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punyama

punyama

just fall as low as possible.
Jul 13, 2026
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do any of you have any conditions for the day that makes you choose it over any other day? i don't really know what goes into picking a day. honestly i just don't want it to be a hot day because i can't stand the heat and i want to be as comfortable as possible minus the dying, lol. is that stupid?
 
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hello kitty

hello kitty

Goth Angel Corpse From The Catacombs of Paris
Jun 2, 2026
9
idk some people choose their bday some choose the day they get the stuff they need some chose a rainyday and others just do it when its too much. personally i cant even keep track of days. everyday i dont even know what day we are so yeah. i personally woudnt do it on daytime. i like to believe night time is perpetual everytime is night is the same night. so yeah for me it does not matter. i think for me the place and the environnement is way more important than the date itself. thats my opinion :)
 
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itsgone2

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Sep 21, 2025
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I picture it raining. I hate the sunshine now. I wish it would rain every day, or that I'd just get it over with.
 
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meowpuppy

meowpuppy

valerie | she/they | puppygirl
Jul 11, 2026
373
to be honest, i'd prefer to die whenever i want rather than select a time in the future, but i think that the basics apply to both strategies. if/when i do die, i wanna make sure i do it on a day that:

1) isn't a holiday
2) isn't a birthday
3) isn't during when another family member is sick
4) isn't immediately following a bad day for any other reason
5) isn't on friday the 13th

the last couple weeks have all followed this..
 
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WhyAmIHereHonestly

WhyAmIHereHonestly

Member
Oct 11, 2025
15
id prefer it to be like any other day from my honest perspective. no special conditions because im not special.
(read: i suck at planning lol)
 
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canidiealreadyy

canidiealreadyy

coolest ever
Feb 12, 2024
29
do any of you have any conditions for the day that makes you choose it over any other day? i don't really know what goes into picking a day. honestly i just don't want it to be a hot day because i can't stand the heat and i want to be as comfortable as possible minus the dying, lol. is that stupid?
for me im just trying to do it someday before my birthday which is august 10th. im thinking august 8th or 9th. i have about two weeks left.
 
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decadance

decadance

counting goats…
Feb 18, 2026
24
im a while away from ctb still but i can share how ive been planning

1) choosing a number i like a lot to be the date

2) choosing a month in a season i like

3) making sure the date is at least a couple weeks away from any friend or family members bday

besides that id preferably want it to be a cool rainy day
 
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Grinchy

Member
Jul 27, 2026
6
For me, if I can, I'd like to wait until autumn. Just let the time come to you ig.
 
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zxcvbn3857

Member
Jul 23, 2026
5
Not close to holidays, birthdays, or a date where something bad has happened in my family in the past.
 

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