Goodbye Thread

[postal_01]

@Theanswer

Relax my friend. Don't be stressed during your last moments it's not worth it. Don't let anyone get to you.

Hey I know you're coming with good intentions and you think you're doing the right thing but honestly in this situation you're not. This person clearly asked for people not to do this. I think you should respect

How about this - shut up and quit posting on my thread. Please let me know if there isn't anything you don't understand creep.

I'm sorry, yeah ok that sounded dumb. I meant I want to give you a hug. Like. Or a 5 hour conversation on the phone. I've been here. I've tried hanging myself. I just want you to be okay :(

 

[WorthlessTrash]

I'm sorry, yeah ok that sounded dumb. I meant I want to give you a hug. Like. Or a 5 hour conversation on the phone. I've been here. I've tried hanging myself. I just want you to be okay :(

They don't want to have a 5 hour conversation with you, much less a 5 second one. They clearly expressed they aren't interested in changing their mind, and you did not get the message. No means no, buddy. Something you apparently haven't grasped.

If you want them to be "okay", then solve their problems instead of your pathetic attempt at virtue signaling. However, you cannot, so leave them be.

 

[CemetryGates]

wow the creep that hijacked this thread jfc, Just want to say sorry life brought you to this, I hope you find peace

 

[👁️👃👁️]

I'm sorry, yeah ok that sounded dumb. I meant I want to give you a hug. Like. Or a 5 hour conversation on the phone. I've been here. I've tried hanging myself. I just want you to be okay :(

Hey dude, I understand that you're just trying to be kind and show love, but in all honesty this is only going to cause problems. OP literally said not to comment these kind of things on their thread, and I think we should respect their wishes. The best thing that you can do is respect the decision that they're making, show some support, and move along. I'm not going to call you a creep or be mean to you in any type of way, because you aren't being mean, but I will say that it is disrespectful to come on here and comment these things after they ask for people not to.

 

[postal_01]

Oof, your rapist side is showing

Hey dude, I understand that you're just trying to be kind and show love, but in all honesty this is only going to cause problems. OP literally said not to comment these kind of things on their thread, and I think we should respect their wishes. The best thing that you can do is respect the decision that they're making, show some support, and move along. I'm not going to call you a creep or be mean to you in any type of way, because you aren't being mean, but I will say that it is disrespectful to come on here and comment these things after they ask for people not to.

But what if their world lacks support. I want to say, I care. Also, I'm a woman. I'm not trying to be a creep. I'm just horrible at this.

 

[👁️👃👁️]

But what if their world lacks support. I want to say, I care. Also, I'm a woman. I'm not trying to be a creep. I'm just horrible at this.

It's okay. I understand you have good intentions and you're just trying to be nice. I do. Truth is you should probably save this for other people and save this for another thread because they specifically asked for people not to do this on their thread. Many people do lack support, thing is there is absolutely nothing that you can do at this point to try to change their mind. If anything is going to make them angry, as you can tell based by their responses to you and everyone else's responses to you. I'm not mad at you or think you're a creep. I just think we should respect OP's wishes and they asked for people not to comment these types of things.

 

[WorthlessTrash]

But what if their world lacks support. I want to say, I care. Also, I'm a woman. I'm not trying to be a creep. I'm just horrible at this.

Unfortunately care and support won't solve their problems. Suppose you changed their mind, then what changes? Absolutely nothing tbch. I trust that they tried every other avenue of help before having to make this decision. In the end, you cannot fix their problems. You don't have the magic cure.

 

[postal_01]

How about this - shut up and quit posting on my thread. Please let me know if there isn't anything you don't understand creep.

My feelings aren't hurt. I just want to say this isn't the answer. There's beautiful things yet to learn, love and discover. People are waiting with open arms. And you are loved as long as I'm here. I see your pain. I see it and I'm here for you

 

[ianista]

But what if their world lacks support. I want to say, I care. Also, I'm a woman. I'm not trying to be a creep. I'm just horrible at this.

Please consider some things: People do have a free will and can make some choices in their life on their own. They might lack support yes, but they might also not. You have NO idea about their situation, about their process and were they are at the moment.
The lack of support might also be representative of the world and the society we life in. Lack of support can be a super legit reason to ctb.
If someone is considering ctb with SN at least you can be assured that this person went through a super intensive and long process to inform, prepare and organize everything.
I see that you want, but you are not capable or have the knowledge or ressource to rescue everyone. What you do is paternalistic, you do have to take people more seriously and respect their decisions, even if its hard for you to understand!

 

[postal_01]

My feelings aren't hurt. I just want to say this isn't the answer. There's beautiful things yet to learn, love and discover. People are waiting with open arms. And you are loved as long as I'm here. I see your pain. I see it and I'm here for you

Whatever you need reach out to me whenever you need something

 

[👁️👃👁️]

My feelings aren't hurt. I just want to say this isn't the answer. There's beautiful things yet to learn, love and discover. People are waiting with open arms. And you are loved as long as I'm here. I see your pain. I see it and I'm here for you

Friend.. you have good intentions but it's too late. Respect the OP.

You're taking it to far now. They have already made their decision nothing is going to change it.

 

[WorthlessTrash]

My feelings aren't hurt. I just want to say this isn't the answer. There's beautiful things yet to learn, love and discover. People are waiting with open arms. And you are loved as long as I'm here. I see your pain. I see it and I'm here for you

1. You don't get to tell them what the answer it. It's their life, NOT YOURS. You want to set an example? Good, live on. But let others make their own decisions
2. You don't see their pain because you aren't them. Stop with this crap.
3. You aren't here for them. You are going against their wishes. Stop virtue signaling.
4. Things yet to discover is not a reason to keep suffering.

If I see you post one more thing that goes against the OP's wishes, I will personally report your post to a mod and get you perma banned from this site. Respect their wishes, or take a hike.

 

[rationaltake]

Whatever you need reach out to me whenever you need something

Because of you OP has left this thread and has been deprived of the support they had been looking forward to.

 

[postal_01]

1. You don't get to tell them what the answer it. It's their life, NOT YOURS. You want to set an example? Good, live on. But let others make their own decisions
2. You don't see their pain because you aren't them. Stop with this crap.
3. You aren't here for them. You are going against their wishes. Stop virtue signaling.
4. Things yet to discover is not a reason to keep suffering.

If I see you post one more thing that goes against the OP's wishes, I will personally report your post to a mod and get you perma banned from this site. Respect their wishes, or take a hike.

this type of pain is treatable. It isn't going to feel like this forever. Please listen to me.

 

[WorthlessTrash]

this type of pain is treatable. It isn't going to feel like this forever. Please listen to me.

and reported. I warned you.

 

[Mountaingirl]

Dear friends plus postal_01,
I was the person @Theanswer was referring to. I was chatting with her during her last two hours or so, and she seemed alright with her decision. Shortly before 7.30ET or 1.30CET she drank her SN. Afterwards she wrote she is feeling fine, now sitting back. I haven't heard from her since, so I hope she has found peace.

Rest in eternal peace, my friend. It was an honour to be with you tonight (I changed it to honour, because someone's death can't be called a pleasure).

 

[Idontmatter]

Dear friends plus postal_01,
I was the person @Theanswer was referring to. I was chatting with her during her last two hours or so, and she seemed alright with her decision. Shortly before 7.30ET or 1.30CET she drank her SN. Afterwards she wrote she is feeling fine, now sitting back. I haven't heard from her since, so I hope she has found peace.

Rest in eternal peace, my friend. It was a pleasure to be with you tonight.

She was lucky to have you in her final moments. RIP.

 

[rationaltake]

Dear friends plus postal_01,
I was the person @Theanswer was referring to. I was chatting with her during her last two hours or so, and she seemed alright with her decision. Shortly before 7.30ET or 1.30CET she drank her SN. Afterwards she wrote she is feeling fine, now sitting back. I haven't heard from her since, so I hope she has found peace.

Rest in eternal peace, my friend. It was a pleasure to be with you tonight.

Thanks for letting us know. I'm glad she had you to chat with her and she wasn't alone. That's an amazing thing to do for someone. May she be free from suffering.

 

[Poor Stargazer]

I hope she found peace.

 

[eternal_life]

Rest in peace.

 

[AliceTheGoon]

Dear friends
I was the person @Theanswer was referring to. I was chatting with her during her last two hours or so, and she seemed alright with her decision. Shortly before 7.30ET or 1.30CET she drank her SN. Afterwards she wrote she is feeling fine, now sitting back. I haven't heard from her since, so I hope she has found peace.

Rest in eternal peace, my friend. It was a pleasure to be with you tonight.

Thank you for the update (removing the troll from your post)

 

[nys]

Rest in peace @Theanswer :(
I hope you found freedom and that you escaped your pain and suffering

 

[MisFortunate]

Dear friends plus postal_01,
I was the person @Theanswer was referring to. I was chatting with her during her last two hours or so, and she seemed alright with her decision. Shortly before 7.30ET or 1.30CET she drank her SN. Afterwards she wrote she is feeling fine, now sitting back. I haven't heard from her since, so I hope she has found peace.

Rest in eternal peace, my friend. It was a pleasure to be with you tonight.

Hey there, you are truly a special soul. Your love and support for this woman was wonderful. Thank you.

My god, she was so courageous. Goodbye, sleep well lady.

 

[Shivali]

 

[Hiraeth Grimoire]

I wish you all the best on your journey. May you find refuge in the Void and freedom in eternity. Cheers to the long-awaited otherworld!!!

 

[RainAndSadness]

Wow. Imagine hijacking the goodbye thread of someone who is about to leave and making yourself the protagonist of the story. @Theanswer made very clear they want to be left alone and you kept pushing. No sign of respect and empathy for the OP and their decision to exercise their individual autonomy anywhere in this thread. Repulsive behavior and good display of the ususal "suicide prevention" nonsense that's going on all over the world - invalidating the boundaries of people, that's all you people are capable of and maybe you should reconsider why it's not working.

As for @Theanswer, I'm glad they found someone to talk to and I hope they had a peaceful departure. That's obviously what they wanted and it was a decision that was obviously made in a clear mind considering all the preparation that went into their method and almost 300 coherent posts in this forum.

 

[want2dienow]

They don't want to have a 5 hour conversation with you, much less a 5 second one. They clearly expressed they aren't interested in changing their mind, and you did not get the message. No means no, buddy. Something you apparently haven't grasped.

If you want them to be "okay", then solve their problems instead of your pathetic attempt at virtue signaling. However, you cannot, so leave them be.

Pin this plz.

Oof, your rapist side is showing

You're not funny.
By the way,
a hug = rape, no fists tosses and sheets = rapist

 

[CassieHoward]

nice to see these kind of dramatics aren't going to be tolerated, but i'm curious how they got on the forum at all.

anyway: here's hoping op found her peace, wherever her beautiful soul has ended up. i mentioned to her i would be here but i had something come up - however, i'm glad she was very much not alone. i'm choosing to trust that she felt free of the pain that's plagued her in those final few hours.

 

[DyingMiND]

I wish I could have wished her peace from whatever she was suffering from but I found this thread a little too late. I'm happy that there was a person who supported her through all of this which must've be comforting. Also, most of the comments were positive and supportive of her choice to leave this Earth. However, I was feeling upset about that one individual who kept on trying to "save" her.

As many already posted, it's her decision and she was sure this was the right action to take. I don't know exactly what made her want to CTB, but I understand it was health reasons (but I may be wrong). That one person kept on saying "I've been there... Blah blah blah". No you have not been there because you have no clue at to what she had been through in the past or even around this time before she CTB. She clearly stated she didn't want anyone to post things that would try and deter her from going through her plan. Yet, this individual kept doing what she asked everyone not to do. You should always respect someone's wishes and try to show some compassion for the individual. I understand that "creeper" may have had good intentions because seeing/listening/reading that someone is going to take their life is not easy. It's human nature to want to provide support and "save" others in whatever way possible. But, as I mentioned above, how do you know what she was going through exactly? Do you know anything about her life growing up and into adulthood? Do you know about her job situation or finances? Do you know anything about her personal life? Do you know about her physical health? Yes. You can offer to speak/text to offer support and encouragement, but if they are firm in their decision, then that's something you must respect. Let's say she was suffering from a severe, progressive, incurable and painful medical illness. What would you be able to do for her? You can't take the disease or pain away can you? The OP clearly said not to try and dissuade her because her mind was made up, but you couldn't comprehend that.

I really wish the OP found her peace in the end without much struggle or discomfort.

RIP

 

[ojinzo]

I'm not sure if they did it or not but I wish you a peaceful journey. We had an argument a few months ago on PM. Now I feel awful. Sending you peace