Help Distraction

[bearbrikk]

I need a distraction from my own.. How are you feeling right now?

 

[jinx <3]

Hello! I'm currently doing alright. Kind of lonely, but when am I not? I think my partner is coming over later, but I still feel kind of empty and hollow rn. Anyway, what about you? How are you feeling? Why is it that you need a distraction, if you don't mind my asking?

 

[Traveller12724]

Hello! I'm currently doing alright. Kind of lonely, but when am I not? I think my partner is coming over later, but I still feel kind of empty and hollow rn. Anyway, what about you? How are you feeling? Why is it that you need a distraction, if you don't mind my asking?

Wait how do you deal with having a partner and feeling like this ? always feeling lonely ?

 

[lkjhgfdsa1]

hahaha gezellig

 

[jinx <3]

Wait how do you deal with having a partner and feeling like this ? always feeling lonely ?

It seems contradictory, but even having a partner does not fix all feelings of loneliness. In fact, some feelings are increased. This is because it's impossible for someone to truly 'know' you, so you end up feeling lonely when your partner doesn't get you or doesn't understand what you're going through.

I'm very suicidal, and my partners (I'm polyamorous, I have three partners, don't ask please) don't often understand unfortunately. That's why I'm on here ig.

idk if that answered your question, lmk if you need clarification.

 

[bearbrikk]

Hello! I'm currently doing alright. Kind of lonely, but when am I not? I think my partner is coming over later, but I still feel kind of empty and hollow rn. Anyway, what about you? How are you feeling? Why is it that you need a distraction, if you don't mind my asking?

I get the feeling of loneliness. I have a partner of 2 years but I still feel lonely. It's a different kind of lonely especially because they are neurotypical. Im very triggered. my BPD is triggered.

 

[Traveller12724]

It seems contradictory, but even having a partner does not fix all feelings of loneliness. In fact, some feelings are increased. This is because it's impossible for someone to truly 'know' you, so you end up feeling lonely when your partner doesn't get you or doesn't understand what you're going through.

I'm very suicidal, and my partners (I'm polyamorous, I have three partners, don't ask please) don't often understand unfortunately. That's why I'm on here ig.

idk if that answered your question, lmk if you need clarification.

Oh I get it, you are definitely right about it being impossible for someone to truly know you. I have friends who call me their best friend but they don't really know me deep down. Good for you for being polyamorous, just wish it could alleviate all that loneliness and pain for you.