Discussion How do I cope with the fact that I've lived miserable and then will just die

[fkyou]

How do I cope with the fact that I've lived miserable and then will just die..I feel like a victim and this feeling is terrible.. how do you guys do it?.. give me some insights as my brain is closed it doesn't see any perspectives..i don't want to feel like a victim it's painful

 

[itsgone2]

Unfortunately I think you've summed it up well. Some of us have poor lives. Sucks because we were so close to good ones.

 

[Forever Sleep]

Maybe because people who have lived successful, joyful lives also suffer- in that they can absolutely dread death or the thought of losing all that. At least we don't suffer so intensely in that way I suppose.

Plus, depending on belief of course, when we are dead- maybe we won't feel anything at all so- it won't matter either way then.

 

[scully]

i dont think my reply will be of much help since i havent completely figured it out either. its hard but for me at some point it just became the norm. it may not be a positive feeling but you get used to it. therapy can help. in my experience it has but just not enough. i feel like all it did is just extend my life a few years and postponed my suicide. though it definitely could go better for you. Being a victim sucks and so does feeling like one. but you dont have to be a victim forever. even tho you might not see it there are other things that make you who you are and noticing that might take away from the pain that being a victim carries. but ts sucks regardless.

 

[Unknown21]

I Completely understand your struggles with that... I can't accept it, but i hope i can somewhat.

Maybe because people who have lived successful, joyful lives also suffer- in that they can absolutely dread death or the thought of losing all that. At least we don't suffer so intensely in that way I suppose.

Plus, depending on belief of course, when we are dead- maybe we won't feel anything at all so- it won't matter either way then.

We're all going to die someday as well... The bottom line is zero, regardless of life or circumstances.

 

[iveseenfootage]

We are victims. Nothing we can do to change that. After death, we probably won't feel like anything. To me that's a plus

 

[fruitninjamaster]

Hopefully when we die we won't ever feel again.