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Tyra

Tyra

Pic is from Shawshank Redemption after he escaped.
Jul 22, 2026
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I have agoraphobia btw. I think it will take me 2 hours of primarily biking and then some walking to get to my forest location.

I feel like being a woman + being alone draws eyes to me. I just really hate attention it makes me nervous. It also could make things safer if I dress male.

I have a pair of baggy male looking jeans, male sneakers, and a black baggy hoodie. I was going to tie my hair back and put the hood on, and then maybe even wear a baseball cap under the hoodie too. To overt eyes from my face a bit.

I'm not sure if this will look sketchy? I must cover my hair but I don't know if the baseball cap would draw eyes to me.

I also bought contacts online so I don't have to wear my glasses and they come in 1 week and I'm super nervous to visit my location.

I can't wear glasses because I feel like it would make me look weak or draw attention. Because it just makes me not look like the norm.

Does anyone have any other advice for me?
 
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Bootleg Astolfo

Bootleg Astolfo

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Oct 12, 2020
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Slightly oversized ''lumberjack'' jacket and loose fitted jeans, no one will really tell or care.

well, unless you're not in NA, i have no idea how much someone in europe/asia/etc would stand out looking like a canadian lumberjack.
 
Bootleg Astolfo

Bootleg Astolfo

Glorious Bean Plushie
Oct 12, 2020
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Do you think I should wear a baseball cap under the hood of the jacket/hoodie?

My goal is really to blend in and not draw any attention but look male at the same time.

I'm also Canadian if it matters.
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I'd find someone with a black hoodie in the forest sus, but a lumberjack fit, i'd just assume it's someone who's into nature. Just wear a beanie or something, it's even more canada stealth.

Just maybe not... not this lumberjacky

hes-a-lumberjack-hes-okay-v0-198zz4t9hv5e1.jpeg
 
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Tyra

Tyra

Pic is from Shawshank Redemption after he escaped.
Jul 22, 2026
336
OHHHH CAAANNAAADD-
I'd find someone with a black hoodie in the forest sus, but a lumberjack fit, i'd just assume it's someone who's into nature. Just wear a beanie or something, it's even more canada stealth.

Just maybe not... not this lumberjacky

hes-a-lumberjack-hes-okay-v0-198zz4t9hv5e1.jpeg
Dang if I wear a beanie I have to do it in the fall… because wearing a beanie in the summer doesn't work.

Ah well, I guess it makes no difference in the end.
 
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imagonner

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Aug 9, 2026
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if i feel like not being recognised as a female, i wear mens tracksuit top AND bottom (i only buy mens anyway, i cant stand womens figure hugging sportswear 🤮🖕) and pull up the hoodie. if im feeling super antisocial on top of that, i also wear a baseball cap. sometimes, its like placing a massive arrow over my head for police to stop me, but id rather that than be raped...
 

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