Yeah, I have never been super horny around another super horny person. But don't people carry condoms in their wallets at all times or this just is a regional thing? Aren't there contraceptive methods that can be used AFTER intercourse? I'd talk about abortion, but while it is a right in some countries, it is a crime in others, so not much of a valid point. I am mostly talking about the choice of having a baby, not about the choice having sex. My point is not that people should choose to not have sex, it's that they should choose to do as much as they can to avoid pregnancy (even though no method is 100% efficient). Unprotected sex is irresponsible and stupid no matter how much sex you want to have, and that's even more about STD's than babies. But there are people who choose to have babies, they have sex with the sole intention of conceiving. For example, my parents. A depressed man and a low key narcissistic woman; maybe that's why I am so against having children. Even so, I do have the deep desire to have children myself, I swear I want children so, so much. I just lost the faith in myself, in my parents as grandparents and in this world as a whole. Even if I myself manage to get out this hole I am in, I still don't think I'll ever agree to have a child with someone. I may adopt, since it's someone who's already in this world not by their choice, but even then I don't think I'd be able to properly raise a child. Putting a whole new person here, though? I don't think that's a rational choice. Again, I also don't think who do so is evil, and those who end up pregnant accidentally after sex aren't monsters. Those who don't have children aren't in any higher moral level either. I just think that's the better choice, for everyone.