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Darkover

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BIRTH: THE FIRST ACT OF VIOLENCE
No one asks. No one chooses. No one signs their consent. And yet, one day, without warning or permission, we are thrown into the world. A world we did not ask for, a world that did not wait for us, a world that can never guarantee us happiness—only the certainty that one day we will die.
From the moment our lungs open with an involuntary cry, suffering begins. Hunger, cold, illness, fear, despair, loss. We are thrust from nothingness into pain, and the path of life is nothing more than a series of steps leading to the grave. Every experience, every love, every success, every smile is tainted by one unshakable truth: everything we are will be taken away by time.
Optimists sell us the idea that life is a gift. A gift no one asked for. They tell us there are beautiful moments, that it is worth existing for them. But do those fleeting flashes of pleasure justify decades of suffering? Is the ecstasy of one night reason enough to bring someone into a world where they will inevitably fall ill, weep, lose what they love, and, in the end, disappear?
Having children is not an act of love. It is an act of selfishness. They are brought into the world out of personal desire, fear of loneliness, social pressure, or tradition—but never for the well-being of the unborn. Because the only absolute well-being is nonexistence: where there is no consciousness, there is no suffering.
Every birth is a roll of the dice with someone else's life. A macabre game where the prize is an existence marked by chance: it may be prosperous or miserable, but never free from pain. No one guarantees health, safety, love, or peace. And when everything falls apart, when illness arrives, when the terror of death settles in the chest, who will answer for the act of having brought someone into this hell?
Antinatalism is not a pessimistic stance; it is a compassionate one. It is not hatred for humanity, but love for those who do not yet exist—enough love to protect them from the horror of existence. Is it not the purest act of kindness to prevent suffering before it begins?
Let us stop imposing life. Let us stop perpetuating misery in the name of instinct and tradition. This is not about dying; it is about not being born. About not chaining anyone else to the wheel of pain and death.
Because life is not a gift. Life is a sentence.
 
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before20

I can't turn this thing off, it keeps following me
Jan 28, 2025
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Beautifully put. There's probably nothing more traumatic than undergoing birth... to go from existing so peacefully, without consciousness, warm, safe, provided for, and never alone—just to be pushed out into the world and never returned. No wonder the first noise we make is a wail. It's a premonition for what's to come.
 
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Feb 28, 2023
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I fully agree, it is insane that the human race has continued to procreate for so many thousands of years without anyone questioning the extreme toxicity of child birth. It's honestly not difficult to see that all the suffering in this world is unnecessary and could have been avoided, but no it doesn't matter what anyone here thinks since it will just continue. I always feel so bad seeing children and babies knowing the selfishness that brought them into this world and the horrors that they are to endure. The reality of antinatalism is almost impossible to accept for those who have any warm feelings toward this world.
 
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Birth control is very effective and rarely fails so all these accidental babies in the Western world is down right selfish. Even planned pregnancies are selfish. I know Im going to get shit for saying this . Its rare people think about the kids potential suffering. I cry to my mom all the time about why did she bring me here and she sees how much I suffer and she says "Cause raising kids made me happy" typical response.
 
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abortion is a gift i feel jealous for all those babies that don't get to suffer
 
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betternever2havbeen

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Brilliantly put, couldn't agree more. I've had arguments about the brutality of birth before. Like god forbid anyone would feel sorry for a screaming terrified baby for even a second, that's just crazy according to most people. All anyone cares about is the breeder mother who literally CHOSE to do that to herself. Society gaslights us into thinking labour is the worst pain as well and I'll bet in reality it's not even in the top 10. Cluster headaches, broken bones, cancer, kidney stones, toothache, infection, ALL worse. And none of us even have a choice in getting to experience any of those horrific things it's just all down to luck. Even if I wasn't suicidal I feel like I'd have wanted a CTB method for safety just so I don't ever have to experience any of those things for long. I feel SO unlucky to have been born, it's just the worst hell.
 
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love to see a fellow anti natalist here. I wholeheartedly agree
 
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