Discussion do you think you are a good person ?

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I think that iam kind, i try to respect people around me. But i need to say that i get really angry sometimes at people, sometimes im so aggressive that iam scared of myself, but i know that this is only my borderline. Iam not like this.

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

Nope. Absolutely not. Not even close. No way, no how.

I'm genuinely terrible in so many ways and I do nothing to fix them because I am lazy and selfish. Any attempt at forgiving myself might as well be tantamount to forgiving every war criminal who's ever existed.

And if for some reason you're one of those who doesn't believe I'm as bad as I say: I'm sorry you feel that way but you're wrong.

 

[Red Moon]

I don't think I'm a good person but I try to be good and with people around me.

 

[Agon321]

A complicated question.
I have flaws and views that make me not an objectively good person.

However, I don't want to be a completely "good" person.
I believe that you also have to be a "bad" person in life.
Sometimes you even have to be cruel.
My morality means that I cannot be called a "good" person in the general sense.
Of course, I'm also not an evil person.
Sometimes I do "good" things.
I'm just not always a "good" person.

I may be good to some people but bad to others.
I can't answer completely clearly.
Context is very important.

 

[hard2exist]

Im a bad person and I dont deserve to live. I never wanted to be this way,I dont even know myself. I never asked for this, not sure if anyone does but it is what it is.

 

[ijustwishtodie]

I don't care if I'm good or bad or whatever. I just want to be dead. I don't want to be alive at all

 

[1MiserableGuy]

"Good person" is just a term liberals made up to divide everyone into people who are and aren't aligned with them

 

[FuneralCry]

I don't really have strong feelings towards myself honestly, but I know that I'm certainly not the problem but rather existence is. I was just unfortunate enough to be forced into such an undesirable existence that I'm not meant for that only caused me to suffer, I never should have been a person at all.

 

[Saturn_]

I'm a horrible person who can only be afforded the benefit of the doubt through omission of all the evil I've committed. Blending into society, into intimacy, is a persistent masking of the self. I am horrible to others and they are horrible to me, and I might as well put an end to this Sisyphean climb of futility. I am irreparable, and I don't deserve repair. I will happily go about destroying everything good I have left until the day I finally drop dead.

 

[Meteora]

I always thought I was.... there's people saying I'm not, though. Some treat me as if I was the devil in person. That's very akward to me, cause I m the most harmless person I ve ever know. Complex probably, yes. But that's not necessarily negative, in my opinion, also because I did not choose it.

 

[Sulyya]

None are good, no not one.

I try to act kindly to people often, but I don't like doing it or want to.

 

[marchshift]

No. I'm not a good person.

 

[Mirrory Me]

Yes... Sometimes very unfortunate things happen in life that make me wonder if I'm a good person. I know I'm not perfect and that spirits can be cruel... So I believe in karma and that life can sometimes be very black and white against you.

 

[sserafim]

I guess I'm a good person because I've never actively been "bad". I've never harmed or hurt anyone, and if I did, it wasn't intentional

 

[Red Moon]

I guess I'm a good person because I've never actively been "bad". I've never harmed or hurt anyone, and if I did, it wasn't intentional

I didn't intend to harm anyone either and maybe it was my autism that made me say and do things which I didn't mean and didn't realize were rude and offensive. I don't know if I'm a good person or not but I saw it somewhere that autistic men are usually good.

 

[sserafim]

I didn't intend to harm anyone either and maybe it was my autism that made me say and do things which I didn't mean and didn't realize were rude and offensive. I don't know if I'm a good person or not but I saw it somewhere that autistic men are usually good.

What about autistic women? I'm female lol

 

[Bells]

I try to be a "good person", whatever that really means. Don't know if I am one though. Not trying to harm anyone, at least intentionally.

In recent years I think I've been so stuck inside my own head, with my own concerns and thoughts, that my relationships with friends and loved ones have suffered because of it. I feel like I have been having a hard time to care about others because I'm just so stuck in self-hatred and only focus how miserable I feel. It's kinda oxymoronic; makes me feel really narcissistic but also like I don't really hate anyone else than myself.

 

[Eudaimonic]

I don't think I'm a good person. I'm not always very nice to, or (affectively) empathetic towards, those around me.
I am selfish and self-centered.
The only sense in which I am "good" is my compassion towards living things in general.

 

[mors.mihi.lucrum]

I feel like I am for the most part. The overwhelming emotions can cause me to drown them out with alcohol, and that's when people seem to forget everything about me except my poor coping mechanism, so although I feel I'm a good person, it's hard to believe when I'm easily made so small.

 

[moshimoshi]

Definitely not. It's one of my main reasons for CTB, I think I'm an awful person and I feel like I don't deserve to be alive. I have so many regrets

 

[ham and potatoes]

I try to be nice, friendly, and helpful to people, but I feel like it's just a facade trying to mask the shitty person I truly am deep down

 

[Red Moon]

What about autistic women? I'm female lol

I know that you are and I think it was just men that was said.

 

[Guy Smiley]

What about autistic women? I'm female lol

autistic women fuckin rule!

 

[EmptyHeaded]

Nuh uh. I'm far too annoying to be even a decent person. I'm pretty sure I even annoy people here haha...

 

[robotomy]

Tough question. Years ago I used to be noticeably worse, but not bad enough to commit a crime or blatantly hurt someone. Nowadays i still aint a saint, but i try to mentally push back during most instances where i think im being a bad or semi-bad person.

Despite that, i have blindspots, and new "bad" parts of me come up from time to time. Especially when you run into new scenarios, new lifestyles, new problems, new kinds of people, etc. Because I'm still pretty inexperienced at alot of life stuff. Part of that includes not even knowing just how "bad" my new issues are. Maybe theyre all nothingburgers compared to what's out there. Regardless, i think i could be a bit better.

Sometimes it takes awhile for me to look back and notice the times when i couldve been better. And when i do, i contemplate and cringe. So ive made mistakes (even super recently) and expect to make more and more…but that might have to keep happening for me to change more. And hopefully it graaaaduuaally gets better…

 

[kilowatt]

I'm nice
But I'm nowhere near a good person. I have done and would do horrible things to myself and others on purpose. Gives me the kick

 

[sammiechzxv]

I'm not a bad person.

 

[HereTomorrow]

5 years ago, absolutely not. I was an asshole to everybody who even bothered to tolerate me.

Now? I'm unsure. I feel like I try my best to actively do good things but always have that lingering thought that nobody will ever think I'm worthy of being a good person. I hope one day that will change, I want to die a good person.