Ctb becauese cant get a girl

[NothingElseMatters]

No girl has ever been attracted to me. Is it normal I have suicidal thoughts because of that? Not only that but its a big part of my depression.

 

[It'sNotLookingGood]

I think it would be abnormal if that didn't make you suicidal, truly.

 

[Nigh]

Everybody craves love, so why wouldn't you?

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

I'm creating my imaginary girlfriend out of my own tears and blood.

 

[Bootleg Astolfo]

 

[death137]

I believe any reason is valid to suicide if the person is suffering from it. Why do you think is preventing you from having a gf?

 

[x~Sophia~x]

Everyone wants to feel love and to be loved. I can imagine seeing couples out and about, holding hands and kissing, would make you crave love and a relationship and cause you to be very depressed because you haven't experienced love.
Have you tried online dating groups?
Do you have friends you could get together with to go to bars /clubs to meet girls? Difficult at the moment with covid, I know, but something to think about when everything 's back to normal.

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

online dating

 

[loopylou]

I can completely relate to this. I have a rare incurable condition that makes my body smell like fish or garbage so you can probably imagine how low I feel. It mainly affects my reproductive parts so I have had men ridicule me for it as me being dirty. I can't connect with men anymore it's ruined me

 

[x~Sophia~x]

Aww don't...
It's certainly worth a try, especially for people who don't have a social life /don't go out much How else could OP meet a girl?

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

Aww don't...
It's certainly worth a try, especially for people who don't have a social life /don't go out much How else could OP meet a girl?

I tried it for three years and paid money, doesn't work.

 

[x~Sophia~x]

I tried it for three years and paid money, doesn't work.

It didn't work for YOU! Who's to say it won't work for OP?
Don't be so dismissive :/

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

It didn't work for YOU! Who's to say it won't work for OP?
Don't be so dismissive :/

From what I've heard it doesn't work for suicidally depressed guys, but whatever.

 

[NothingElseMatters]

I believe any reason is valid to suicide if the person is suffering from it. Why do you think is preventing you from having a gf?

Sometimes I think I'm ugly, that's gotta be the reason, and I'm shy as fuck too.

Everyone wants to feel love and to be loved. I can imagine seeing couples out and about, holding hands and kissing, would make you crave love and a relationship and cause you to be very depressed because you haven't experienced love.
Have you tried online dating groups?
Do you have friends you could get together with to go to bars /clubs to meet girls? Difficult at the moment with covid, I know, but something to think about when everything 's back to normal.

I already tried online dating and never worked, girls who match but doesn't answer or stop answering suddenly, etc.

 

[x~Sophia~x]

From what I've heard it doesn't work for suicidally depressed guys, but whatever.

Well you just said that you tried it for three years, what took you so long to realise it wasn't working for you?
You might have lost money, but you're still alive to tell the tale.
Where there's hope, there's life, and if OP finding a girlfriend would give him a reason to live, I believe anything's worth a try.

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

Well you just said that you tried it for three years, what took you so long to realise it wasn't working for you?

Your next two sentences.

 

[x~Sophia~x]

How about trying a confidence building/assertiveness course?

 

[Loser47]

My unfulfilled sexual desires makes me want to kill myself

 

[NothingElseMatters]

How about trying a confidence building/assertiveness course?

I dont think there's time for me, my time to date girls is way gone, I'm already 35.

 

[x~Sophia~x]

I dont think there's time for me, my time to date girls is way gone, I'm already 35.

35 is no age at all, especially for a man.
There's still plenty of time to meet a girl, marry and have a family. Nothing ventured, nothing gained :(

 

[It'sNotLookingGood]

Sometimes I think I'm ugly, that's gotta be the reason, and I'm shy as fuck too.

I already tried online dating and never worked, girls who match but doesn't answer or stop answering suddenly, etc.

You're probably ugly.

Being ugly also has the unwanted effect of hampering social growth/development. So then you end up ugly AND socially awkward/autismo, like me - it's really not a combo that gives you much to work with :/

 

[x~Sophia~x]

You're probably ugly.

Being ugly also has the unwanted effect of hampering social growth/development. So then you end up ugly AND socially awkward/autismo, like me - it's really not a combo that gives you much to work with :/

That's really unfair of you to assume that someone is ugly!!
What IS ugly anyway? Who decides who is ugly and who is beautiful?
I'd much rather be with someone who's beautiful on the inside rather than ugly on the inside.

 

[StringPuppet]

You're probably ugly.

Being ugly also has the unwanted effect of hampering social growth/development. So then you end up ugly AND socially awkward/autismo, like me - it's really not a combo that gives you much to work with :/

Same here lol, I wonder how many people like us are on here

 

[It'sNotLookingGood]

That's really unfair of you to assume that someone is ugly!!
What IS ugly anyway? Who decides who is ugly and who is beautiful?
I'd much rather be with someone who's beautiful on the inside rather than ugly on the inside.

Beauty is almost entire objective. Look it up if you want, it's all bones and ratios and angles.

Same here lol, I wonder how many people like us are on here

Fellow ugly bro <3
it fucking SUCKS aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

probably a lot of the guys who are on here are like us ngl ngl (maybe they don't know that themselves tho)

 

[WornOutLife]

Frustration for not dating, having a gf/bf, not having sex, etc can be really depressing.

However, I think just ctb for that is not worthy. Trust me, I've had years in which no one paid attention to me and then years in which I was a "casanova" and fed up with dating girls. If you keep looking for her, she will show up.

If you have any other motives to ctb, then it's okay but, don't let something which could be totally possible (getting a girl) make you ctb.

 

[Bigpink]

I'm not the best looker, but I've done love, marriage the whole thing, yet here I am wanting to ctb

 

[StringPuppet]

Beauty is almost entire objective. Look it up if you want, it's all bones and ratios and angles.



Fellow ugly bro <3
it fucking SUCKS aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

probably a lot of the guys who are on here are like us ngl ngl (maybe they don't know that themselves tho)

It's unfortunate how things outside of our control dictate how so much of our lives will turn out

 

[death137]

Sometimes I think I'm ugly, that's gotta be the reason, and I'm shy as fuck too.

Being ugly or shy makes finding love very difficult (especially ugly). I'm also ugly and shy so I feel your pain. I have never been in a relationship but 2 days ago something happened that has the potential to lead to relationships. I'm still in shock by it. I won't say you will definitely get a girlfriend but I wish you the best. If you want to talk deeper about anything you can definitely pm me.

 

[It'sNotLookingGood]

It's unfortunate how things outside of our control dictate how so much of our lives will turn out

correct. it nearly drove me insane a few years back lol.

now I'm guess I'm better at not caring, or am just kinda nicely numbed

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

I can say that it's definitely the reason I'm going to CTB. I admire you for even lasting past 30 because I really don't think I could.