• Hey Guest,

    We wanted to share a quick update with the community.

    Our public expense ledger is now live, allowing anyone to see how donations are used to support the ongoing operation of the site.

    👉 View the ledger here

    Over the past year, increased regulatory pressure in multiple regions like UK OFCOM and Australia's eSafety has led to higher operational costs, including infrastructure, security, and the need to work with more specialized service providers to keep the site online and stable.

    If you value the community and would like to help support its continued operation, donations are greatly appreciated. If you wish to donate via Bank Transfer or other options, please open a ticket.

    Donate via cryptocurrency:

    Bitcoin (BTC):
    Ethereum (ETH):
    Monero (XMR):
StarryEyed

StarryEyed

PMs aren't my thing
Mar 14, 2024
312
As per the title, has anyone tried IFS therapy (Internal Family Systems) to help with your suicidal thoughts and feelings? If you have - or even if you haven't - any thoughts about this approach?
 
  • Like
Reactions: hughmun9
hughmun9

hughmun9

Student
Feb 22, 2023
191
Never tried it with a therapist but it's been one of the more useful models for me. Although I do feel like it gets a little complicated after a while, to consider all your different parts and name them and communicate with them. It takes a lot of mental bandwidth to do that every day
 
  • Like
Reactions: StarryEyed
StarryEyed

StarryEyed

PMs aren't my thing
Mar 14, 2024
312
Never tried it with a therapist but it's been one of the more useful models for me. Although I do feel like it gets a little complicated after a while, to consider all your different parts and name them and communicate with them. It takes a lot of mental bandwidth to do that every day
Hi @hughmun9

I'm thinking of doing it on my own too. Yes, it seems like a TON of work, but then I've tried everything else and I'm actually sinking deeper. So I figure a lot of work with a chance to survive, or keep banging my head against the wall with the tools already in my toolbelt, or commit suicide. So I'm leaning towards hard work (as long as I'm not feeling suicidal, of course).

I've read the first couple of chapters of 'No Bad Parts' by Richard Schwartz, the guy who invented this therapy. He's got exercises in the book. It's the audiobook on Audible, which is nice for the exercises. Is that what you're doing too?

This is the book:
 
Last edited: