I tend to lurk it out of curiosity. Can't help but feel like so many there just make it harder for themselves by not accepting their loved one was in immense pain and being glad they are no longer suffering - instead, so many of them seem to be sad that they're no longer around to suffer. If you're not willing to let them go, you didn't truly love them.
One post that pissed me off was someone saying a person taking their own life magnifies the pain and then passes it on to everyone else...you seriously think that your pain is more than the suicidal person was feeling, really? The funny thing is, they sign off their post with "To those who have not lost someone, please don't attack or comment. Respect our pain and this one safe place for us." I'm sure everyone here can see the irony in those words.
My comment to people who post there, well to the parents at least - don't breed if you're not willing to accept your child saying no to the hellscape you dragged them into, that they never asked for.