If i wouldnt have contacted you nobody here would have known in the first place that you have a story to share.
They wouldn't have known I had a story if you hadn't posted here.
And my story only exists because of what prompted you to contact me.
But you keep reframing it as me withholding precious information from the community, having trust issues, etc.
I have responded to each of your posts calmly, rationally, and clearly. However, you perceive my personal boundaries and rational responses as attacks.
What I have to share is only relevant to the community if you share what prompted to you approach me. I am respecting your boundaries by not revealing what you wrote in PM, only you can decide whether or not to share it. It is a sign of my ethics and integrity that I don't reveal it in spite of your repeated attacks. Your PM is not my defense, my integrity is.
I've clearly laid out on this thread and, previously, in my first PM response, what I require in order to give you the answers you want. Until that's met, I have nothing to share. I'll lay it out one final time:
1. What happened that prompted you to approach me and ask me for information that would give you clarification? Why is it about me in particular? This is the foundational issue. If that had not happened, and if it had not been related to me, you would not have sought clarification from me.
2. Who did you quote in the two sentences you already shared in this thread?
3. What were the first two sentences of that quote?
4. If you provide these responses on this thread, then I will respond on this thread. Otherwise, it's an invasion into my personal life, and I have no obligation to satisfy your questions or soothe any discomfort you may feel, because I didn't cause it. (If other members are uncomfortable, I bear no responsibility for that. I didn't introduce the discussion or reframe issues to prompt them to view me with suspicion of withholding, or as selfish.)
5. If you are unwilling to meet these requirements, I have no reason to continue to engage with you in PM or on the thread.
Sincere best wishes to you as well.