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thoughtitwouldbedif

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Jun 23, 2025
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I had finally began to make progress overcoming my horrible mental state. I had finally started to trust that maybe I was going to be allowed to be happy. But my wife just told me she wasn't sure she wants to stay married. I thought our life was perfect and this really just blindsided me. She's taking some time to think about what she wants and this ambiguity is killing me. Every moment feels like torture. I don't know if this will be last day I get to play with my dogs. I don't want to catch the bus but I really don't think I'll be able to go on if she wants a divorce. I just can't do it.
 
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wham311

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Mar 1, 2025
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I had finally began to make progress overcoming my horrible mental state. I had finally started to trust that maybe I was going to be allowed to be happy. But my wife just told me she wasn't sure she wants to stay married. I thought our life was perfect and this really just blindsided me. She's taking some time to think about what she wants and this ambiguity is killing me. Every moment feels like torture. I don't know if this will be last day I get to play with my dogs. I don't want to catch the bus but I really don't think I'll be able to go on if she wants a divorce. I just can't do it.
Let her come back to you, be strong.

Life your life keep busy, I'm sure you know all this shit
 
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thoughtitwouldbedif

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Jun 23, 2025
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Let her come back to you, be strong.

Life your life keep busy, I'm sure you know all this shit
Thank you, really thank you.

Our counselor recommended her taking this time to see if she can find what she needs in this relationship. It's just so hard to have the love of your life sitting in the other room and you can't even tell her you love her.
 
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gottacheckout

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Wow, I'm sorry you have to go through this.đź«‚:heart:
 

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