I disagree with @GoneGoneGone .I think it's wonderful, that you keep starting thought provoking conversations on here. Everyone can decide for themselves, whether they want to partake in them or not.
And I don't think your question denies that people under the age of 25 can be in unbearable pain. It only asks whether or not people in that age group can make an informed decision they fully understand.
I'm 26 and I honestly gotta say that I belive that it's hard for anyone to make a fully informed decision on ctb, considering there isn't much information to begin with. I'm also not sure if I can exclude myself from the age group you mentioned.
It has taken me around three months to decide on a method only to find out, that that method has side effects, I didn't anticipate and that get in the way of what I had planned for my body.
I wont know whether or not I'll be successful, or perhaps even injured myself permanently because there is almost to no scientific data available for any method. Let alone on how to execute it to ensure success or on the risks of failure.
I'm still reflected enough to notice that the mounting pressure is warping my thinking lately. So I worry that I might idealize a method out if desperation, with my brain filtering out any red flags.
I also really care about how exactly me passing would impact others, and how I could make it easier on them. I don't know if they'd appreciate a farewell video, or of that would be triggering.
I found some information but it was mostly "don't do it" "your mom will cry, so don't do it" "if you're considering, just don't do it".
Not very informative. I obviously can't discuss and plan that with my loved ones.
It's also a pain in the ass to find out what will happen to my body, that I won't have a say in through my will. The legal process that follows someone ctb.
I couldn't even find out how a deceased person is pepared for a wake, and I'm really worried, that they won't have my foundation shade, and I'll be laying in the coffin with a gray face. Casket ready (ppl with darker complexions will understand haha)
I disagree with @GoneGoneGone .I think it's wonderful, that you keep starting thought provoking conversations on here. Everyone can decide for themselves, whether they want to partake in them or not.
And I don't think your question denies that people under the age of 25 can be in unbearable pain. It only asks whether or not people in that age group can make an informed decision they fully understand.
I'm 26 and I honestly gotta say that I belive that it's hard for anyone to make a fully informed decision on ctb, considering there isn't much information to begin with. I'm also not sure if I can exclude myself from the age group you mentioned.
It has taken me around three months to decide on a method only to find out, that that method has side effects, I didn't anticipate and that get in the way of what I had planned for my body.
I wont know whether or not I'll be successful, or perhaps even injured myself permanently because there is almost to no scientific data available for any method. Let alone on how to execute it to ensure success or on the risks of failure.
I'm still reflected enough to notice that the mounting pressure is warping my thinking lately. So I worry that I might idealize a method out if desperation, with my brain filtering out any red flags.
I also really care about how exactly me passing would impact others, and how I could make it easier on them. I don't know if they'd appreciate a farewell video, or of that would be triggering.
I found some information but it was mostly "don't do it" "your mom will cry, so don't do it" "if you're considering, just don't do it".
Not very informative. I obviously can't discuss and plan that with my loved ones.
It's also a pain in the ass to find out what will happen to my body, that I won't have a say in through my will. The legal process that follows someone ctb.
I couldn't even find out how a deceased person is pepared for a wake, and I'm really worried, that they won't have my foundation shade, and I'll be laying in the coffin with a gray face. Casket ready (ppl with darker complexions will understand haha)
I disagree with @GoneGoneGone .I think it's wonderful, that you keep starting thought provoking conversations on here. Everyone can decide for themselves, whether they want to partake in them or not.
And I don't think your question denies that people under the age of 25 can be in unbearable pain. It only asks whether or not people in that age group can make an informed decision they fully understand.
I'm 26 and I honestly gotta say that I belive that it's hard for anyone to make a fully informed decision on ctb, considering there isn't much information to begin with. I'm also not sure if I can exclude myself from the age group you mentioned.
It has taken me around three months to decide on a method only to find out, that that method has side effects, I didn't anticipate and that get in the way of what I had planned for my body.
I wont know whether or not I'll be successful, or perhaps even injured myself permanently because there is almost to no scientific data available for any method. Let alone on how to execute it to ensure success or on the risks of failure.
I'm still reflected enough to notice that the mounting pressure is warping my thinking lately. So I worry that I might idealize a method out if desperation, with my brain filtering out any red flags.
I also really care about how exactly me passing would impact others, and how I could make it easier on them. I don't know if they'd appreciate a farewell video, or of that would be triggering.
I found some information but it was mostly "don't do it" "your mom will cry, so don't do it" "if you're considering, just don't do it".
Not very informative. I obviously can't discuss and plan that with my loved ones.
It's also a pain in the ass to find out what will happen to my body, that I won't have a say in through my will. The legal process that follows someone ctb.
I couldn't even find out how a deceased person is pepared for a wake, and I'm really worried, that they won't have my foundation shade, and I'll be laying in the coffin with a gray face. Casket ready (ppl with darker complexions will understand haha)
I disagree with @GoneGoneGone .I think it's wonderful, that you keep starting thought provoking conversations on here. Everyone can decide for themselves, whether they want to partake in them or not.
And I don't think your question denies that people under the age of 25 can be in unbearable pain. It only asks whether or not people in that age group can make an informed decision they fully understand.
I'm 26 and I honestly gotta say that I belive that it's hard for anyone to make a fully informed decision on ctb, considering there isn't much information to begin with. I'm also not sure if I can exclude myself from the age group you mentioned.
It has taken me around three months to decide on a method only to find out, that that method has side effects, I didn't anticipate and that get in the way of what I had planned for my body.
I wont know whether or not I'll be successful, or perhaps even injured myself permanently because there is almost to no scientific data available for any method. Let alone on how to execute it to ensure success or on the risks of failure.
I'm still reflected enough to notice that the mounting pressure is warping my thinking lately. So I worry that I might idealize a method out if desperation, with my brain filtering out any red flags.
I also really care about how exactly me passing would impact others, and how I could make it easier on them. I don't know if they'd appreciate a farewell video, or of that would be triggering.
I found some information but it was mostly "don't do it" "your mom will cry, so don't do it" "if you're considering, just don't do it".
Not very informative. I obviously can't discuss and plan that with my loved ones.
It's also a pain in the ass to find out what will happen to my body, that I won't have a say in through my will. The legal process that follows someone ctb.
I couldn't even find out how a deceased person is pepared for a wake, and I'm really worried, that they won't have my foundation shade, and I'll be laying in the coffin with a gray face. Casket ready (ppl with darker complexions will understand haha)
Thank you for the support
@mooncake
We're on a site dedicated to the discussion of suicide. Apparently over half of the members on SS are between the age of 18 to 21. And yet seemingly some posters would rather talk about the weather.
Are you f****** kidding me?
Perhaps some peoples' tenure at SS has been so extensive you've become calloused?
Perhaps time for some self-reflection?
Perhaps some soul searching on your own concerning your particular motives?
Frankly, I find this approach very curious and troublesome.
Why is the image of the Pied Piper coming to my mind right now?
Does my perception of the Pied Piper resonate?
And I view this as nothing other than manipulation tactics trying to silence people like myself. I find these actions very transparent by two or three of you. (Obviously not you
@mooncake although I'm delving into this concepts after tagging you).
You know exactly who you are. No need to call you out by name. No need to tag you.
To all those bothered in my trying to prompt younger members to really think through other options before potentially making a decision to KILL THEMSELVES may I highly suggest you put me on ignore. I believe this would serve us both very well. I would be most appreciative if you would do so.
What I find especially curious is one member who has previously put me on ignore keeps popping up repeatedly inside of my threads. May I ask kindly why this is?
Why is it that you can't stay out of my yard and inside your own yard?
I have yet to cross into your yard once since your inappropriate display of aggression and hostility towards me in that one thread. What I found especially curious in that post is you violated all the things you preach. I noticed.
But, unlike you I did not cry to the mods asking for help. I choose to fight my own battles I don't need the strength of the mods behind me. I live or die on my own two feet. Perhaps you should try this yourself?
You are incredibly well equipped to fight your own battles, and I mean this 100% as a compliment. Try it sometime, your success rate will be much higher than your failure rate. I am positive of this.
May I suggest you stay out of my yard in the future? And, show me the respect I've elected to show you.
Don't like what I write, make your own thread. Don't like my threads don't click on them.
Thank you for no future interaction.
If history is any indication let's see how long untell this particular poster runs to the mods for support. My bet is any second now, but perhaps I'll be pleasantly surprised.
And, should this person's whining to the mods ultimately result in my being banned. I can live with this.
I trust the mods can look at my post history and judge for themselves whether or not I am a valuable member to this community and whether the clear voicing of my opinion is appropriate for a pro-choice form or not. I've always taken the view in my life - live by the sword die by the sword. I put myself out there and let the chips fall where they may.
if anybody needs any help in deciding how to word things when they flag this post just give me a holler and I'll be happy to guide you through the process. Lol
Peace to my friends.