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Wolf-Alice

Wolf-Alice

Member
Nov 11, 2023
38
Be SO FUCKING FOR REAL. Why can't it be for a good reason? Like me being pathetic and ugly and unlikeable and everything? Maybe he's lying. It's so stupid. I don't like to admit it but I do spend a lot of time online. He only knows that because I post things for him to see them. I really fucked up.
 
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anastenka

anastenka

Rosa
Apr 25, 2024
75
that's such a half assed excuse to not date someone I'm sorry;-;;-;;-;
 
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Dr Iron Arc

Dr Iron Arc

Into the Unknown
Feb 10, 2020
21,407
Rarely do I see guys ever use that against women. That's usually something women are meant to say against men. His loss I guess.
 
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Wolf-Alice

Wolf-Alice

Member
Nov 11, 2023
38
that's such a half assed excuse to not date someone I'm sorry;-;;-;;-;
thank you. it really is.
Rarely do I see guys ever use that against women. That's usually something women are meant to say against men. His loss I guess.
thank you. he said he 'doesn't want to be reminded of his past'
 
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Worndown

Worndown

Angelic
Mar 21, 2019
4,159
Did he have a gf with internet issues in the past? While this does not please you, he has his own issues to avoid or overcome.
You could post less but there is no guarantee he will notice or feel comfortable.
A crush is just that. There is a lot of one sided commitment.
I am sorry you got "crushed" by this. A suggestion is to move on. To pursue further gets too close to stalking and that is not good for you.
To say "you win some, you lose some" will not be comforting, but it is true. I hope you can move on to a more compatible person. They are out there.
 
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Abyssal

Abyssal

Probably gonna die soon maybe?
Nov 26, 2023
1,326
Sounds fake tbh. That or surface level. Hate to say it, but I genuinely think you're better off without them, they sound kinda judgemental.
 
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thenamingofcats

annihilation anxiety
Apr 19, 2024
482
What's wrong with being chronically online?
 
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oneirataxia

Borderline schizo (sorta fine tits tho)
Apr 22, 2024
477
Anyone else feel like the terms "chronically online" or "terminally online" are incredibly presumptuous and dismissive of our struggling youth, who are now more online than ever because of a complex variety of factors? I have always hated hearing those buzzwords, and ironically they often come from other "terminally online" people themselves, unable to articulate their grievances with something because of a poor vocabulary. The Internet has become a necessity in many people's lives, no shit some of them would become reliant on this invention if it offers them connection from likeminded people in such a judgmental and broken society. I'm sorry you had to go through this OP. Really hoping you can feel better.
 
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1MiserableGuy

1MiserableGuy

Specialist
Dec 30, 2023
365
Be SO FUCKING FOR REAL. Why can't it be for a good reason? Like me being pathetic and ugly and unlikeable and everything? Maybe he's lying. It's so stupid. I don't like to admit it but I do spend a lot of time online. He only knows that because I post things for him to see them. I really fucked up.
He may be serious. My wife can't get off her fucking phone even if she tries, and it's gotten to the point that we can no longer have conversations because she's more invested in the phone than what's going on around her.
 
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sadcausebad

sadcausebad

Member
Feb 17, 2024
39
He may be serious. My wife can't get off her fucking phone even if she tries, and it's gotten to the point that we can no longer have conversations because she's more invested in the phone than what's going on around her.
I feel this, my current partner rather post online than actually talk me lol
 
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Wolf-Alice

Wolf-Alice

Member
Nov 11, 2023
38
He may be serious. My wife can't get off her fucking phone even if she tries, and it's gotten to the point that we can no longer have conversations because she's more invested in the phone than what's going on around her.
That's the thing, I am definitely not like that. I feel undeserving of being referred to as this.
 
1MiserableGuy

1MiserableGuy

Specialist
Dec 30, 2023
365
That's the thing, I am definitely not like that. I feel undeserving of being referred to as this.
If you're receiving complaints about it, you are. The population doesn't have a fucking clue just how much time they spend on the phone. It's gotten so bad, trying to interact with people independently of the phone is treated as awkward. The industrial revolution was a mistake.
 
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Wolf-Alice

Wolf-Alice

Member
Nov 11, 2023
38
It's gotten so bad, trying to interact with people independently of the phone is treated as awkward. The industrial revolution was a mistake.
Agree. I'll try to be better and rise above the allegations.
 

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