Discussion Experiences with prostitutes?

[Enlighten]

It's been several months since i last got laid and was thinking of ending my dry spell this way. However, i was wondering if you guys had experiences with it so i can gauge how similar it is to real sex and/or whether it'd be worth it of not.

 

[Foreverix]

Doesn't this belong in Off-topic?

 

[Enlighten]

Doesn't this belong in Off-topic?

Didn't bother to look at that. My bad.

 

[Foreverix]

Didn't bother to look at that. My bad.

All good. The mods will probably move it.

But, at least in the US, you get what you pay for. If you're willing to pay a decent amount, and you find the right sources, it's a pretty fun experience. It can also be a very bland, and at times, depressing experience.

 

[avaruus]

I've thought about it, so i atleast wouldn't die as a virgin. But on the other hand, i think i wouldn't want to do it with someone who really doesn't want to do it with me.
I would want to do it with some who loves me and who i love.
So i guess i rather die as a virgin :P

 

[Enlighten]

I've thought about it, so i atleast wouldn't die as a virgin. But on the other hand, i think i wouldn't want to do it with someone who really doesn't want to do it with me.
I would want to do it with some who loves me and who i love.
So i guess i rather die as a virgin :P

That surprises me. You seem kinda chill & nice to hang out with. It's a shame that you haven't had pussy before.
Although it's not world shattering either. I view having sex a bit like a need of having to eat. Everyone should have it at least once in a while.

 

[Foreverix]

I view having sex a bit like a need of having to eat. Everyone should have it at least once in a while.

Honestly, I think a well-made cheesesteak or bowl of pasta is just as good, and much less costly.

 

[Orbitc]

You can search on Google - prostitutes or callgirls (name of your city) - this will give you a good choice. Better choose an individual escort. Never make an advance payment - most likely it will be fraud. I have been working as an individual escort since I was 15 years old. I choose beautiful, adequate clients, not perverts, rich, and despite all this, I hate them. Although I am a good actress, they believe that I have an orgasm with them)))

 

[Enlighten]

You can search on Google - prostitutes or callgirls (name of your city) - this will give you a good choice. Better choose an individual escort. Never make an advance payment - most likely it will be fraud. I have been working as an individual escort since I was 15 years old. I choose beautiful, adequate clients, not perverts, rich, and despite all this, I hate them. Although I am a good actress, they believe that I have an orgasm with them)))

Wow, since you're 15... I hope you're not carrying bagage from that.
Well i'm not beautiful , maybe best to hit the windows after all hahaha
& That's so obvious lol. If one would start moaning like crazy with me i'd just tell them to cut the act haha

 

[Orbitc]

Clients pay and mainly want performance - acting, it just has to be of high quality and look natural. They pay for the illusion of love and delight. They want to feel loved. At least not disgusting))) if I didn't pretend, I wouldn't have regular customers. A man's appearance is not always important - I was once in love with an old freak))

 

[Enlighten]

Very interesting and that does make sense that they want to feel loved. Who doesn't i guess?

 

[theslasher]

Lost my V-card to my ex-girlfriend at 21, she lost hers to me as well. At that point in my life, I had already watched so much damn porn as a teenager that I already new all the moves, she said I was a pro. But when she sucked my salami she used her teeth bro, damn near made me go soft. She aint rly knew what she was doing but it was cute & over time she got much better and sex with her was very fun. Ngl, porn really ruins your mind though and sets false expectations. After doing it once you realize that there's just so much more to life than sex. Kinda sucks bc I partially got with her to experience it, I mean in my mind I mainly dated her bc I was trying to find my person for life, but in hindsight it was also bc I wanted to lose my v-card. That post nut clarity made me see it was lust, and not love. We eventually broke up for other reasons too and I just couldn't imagine us getting married. Anyways, after doing it once you realize sex is cool but it's not something worth spending so much time thinking about. You realize women shouldn't be pedestalized or overly sexualized. Women aren't something you must conquer, but rather, they are people who should be loved and nurtured. Idk man you just look at life differently after losing the v-card. I guess everyone has a different experience though. Another guy said he hired 2 prostitutues who went absolute ham on him. He said it changed his outlook on life, he was more confident, less nervous, less desperate, and now gets lots of women lmao. Shit man do whatever the hell you wanna do, life is too short to puss around. Go for it if you want to bro.

edit: oh my bad I got confused, so I guess OP you already done it. Shit ight well to anyone with their v-card that's a message to you. As for OP you can do whatever the hell you wanna do that's your choice bro.

 

[Kattt]

I worked as an escort for a short while many years ago. I would say it's absolutely worth it for you. Unlike a lot of "real" sex, you know you are not going to fork out entertaining someone and get nothing from it. Plus, you can be sure she knows what she's doing. A lot of women, especially younger girls, will be less experienced and adept at satisfying you.
Don't pick someone up from the street. Go to a site like adultwork where you can interact with them in advance and ensure its the right person for you. You will also be able to agree in advance as to any specific services you want... not all escorts offer all services. This way, you will pay according to the time you spend together.
Never ask them to do "bareback" (without a condom). Even if you want that, if she agrees, you are not only sleeping with her at considerable risk, but everyone else she's done it with too.
There's a fallacy that escorts are full of STDs. I never one had an STD. Many girls have regular tests and carry an up to date certificate of health from the GUM clinic.
You can request services like a "porn star experience" if that's your bag, a "girlfriend experience" or any manner of other weird shit.

 

[Enlighten]

I worked as an escort for a short while many years ago. I would say it's absolutely worth it for you. Unlike a lot of "real" sex, you know you are not going to fork out entertaining someone and get nothing from it. Plus, you can be sure she knows what she's doing. A lot of women, especially younger girls, will be less experienced and adept at satisfying you.
Don't pick someone up from the street. Go to a site like adultwork where you can interact with them in advance and ensure its the right person for you. You will also be able to agree in advance as to any specific services you want... not all escorts offer all services. This way, you will pay according to the time you spend together.
Never ask them to do "bareback" (without a condom). Even if you want that, if she agrees, you are not only sleeping with her at considerable risk, but everyone else she's done it with too.
There's a fallacy that escorts are full of STDs. I never one had an STD. Many girls have regular tests and carry an up to date certificate of health from the GUM clinic.
You can request services like a "porn star experience" if that's your bag, a "girlfriend experience" or any manner of other weird shit.

Wow, those are very valuable insights. Thank you so much! I will def take a look and take it into consideration :)

 

[social_anxiety]

I had an experience with an escort few months ago. It was my first time paying somenone for sex. Despite not being a virgin it was a long time since I have had sex.

I genuinely didn't like the experience. I need somenone to truly likes me to enjoy the moment. When I was with her I knew she was "just doing her job".

Besides that I think my expectations were too high. But it was worth the shot. It was something I always wanted to do to see how it was

 

[Silo2938]

mostly is depressing, you want love but they want money. only one girl (prostitute) in my experienced that i genuienly feel happy, i paid her basic tariff (just for little bj and penetrating) but after i lick her pussy (ofc i tell her to wash it first) and make her orgasm she gave me full service, include cim. sadly i cannot find her again (i hope she is okay).

 

[trashhologram]

You can search on Google - prostitutes or callgirls (name of your city) - this will give you a good choice. Better choose an individual escort. Never make an advance payment - most likely it will be fraud. I have been working as an individual escort since I was 15 years old. I choose beautiful, adequate clients, not perverts, rich, and despite all this, I hate them. Although I am a good actress, they believe that I have an orgasm with them)))

Many escorts take deposits so they won't lose as much money in case of a no call, no show as they would without the deposit.

I've been a sex worker for 7 years this summer on and off. I've done escorting, stripping, OF/Fansly, domination and selling used underwear. I love my job and really appreciate my clients as long they treat me right.

I had an experience with an escort few months ago. It was my first time paying somenone for sex. Despite not being a virgin it was a long time since I have had sex.

I genuinely didn't like the experience. I need somenone to truly likes me to enjoy the moment. When I was with her I knew she was "just doing her job".

Besides that I think my expectations were too high. But it was worth the shot. It was something I always wanted to do to see how it was

Yup, some escorts have bad days or just don't feel like working and putting on an act that they're having a good time. I understand that but I think it's kinda unprofessional. We're getting paid to please our clients so we should act accordingly, even when we're having a bad day. I usually truly enjoy my time with my clients unless we just don't vibe or they're being an ass.

 

[the old man]

You always have to pay for sex somehow, drinks, meals, clothes, jewellery, transport, mortgages/rent, gifts, heartache, despair then divorce