Ambivalent1

Ambivalent1

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I can attract them, but there's not a lot of opportunities in public to meet anyone. I tried college again but everyone is really young. I'm in my 30s.

I had to go to the doctor the other day and this one woman who worked there (in my age group) was interested, but there wasn't an opportunity to talk to her.

Society should function better for meeting people. It's like adults are shit out of luck.
 
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robotomy

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CleanShot 2024 04 28 at 2251072x

Here, of course! 🥴

(for anyone stalking my profile, visit the actual message link to see the screenshot with context 😁)
 
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Ambivalent1

Ambivalent1

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Here, of course! 🥴

(for anyone stalking my profile, click to see the whole message with the screenshot to get the joke so I seem less unhinged lol)
Joke ruined by long explanation womp womp womp
 
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innominesatanas44

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Feb 16, 2023
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How would we know, half the posts on here is about being incel
 
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ham and potatoes

ham and potatoes

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As a early 30s guy myself, id recommend trying out tinder and bumble. Dont get me wrong, it might take a few weeks to get some matches, but it has worked well for me. In the 5 or so years ive been on and off it, ive had decent luck with finding a handfull of FWB, and a few actual relationships
 
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Ambivalent1

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As a early 30s guy myself, id recommend trying out tinder and bumble. Dont get me wrong, it might take a few weeks to get some matches, but it has worked well for me. In the 5 or so years ive been on and off it, ive had decent luck with finding a handfull of FWB, and a few actual relationships
Few weeks? I've always deleted it after a couple days. I thought you have a limit of time before matches dry up
 
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My basement
 
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AlexYaBoy

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Your local cardboard fortress.

The Hobo Hub.
 
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Unicr0n

Unicr0n

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Mar 26, 2024
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If you just want sex and don't want to work for it, Grindr and looking for transgender men. I know a lot of weak men prey that way.

Tindr.
College campus [RECORD CONSENT AND MAKE SURE SHE'S NOT UNDER THE INFLUENCE OF ANYTHING or you will catch a rape charge]. If you look hot, they won't give a crap that you're 30. I'm female, there was a guy about 8 years younger than me wanting to date me.
Alcohol bar [gay bars can net you a woman surprisingly]
 
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Angst Filled Fuck Up

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Probably Target or Homegoods. 90% women who are making bad decisions already.
 
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greebo6

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There's always the 'oldest profession' in the world to fall back on if its just sex you are after.
 
1MiserableGuy

1MiserableGuy

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Go by yourself?

And full of sting operations like never before lol
I always have and it been fine for me, but you have to be charismatic af and wingmans do help. Let's put it this way, a not so obvious gay man had an obviously gay wingman I just hung out with and it got me all the way to the point of thinking at 1:30am it was a good idea to bring him over to the apartment I had at the time, didn't even dawn on me he was gonna try to get some until he was already over. Took it personally when I told him to get the fuck out lmao
 
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Ambivalent1

Ambivalent1

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Apr 17, 2023
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I always have and it been fine for me, but you have to be charismatic af and wingmans do help. Let's put it this way, a not so obvious gay man had an obviously gay wingman I just hung out with and it got me all the way to the point of thinking at 1:30am it was a good idea to bring him over to the apartment I had at the time, didn't even dawn on me he was gonna try to get some until he was already over. Took it personally when I told him to get the fuck out lmao
If youre alone and see a woman you like but she's with her friends, what is one supposed to do?
 
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1MiserableGuy

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Go by yourself?

And full of sting operations like never before lol
I always have and it been fine for me, but you have to be charismatic af and wingmans do help. Let's put it this way, a not so obvious gay man had an obviously gay wingman I just hung out with and it got me all the way to the point of thinking at 1:30am it was a good idea to bring him over to the apartment I had at the time, didn't even dawn on me he was gonna try to get some until he was already over
If youre alone and see a woman you like but she's with her friends, what is one supposed to do?
Forget about it. If she's with just one, maybe you can approach them both (if you've got balls) and one will pursue while the other finds it funny. But if she's got multiple, forget about it. She brought those friends with her to protect herself from people like you and I. It's best if they're regulars at that location because they have a little more trust in their surroundings.
 
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