Everyone has the right to wanna stop talking with someone but ghosting without explanation is just straight up cruel

[hellonearth144]

Unless maybe the person abused you etc.
But if you talked to someone for almost a year straight everyday for hours, shared secrets and deep convos, spent time, felt connection and then you block and ghost without prior conflict or anything suggesting you will do that... Its just straight up cruel. Even if the person moves on and stops caring, they will still never close this chapter unless they get clarification on what fucking happened. I wanna move on. I got treated like trash through being ghosted. Less than even.
I was so attached yeah my fault that was probably annoying and she probably just lost any care and felt neutral so she unconsciously was cruel maybe not even on purpose but omfg it's so fucking inconsiderate!!! It was platonic but I never felt as deeply for anyone. This person was soothing to me and made me and my whole existence complete didn't even need any romance or physical intimacy shit human need. Just this friendship. Yeah I know I'm annoying but omfg
I spend years suffering it's been over a year actually bc she didn't even bother to explain WHY to me. I deleted anything I sent her until days ago when I tried to write the least pressing least emotional least reopening things leats guilt tripping message asking for simple clarification and then she might leave or block me as she pleases. Idk if she even uses that account anymore. I'm so tired, I'm so frustrated just let me fucking go. How do I get a fucking response

 

[pepperfarmer]

People are weird like that. A lot of people have this really weird aversion to conflict but simultaneously hold resent whenever people do something that upsets them. So they just let it build up over time, never address it and then take it out on you all at once at some point.

It's not really your fault, since she never told you what (if anything) you did wrong.

 

[lastappleonearth]

Unless maybe the person abused you etc.
But if you talked to someone for almost a year straight everyday for hours, shared secrets and deep convos, spent time, felt connection and then you block and ghost without prior conflict or anything suggesting you will do that... Its just straight up cruel. Even if the person moves on and stops caring, they will still never close this chapter unless they get clarification on what fucking happened. I wanna move on. I got treated like trash through being ghosted. Less than even.
I was so attached yeah my fault that was probably annoying and she probably just lost any care and felt neutral so she unconsciously was cruel maybe not even on purpose but omfg it's so fucking inconsiderate!!! It was platonic but I never felt as deeply for anyone. This person was soothing to me and made me and my whole existence complete didn't even need any romance or physical intimacy shit human need. Just this friendship. Yeah I know I'm annoying but omfg
I spend years suffering it's been over a year actually bc she didn't even bother to explain WHY to me. I deleted anything I sent her until days ago when I tried to write the least pressing least emotional least reopening things leats guilt tripping message asking for simple clarification and then she might leave or block me as she pleases. Idk if she even uses that account anymore. I'm so tired, I'm so frustrated just let me fucking go. How do I get a fucking response

Yeah I agree and I'm sorry this happened to you. Happened to me after talking with someone every day for 3 years and being as close as one can be. Well I mean I'm sure she had her reasons and I get that in a way, but it's so painful, because you'll never get any closure that way and the last conversation you had was probably just about a random topic, as you didn't realise that it's gonna be the last one. I guess it's easier to just leave and not explain everything, but it's not right