boyfriend

[Donk]

Yeah real life is tough but I'm considering getting an online boyfriend and seeing if it pulls me out of the hole I'm in.

Why not get a real boyfriend instead of an online one? I don't see much of a difference between an online partner and a real life close friend. better off getting a dog in that case. at least the dog will be physically there for you. whatever floats your boat i guess. good luck.

 

[sadworld]

Never had a boyfriend/girlfriend/whatevergenderfriend or even actual friends. What's wrong with that? They're overrated. I'd just go with anime waifus.

Agreed uwu

 

[stygal]

Why not start by getting to know people really closely. You can't really force yourself into a relationship and love isn't just magically there (most of the time it takes a while).
But wanting to connect and reach other to people and possibly making a/several friends seems like a good outcome to me. If you potentially fall in love - even better.

I've got hurt a few times in my life but in retrospect it only happened because I was so desperate to find someone to be with romantically. Should have just chilled and let life work things out.

Plus there are a lot of benefits to a good friend - for example the relationship isn't going to cut of abruptly because you've fallen out of love/got betrayed. No broken heart as well.

 

[Sakura94]

Why not get a real boyfriend instead of an online one? I don't see much of a difference between an online partner and a real life close friend. better off getting a dog in that case. at least the dog will be physically there for you. whatever floats your boat i guess. good luck.

poor health,

 

[NightmareTour]

Your worth isn't determined by whether you've had or will have a relationship. A lot of really amazing people have gone their entire life without being in a relationship, and a WHOLE lot of the most horrible people have been in a ton of relationships.

Trust me, it's overrated and nothing like the mental image you have of relationships before you get into one.

 

[Good4Nothing]

Would love a girlfriend again but who wants a 48yr old failure

Same boat...

 

[ZardozOmega]

I want one too, but given my insecurities and character flaws, it's best that I don't. Whoever I end up with will suffer extensively because of those flaws.

 

[Moon Flower]

Idk why but I never, ever feel fulfilled in relationships. I just end up breaking people. I have someone but wish he'd just give up because he's great and I know it's only a matter of time before he gets hurt too, by my ctb or otherwise