Discussion Do guys here want to ctb because lack of love from women?

[gregisss]

Well I think the question is in the topic.

I think that lot of guys are violent , agressive, jealous, depressed mainly because the didnt had enough love or at least compliments by women.

 

[LifeIsASadist]

Yes

yea it's all womens fault men are violent and miserable

Dont mention that here. Don't want to start fights on a forum of vulnerable people ya knows?

 

[lifesuck398]

yea it's all womens fault men are violent and miserable

Don't say it like that. That is not accurate. Both sex's have their problems and faults.

 

[ObsidianEnigma]

It's not only men. Some women also want to ctb because they can't find love.

Evolution is cruel. Therefore, life is cruel.

We seem to always strive to get a better partner than we ourselves are. So we always struggle to get one, and we usually fail and suffer. And for what? So we can possibly have kids who will also suffer.

 

[StupidCat]

Not really, I want to ctb because of lack of money.

 

[LOVELYDARKDEEP]

If you're one of those people that think sex will make you happy or make life worth living, you're going to end up being pretty disappointed. There's a worm at the core of everything, and I'm pretty sure you'll find that reality will never match the fantasy you've built so high. Physical intimacy and relationships are all very human, and because of that they're almost guaranteed to be imperfect and disappointing.

 

[bankai]

I was depressed on my own. It doesn't have anything to do with women. I love women, so much lol.I feel they're nurturing caregivers. I wouldn't be alive today if my mother wasn't still around.She's the most important person in my life.



I love them enough to not include them in my suffering though. My suffering is my own. It's not anyone else's burden to share.

But to your point OP, most guys are violent, aggressive, etcetera because it's in their nature. It's not because of women.

 

[Darkover]

human relationships are a disaster both male and female of the species are despicable if it wasn't for the desire to have sex this species would go extinct and good riddance to the whole animal kingdom is an abomination the sooner this world ends the better

 

[EvisceratedJester]

Dont mention that here. Don't want to start fights on a forum of vulnerable people ya knows?

I'm sorry, but the OP literally blamed men being violent on women not giving them enough attention. @sickDog420 was completely in the right to call that out.

 

[Gustav Hartmann]

This would definitively be the most stupid reason to kill oneself. It´s a problem of stoichometrie, a question of how to find each other, in modern times of the internet it should much easier than in those days when I was young.

 

[enjoytheride]

I've seen this as a recurring issue, amongst others, in some of the venting posts here (since I joined). I don't know to what degree it influences one's psychological well-being and how much it is the main issue, but it seems to play an important role. Perhaps the mechanic of it is this:
a) you are a man and your self-esteem is low;
b) women do not give you attention or you see other people in relationships, but you aren't;
c) this, to your eyes, reinforces your belief that you are not worthy (low self-esteem).

So I wouldn't say that most men are missing sexual intercourse in itself, but rather being loved by a woman in that specific, romantic way. It doesn't help that we imagine that society sees us differently when we are grown up and single, and that we imagine that if others want nothing intimate with us, we lack in value as human beings. These are logical fallacies, but still very powerful ones.

Throughout my life I've met horrible people who are in a relationship, and also wonderful people, who are single. Being single doesn't mean there's something wrong with you and it doesn't seem to be related in anyway to your general competence and value as a human being. To me it seems rather like a social practice, automatism.

I think that it is normal to believe that care and love by a romantic partner will help you regain some of your self-esteem, give you an additional reason to get up in the morning. And then there is also the need we have to love someone.

 

[wham311]

This would definitively be the most stupid reason to kill oneself. It´s a problem of stoichometrie, a question of how to find each other, in modern times of the internet it should much easier than in those days when I was young.

Eh it changes.

Dating is different now. People settled down earlier, there's games, miscommunication due to texting, plenty of options so on to the next one. I feel like people have to work more now so longer hours. Idk I could be wrong

I've been single 10 months now and know I'll never find someone again, its just natural to really get depressed and havs a shitty life if youre ledt out romantically.

 

[Esc9434]

No, a lot of people, not just guys, are violent, aggressive, jealous, and depressed cause they didn't get enough love during their formative years.

At a young age, people need reassurance that they are enough as they are by receiving love from those close to them.

So, this problem has already existed before romantic love ever entered a person's mind.

These people usually go on to have dysfunctional romantic love relationships due to their misguided views about love or self-identity.

Failure of these relationships usually reinforce these negative point of views until someone encourages them to get help.

 

[uwushhdjwiio]

No it's because im stuck on the spectrum switching sides between pessimistic nihilism and absurdism, whenever life's heading towards an undesirable path, nihilism takes over and if life goes well, absurdism. nonetheless being on either sides still makes me think of wanting to ctb, being on the nihilist side just provokes it. currently im on the nihilist side.

 

[blacksand]

I've long since outgrown my desires that I used to have regarding women in general. I am intensely depressed over a girl I should have shot my shot with a few years ago though.

 

[Crematoryy]

that's why i want CTB.

 

[Hotsackage]

Doesn't help the situation, thats for sur3

 

[askmeifimatree]

it feels good to be cared for. I'm not sure sex would fix anything. Gentle, simple love maybe would make me want to see past summer.