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[Broken wing]

Need creative minds to help me plan my ctb. Current situation: I'm 66 , in failing health but can drive. Have a husband who is retired and home 24/7 He is loving and a good man, but my health issues are causing him added stress
How can I leave the house to ctb without creating suspicion ?

 

[MyChoiceAlone]

hmm does he take naps? if you took the car, is there another for him to drive around looking for you?

 

[Broken wing]

hmm does he take naps? if you took the car, is there another for him to drive around looking for you?

Yes, he takes naps in the afternoon. We have a Ring alarm which he controls and me leaving would set it off. Yes, we have another car so he would look for me

 

[MyChoiceAlone]

i suppose you would then need to get control of that alarm first. i can't come up with an excuse for you.. would have to know a lot more about habits etc. hopefully someone else can.

 

[falling_snow]

Can you go outside on your own? For grocery shopping, or maybe say that you are going to meet some friends, or do some activity.

If you can't do that, maybe join a hobbie group (reading, drawing, etc.) and say that you're going there. But this might be a bit longer.

 

[theboy]

Why cause problems for him? i don't think if you go out you will cause suspicion. it's just one more way out. i hope you make another decision and can find help.

 

[Broken wing]

Yes, he takes naps in the afternoon. We have a Ring alarm which he controls and me leaving would set it off. Yes, we have another car so he would look for me

Yes, he takes naps in the afternoon. We have a Ring alarm which he controls and me leaving would set it off. Yes, we have another car so he would look for me

i suppose you would then need to get control of that alarm first. i can't come up with an excuse for you.. would have to know a lot more about habits etc. hopefully someone else can.

Thank you for listening

Why cause problems for him? i don't think if you go out you will cause suspicion. it's just one more way out. i hope you make another decision and can find help.

Thank you , just in so much pain…

 

[MyChoiceAlone]

was just thinking about this. maybe send him out on an errand and take the other car where you need to be. must feel like living in a prison, otherwise i'd hate to 'scheme' against him

 

[locked*n*loaded]

Who does the grocery shopping - you? Him? Both? What is your method of CTB, btw? How much time away is needed?

 

[MyChoiceAlone]

Who does the grocery shopping - you? Him? Both? What is your method of CTB, btw? How much time away is needed?

she mentioned a firearm but not sure if that is the method

 

[locked*n*loaded]

she mentioned a firearm but not sure if that is the method

Where did she mention a firearm? I just read through this thread again and I see no mention of using a firearm.

 

[MyChoiceAlone]

Where did she mention a firearm? I just read through this thread again and I see no mention of using a firearm.

from her first post

I’m a 66 year old and have failing health

I’m 66yrs old with failing health. My anxiety about my health is overwhelming and i am so thankful to have found this forum I have access to a firearm but have never shot one. Want to ctb within the next few days My thoughts are so fragmented and I am having panic attacks Not even sure what I...

sanctioned-suicide.net

 

[locked*n*loaded]

from her first post

I’m a 66 year old and have failing health

I’m 66yrs old with failing health. My anxiety about my health is overwhelming and i am so thankful to have found this forum I have access to a firearm but have never shot one. Want to ctb within the next few days My thoughts are so fragmented and I am having panic attacks Not even sure what I...

sanctioned-suicide.net

Thanks. Didn't see that one.

 

[Broken wing]

was just thinking about this. maybe send him out on an errand and take the other car where you need to be. must feel like living in a prison, otherwise i'd hate to 'scheme' against him

That might work. Just trying to figure out the best for everyone, because he is suffering too
appreciate you caring

Who does the grocery shopping - you? Him? Both? What is your method of CTB, btw? How much time away is needed?

He does the shopping CTB is a firearm, would like to drive to a place and not have him find me. Probably would take an hour

 

[locked*n*loaded]

He does the shopping CTB is a firearm, would like to drive to a place and not have him find me. Probably would take an hour

Do you go to the doctor? Do you take yourself there, or does your husband drive you there? You'll need to come up with some reason to get out of the house. Good luck.

 

[Broken wing]

Do you go to the doctor? Do you take yourself there, or does your husband drive you there? You'll need to come up with some reason to get out of the house. Good luck.

He drives me to appointments for the most part. Appreciate the input though. Thank you