Ctb becauese cant get a girl

[Snatsbats]

Dont kill yourself over an imaginary thing man. Real love only exists in movies and stories. Women dont really love you they love what you can do for them. Women nowadays aint loyal. They make their own money ao they dont need you and if they had their little fun with you they go on to the next one. More men need to wake up. Dont value yourself on the amount of women you can get. Find something that gives you meaning and fking love yourself man!

 

[Delia]

my man if you kill urself you sure as well won't get a gf ever

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

my man if you kill urself you sure as well won't get a gf ever

Several levels above human cognition.

 

[BrokenArrow]

I also was really depressed because I barely had any girlfriends. Then I tried really hard, put effort in, did cringy 'pick up' stuff and have now had sex with 22 girls. Guess what? I still plan to CTB for entirely different reasons. It won't make any difference. It doesn't even matter. If you're curious about what the sensation is, just pay for a hooker.

 

[UseItOrLoseIt]

Well, I've been married. But in the midst of it I decided that taking a hormonal drug to treat my bald patch would be a good idea. So now I'm divorced and nearly impotent. Being a 3 doesn't help either.
My ex wife was the first women I've ever kissed and the only women I ever made love to. Before her I felt lonely, but now... This is a whole other level of hell. A wasteland with no potential. The future is bleak and empty and I feel old, like I've already done everything I was supposed to do.
Love is the answer, the simplest things usually are. There is nothing strange to want to be loved and want someone to want your love. And there is nothing strange to be torn when there's no connection, or to feel trapped under the pressure of the love you can never share.

 

[fixitinpost]

Lol you have no idea what ur talking about. Attractive people are more funnier because halo effect. Those studies are all bullshit because it is asking men and women and men and women's opinions do not matter. It is their actions.

Even if that study is wrong (which it just as well could be), and that I'm full of shit (which is true at least half of the time by my count) - do you still think this mindset is going to help you? That was what I was trying to get at, and I ask this sincerely btw. Guys have all been hurt by women at some point, or perhaps stayed away out of fear of being so. Rejected, dumped, even cheated on (I went for the hat-trick). But this kind of mindset easily becomes self-perpetuating. Like yeah, there are women who are shallow, gold-diggers, cheaters, what-have-you. There are narcissists and those with unreasonable expectations and standards. Men also. I don't know why it's so important to get hung up on these people. They are not the women you want. At some point you just gotta say say "whatever" and try to focus yourself on the good majority.

And to be clear, this last bit is something I'm just recently learning for myself. I could get terribly hung up on those who cheated on, ghosted, dumped me etc.

 

[lifesucksxoxo]

Even if that study is wrong (which it just as well could be), and that I'm full of shit (which is true at least half of the time by my count) - do you still think this mindset is going to help you? That was what I was trying to get at, and I ask this sincerely btw. Guys have all been hurt by women at some point, or perhaps stayed away out of fear of being so. Rejected, dumped, even cheated on (I went for the hat-trick). But this kind of mindset easily becomes self-perpetuating. Like yeah, there are women who are shallow, gold-diggers, cheaters, what-have-you. There are narcissists and those with unreasonable expectations and standards. Men also. I don't know why it's so important to get hung up on these people. They are not the women you want. At some point you just gotta say say "whatever" and try to focus yourself on the good majority.

And to be clear, this last bit is something I'm just recently learning for myself. I could get terribly hung up on those who cheated on, ghosted, dumped me etc.

So you know that guys get hurt by women but women aren't bad people? My mindset isn't going to help me. It is what it is. I can't change how this world works.

 

[Delia]

Several levels above human cognition.

I know right took me a short minute to figure it out

 

[NothingElseMatters]

I also was really depressed because I barely had any girlfriends. Then I tried really hard, put effort in, did cringy 'pick up' stuff and have now had sex with 22 girls. Guess what? I still plan to CTB for entirely different reasons. It won't make any difference. It doesn't even matter. If you're curious about what the sensation is, just pay for a hooker.

Actually I'm not a virgin as someone said above, I already had sex with a few hookers and 1 girl for free, don't ask me how that happened. But still, I have never had a girlfriend and thats what I miss the most, someone to share my life with.

 

[fixitinpost]

So you know that guys get hurt by women but women aren't bad people? My mindset isn't going to help me. It is what it is. I can't change how this world works.

Exactly, it's not going to help you. The world doesn't have to change, but your perception of it does or you're putting roadblocks in front of you that needn't be there. As for your question, well no. Hurting someone doesn't automatically make you a bad person, and just because there are bad people doesn't mean everyone is bad.

 

[Symbiote]

If you're a white dude, your best shop is south east Asia. The women there are absolutely crazy for white cock. You'll leave a with a wife.

Ah yes, the Marry me for green card trick, and she'll divorce you while taking 100% of your assets because you were a desperate dumbass. Serves them all right.

 

[jakaranda3]

Lol you have no idea what ur talking about. Attractive people are more funnier because halo effect. Those studies are all bullshit because it is asking men and women and men and women's opinions do not matter. It is their actions.

It's correlated. Attractive people are more likely to be funnier (and intelligent). But It doesn't mean one causes the other. You have examples of beautiful people with bad personality, as well ugly people with nice personality.

And taking all cases that match the examples given above, my perception is that nice personalities win over beautifulness.

 

[Symbiote]

I'm a 0 in the looks category but I find my self-deprecating humor the life of the crowd. Anyways, women don't like desperate men that only see them as a possible fuck-hole. Goes for both attractive and ugly men.

 

[Symbiote]

Helps to be six or seven figured income rich too. If you're just making under 100k, then you're considered garbage to them.

 

[wordsonscreen]

Just going to pop in here and say there is some REALLY toxic shit on this thread. Jesus fucking christ. Read a book. No wonder you have no partners or struggle with dating- you have no respect for women and you have fucked up internalized ideas. Are we really going to let the insane level of racism and sexism slide????? Wow. Good luck sustaining ANY relationship with concepts like these.

I do not have the energy to even BEGIN to explain why several comments on this thread are straight up toxic and wrong. There are issues on so many levels. Figure it out yourselves- we are adults here, hopefully. I really hope young kids don't read this and think this is how the world works.

Read. a. book. Educate yourselves!!

I'm out. I'm really disappointed.

 

[262653]

As someone who doesn't feel frustrated about not having a gf, I feel like a celestial being who doesn't have to eat, drink, bathe, or even breathe.

 

[ZardozOmega]

Helps to be six or seven figured income rich too. If you're just making under 100k, then you're considered garbage to them.

you need to be rich for russians, not SEA women. Just be white.

 

[greyhound]

Somehow I find the incel aspect the most depressing part of this forum.
I think it's more like consider yourself lucky if you're in the minority of people who actually are having good sex and are in love.
It's like CTBing for not winning the lottery or something.

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

Somehow I find the incel aspect the most depressing part of this forum.
I think it's more like consider yourself lucky if you're in the minority of people who actually are having good sex and are in love.
It's like CTBing for not winning the lottery or something.

It's more like I'm ctb'ing because I can't even afford a ticket.

 

[reticen]

3D girls a shit. Get anime waifus.

 

[Makko]

3D girls a shit. Get anime waifus.

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[Dr Iron Arc]

3D girls a shit. Get anime waifus.

Spoiler: Reminds me of this meme

 

[Victoria]

Dont kill yourself over an imaginary thing man. Real love only exists in movies and stories. Women dont really love you they love what you can do for them. Women nowadays aint loyal. They make their own money ao they dont need you and if they had their little fun with you they go on to the next one. More men need to wake up. Dont value yourself on the amount of women you can get. Find something that gives you meaning and fking love yourself man!

What's the matter with you???

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

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Good analysis, women and men tend to face different problems with this system. Often overlooked by lonely men that being treated as trash is also terrible.

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There is a big difference between love and sex, but yes both are coming from a similar place biologically. Too much of a stretch to write it off altogether (though this might get easier to do as this cultural development continues).

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You have it backwards, the loneliness comes before the sexism.

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

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Not sure how that's relevant to what I said, but I agree.

 

[Julgran]

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It is our biological imperative to reproduce - not that we have to, but because nature has constucted us this way. With this imperative comes conditions upon the human being - such as the appearance of "sking hunger" if one doesn't experience human touch, and also loneliness an depression. This this is an imperative, anger may also follow, since the lonely person is a living being who needs touch, which means that it's a biological death sentence not to have a significant other, with whom they can share their love and have sex.

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Have you ever told a homeless person that they are entitled for being hungry, and that eating food is overrated? Love and sex is equally as important for men, if not more.

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When all facts, of which not all have been stated here, have been taken into account, I would like to say this:

1. Men today perceive women of having too high standards
2. Those high standards are not women's fauly, though.
3. The reason being that men grew up without proper guidance, which has caused women today to ask "Where have all the good men gone?". The truth is that they were never here, because no one naught women and men how to raise their sons and daughters how to properly cherish each other.

Liken this to a mountain climber, if you will - the mountain climber sees Mount Everest and thinks that it's too high to climb, but with the right equipment - and if the mountain climber's trainer has tutored them correctly - it may be possible. Without the proper training, the mountain climber will still be standing on the ground, looking up at the women who are standing at the top of Mount Everest and think "How ever did they get up there?"

 

[IQLESS]

I'd say It's pretty normal, but I'm usually pretty okay with the fact that I won't probably find anyone, relationships are a hassle and they are difficult to maintain, I just can't bother with dealing shit like that besides I'm too busy for having one anyway due to academic pressure. I've never asked anyone out and I don't have the need to, I'm fine alone.

 

[FeraD]

I have this TMAU plus pudendal neuralgia. Imagine the pain I go through, but I'm still pushing on

I can completely relate to this. I have a rare incurable condition that makes my body smell like fish or garbage so you can probably imagine how low I feel. It mainly affects my reproductive parts so I have had men ridicule me for it as me being dirty. I can't connect with men anymore it's ruined me

 

[lonerclown666]

i cant forget a girl that i like i cant meet other girls and they dont want to talk to me i cant move on from her

 

[OnlyTheWind]

i cant forget a girl that i like i cant meet other girls and they dont want to talk to me i cant move on from her

Wow, that sounds exactly like me. It feels like a horrible, lightless place that you can never leave.