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Hi, my SN arrived yesterday and I'm living with my parents so I can't hide it for too long. I have enough money to rent a hotel room so I would like to know what I should do and what I should not do. Primarily concerned about them knocking on my door a few minutes/hours after I pass out. How can I prevent this? Most hotels here don't have a do not disturb sign
 
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I'm very sorry it came to this, why would they knock though? You'd just be like any other guest who rented a room, right?
 
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The idea is to do late at night, after or around 12 am. When most of the people would be asleep.
 
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I'm very sorry it came to this, why would they knock though? You'd just be like any other guest who rented a room, right?
Cleaning for example
The idea is to do late at night, after or around 12 am. When most of the people would be asleep.
The problem is most hotels make you check out at around 12 PM so if I booked one night and did it at 12 AM they'll come in at 12 PM which would be 12 hour time. Is it enough? I read you should be free for like 24 hours
 
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Cleaning for example
I've been in a hotel recently, stayed for about 5 days and not once did they come for routine cleaning. Typically you must explicitly call them if there is a mess to be cleaned otherwise I don't think they show up at all until your stay is up, then they come to tidy up the room for the next guests.
 
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I've been in a hotel recently, stayed for about 5 days and not once did they come for routine cleaning. Typically you must explicitly call them if there is a mess to be cleaned otherwise I don't think they show up at all until your stay is up, then they come to tidy up the room for the next guests.
Yeah I guess you are right and I think they won't like care much if you didn't open the door for them for cleaning right?
 
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Yeah I guess you are right and I think they won't like care much if you didn't open the door for them for cleaning right?
Probably just assume you're asleep or occupied with something else, maybe leave a message for you, and be on their way. They would NEVER force their way in or go in without permission, unless, like I said, your stay is up, then they will likely come in assuming you are checked out or in the process of checking out.
 
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Probably just assume you're asleep or occupied with something else, maybe leave a message for you, and be on their way. They would NEVER force their way in or go in without permission, unless, like I said, your stay is up, then they will likely come in assuming you are checked out or in the process of checking out.
Thank you very much.One last question, do you think they'd be suspicious if I didn't leave my room for 24 hours or would they not care?
I plan on going there at around 12 PM and attempt an hour later so they will definitely check me out at 12 PM the next day but I'm afraid they might get suspicious before the 24 hour period. I can't really book for 2 days because that would be over my budget
 
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Thank you very much. One last question, do you think they'd be suspicious if I didn't leave my room for 24 hours or would they not care?
I plan on going there at around 12 PM and attempt an hour later so they will definitely check me out at 12 PM the next day but I'm afraid they might get suspicious before the 24 hour period. I can't really book for 2 days because that would be over my budget
I couldn't imagine a world where they are monitoring YOU specifically, like "oh this guy hasn't left his room at all since he booked it" very doubtful especially with all the other guests staying. You said you could only book a day which makes the time frame a little smaller but Ill bet you'd be okay.

I hope you can find peace bro, please be gentle with yourself and take you're time, and if you're not ready yet, don't go. I wish you solace in whatever you choose. Truly.
 
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I couldn't imagine a world where they are monitoring YOU specifically, like "oh this guy hasn't left his room at all since he booked it" very doubtful especially with all the other guests staying. You said you could only book a day which makes the time frame a little smaller but Ill bet you'd be okay.

I hope you can find peace bro, please be gentle with yourself and take you're time, and if you're not ready yet, don't go. I wish you solace in whatever you choose. Truly.
I'm sorry I'm just overthinking it a bit. Thank you a lot
 
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I'm sorry I'm just overthinking it a bit. Thank you a lot
That's precisely what I was going to say. You are overthinking it. There's nothing necessarily wrong with too much planning or thinking though. I always say in regards to CTB that you should only do it once and get it right the first time.

Wish you peace brother,If you decide to go through with it.
 
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Tell the front desk that you do not want any cleaning and would like to not be disturbed during your stay.
 
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Tell the front desk that you do not want any cleaning and would like to not be disturbed during your stay.
I'm not very good at talking to people. Can you help me with how I should say it so that they don't get suspicious?
 
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I'm not very good at talking to people. Can you help me with how I should say it so that they don't get suspicious?
"Hi. I'm in room xxx and would like to request no housekeeping and not to be disturbed at all during my stay. Thank you."

It will be okay. If you feel the need to explain just say something about "trying to recoup" or "totally burnt out, gonna sleep all day." They won't be suspicious because like half of hotel guests make that request because who wants to be disturbed in their hotel room?
 
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Hi, my SN arrived yesterday and I'm living with my parents so I can't hide it for too long. I have enough money to rent a hotel room so I would like to know what I should do and what I should not do. Primarily concerned about them knocking on my door a few minutes/hours after I pass out. How can I prevent this? Most hotels here don't have a do not disturb sign
I think your hotel will be fine.

When you check in just say your name and that you have a reservation. They will ask for a credit card and give you a room key. At this point you could ask for a quieter room if they have one. "Do you have any rooms that are further away from other guests, I like quiet"

you said you want to check in about midnight, but maybe earlier would be better. I'm not sure your reasoning, but that would give you more time in the room to get ready, and for after.

It's probably worth having the tv on to make some noise. That way if you make some noises over the night it will blend in.

The hotel staff won't come to your room until after the check-out time, when it's time to clean the room. They just don't have time for that.

And remember..if at any time you feel like this isn't the right day, there is no shame in deciding to stay.

Wishing you well
 
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I think your hotel will be fine.

When you check in just say your name and that you have a reservation. They will ask for a credit card and give you a room key. At this point you could ask for a quieter room if they have one. "Do you have any rooms that are further away from other guests, I like quiet"

you said you want to check in about midnight, but maybe earlier would be better. I'm not sure your reasoning, but that would give you more time in the room to get ready, and for after.

It's probably worth having the tv on to make some noise. That way if you make some noises over the night it will blend in.

The hotel staff won't come to your room until after the check-out time, when it's time to clean the room. They just don't have time for that.

And remember..if at any time you feel like this isn't the right day, there is no shame in deciding to stay.

Wishing you well
Thanks for the detailed response. I unfortunately had to cancel my plans because all the hotels I contacted refused to give me a room because I'm a local
 
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I've got to be honest my experience in hotels is that regular cleaning happens daily. I've never used the DND sign though.
 
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What would have been your story to your parents
 
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Hi, my SN arrived yesterday and I'm living with my parents so I can't hide it for too long. I have enough money to rent a hotel room so I would like to know what I should do and what I should not do. Primarily concerned about them knocking on my door a few minutes/hours after I pass out. How can I prevent this? Most hotels here don't have a do not disturb sign
i hate it when trans people commit suicide because society sucks so much. i am figuring you are trans because of the avatar with blue and pink hair.

trans people are awesome i'm pissed at society for being mean to them

i'm not going to tell you the answer. i hope they walk in on you and you flee wherever you are and end up in a better place, where they are kinder to trans people

sorry for being a jerk
Thanks for the detailed response. I unfortunately had to cancel my plans because all the hotels I contacted refused to give me a room because I'm a local

oh... good! i'm tired of seeing trans people end it.
 
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i hate it when trans people commit suicide because society sucks so much. i am figuring you are trans because of the avatar with blue and pink hair.

trans people are awesome i'm pissed at society for being mean to them

i'm not going to tell you the answer. i hope the walk in on you and you flee wherever you are and end up in a better place, where they are kinder to trans people

sorry for being a jerk
Im not trans, I'm a guy (AMAB) but I like the character from life is strange. Thanks though you weren't being a jerk you sound like a nice person
 
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Im not trans, I'm a guy (AMAB) but I like the character from life is strange. Thanks though you weren't being a jerk you sound like a nice person
lol, i am wrong! still glad you are okay!
 
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Thanks for the detailed response. I unfortunately had to cancel my plans because all the hotels I contacted refused to give me a room because I'm a local
Could you say you're staying there because there's work being done in your house/room? (construction, etc.)
 
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Could you say you're staying there because there's work being done in your house/room? (construction, etc.)
I tried telling them something like that but I guess it's a law or something because they didn't accept
 
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I know it's easier said than done and you said you do not have the budget, but a lot of people that work in hotels testify people that only stay a day tend to raise most suspiciousness in retrospective. If I were you I'd book a couple more days, maybe save up for it ? May you find peace any way you can, though.
 
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I know it's easier said than done and you said you do not have the budget, but a lot of people that work in hotels testify people that only stay a day tend to raise most suspiciousness in retrospective. If I were you I'd book a couple more days, maybe save up for it ? May you find peace any way you can, though.
I had the money to book more days but they didn't even suggest it they just brushed me off and told me they can't give me a room and I also tried contacting another hotel and they said the same thing. I think it's a law where they can't legally give me a room or there will be consequences but I'm not sure
 
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wham311

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What do you mean
You live with your parents, how do you explain not being there for a couple nights etc

Trying same thing



Also are there any secluded places by you you'd be comfortable with? I have one, debate is car vs hotel. Also not good with people anymore.
Also are there any secluded places by you you'd be comfortable with? I have one, debate is car vs hotel. Also not good with people anymore.



What about motel?
 

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