlendedHeart

It is what it is
Mar 9, 2024
294
I have been crying more often for the past couple of years. When I wake up, before I go to sleep, sometimes during the day but I try to avoid that. I'm tired of everything.
 
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bakenohana

bakenohana

ah...I want to disappear.
Feb 12, 2026
90
once every few months, i suppose. i could feel overwhelmingly sad but tears rarely ever come out unless i force them, even if i force them the quantity is limited. id be horrible at acting lmao
 
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alstroemeria55

alstroemeria55

Irreparable
Sep 4, 2025
128
I don't full on cry so much, but I am often on the verge of crying.
 

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