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How many relationships have you had?

  • 0

    Votes: 3 33.3%
  • 1

    Votes: 1 11.1%
  • 2

    Votes: 3 33.3%
  • 3-5

    Votes: 1 11.1%
  • 7+

    Votes: 1 11.1%

  • Total voters
    9
PugnaEnjoyer2137

PugnaEnjoyer2137

Member
Jul 18, 2026
37
Spending time on SaSu itself, and checking out what people have to say about the forum around the Web, I was shocked to hear that people describe here as part of incel Internet, and while, people who are lonely and have not had any intimate contacts are for sure here, looking at usual posters here I don't think it's the case.
Therefor I'd like to ask, how many relationships have you had? Does/did your relationship influence you to come here?
 
KiraNosferatu

KiraNosferatu

His soon-to-be Guardian Angel
Jul 24, 2026
18
had one, my first and last
 
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FoxSauce

FoxSauce

Emotionally unstable like an IKEA table
Aug 23, 2024
1,423
None atm 🤷‍♀️
 
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Mgelanie

Mgelanie

Member
Mar 17, 2026
20
Spending time on SaSu itself, and checking out what people have to say about the forum around the Web, I was shocked to hear that people describe here as part of incel Internet, and while, people who are lonely and have not had any intimate contacts are for sure here, looking at usual posters here I don't think it's the case.
Therefor I'd like to ask, how many relationships have you had? Does/did your relationship influence you to come here?
Never had one hopefully it stays that way
 
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darksouls

darksouls

Angelic
May 10, 2025
4,012
my ex-boyfriends treated me like garbage,
yes, that influenced me to be here,
they are partly responsible for why I am too broken for relationships
 
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Busridin'26

Busridin'26

Hating every minute of being alive.
Dec 8, 2019
1,987
Too many & most not great either...& unfortunately def an influence but I try not to think about it too much. Have many other reasons to focus on so 🫠
 
Angst Filled Fuck Up

Angst Filled Fuck Up

Illuminated
Sep 9, 2018
3,193
I had to count but it's nine proper ones, spanning 25 to 30 years. I would like one more, just to make it to ten. DMs open.
 
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Set Real Goul

Set Real Goul

Does'next on the menu' ring a bell for ya...normie
Jul 10, 2026
104
Random rant
There wasn't one, but anyway, I really don't like how the term incel has been expanding on the internet. You get takes like, "Well, if someone wants sex and a relationship but doesn't have either, then they're technically an incel." We don't call people punks just because they like punk music. That's simply wrong.

That subculture is far too toxic to casually lump random people into it by using that label.
 

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