As s suicidal/homicidal person, What are your opinions on relationships?

[walkingdead2023]

i pose the question innocently and to include all sides of the perspective, as a suicidal or homicidal person, What are your opinions on relationships/sexuality? do you often ponder this thought? is this a potential reason for your yearning of nothing?

I personally have no opinion as that type of thing never has time to be on my mind. i Despise seeing people "happy" together though, because it is all a guise of gimp, i don't think there is anyone on this earth capable of being truly Loyal or respectful

We don't have homicidal people here if there is any, they need to leave. This is strictly for suicidal topics we don't encourage crimes and killing. I hope you're not one I really don't appreciate chatting with homicidal people..

 

[Life_and_Death]

seems intrusive thoughts of homocide really are uncommon judging by this thread

or people are lying and hiding it lol

 

[leloyon]

And look at all the people who would normally talk about what a "welcoming" community this is, judging others just for having the wrong mental health. Just because people have thoughts or ideation doesn't mean action, get a grip.

 

[sadcausebad]

I've only had terrible luck with relationships. I seem to draw people who take advantage of my poor self confidence, currently stuck in a loveless marriage.

 

[Aim]

To stay on topic, that's my goal in a relationship. She feels more & more shameful. Every. Day

Does it bother you that i don't fiend it amusing nor joyful to support murderers or homicidal people?

 

[SexyIncél]

Does it bother you that i don't fiend it amusing nor joyful to support murderers or homicidal people?

Nope. I mean, there's many horrifically abused people here, and naturally I'd support their burning desires for justice. But we all may differ in that regard

What I do find bothersome is me saying "I want a relationship". Something morally corrupting about it. No, the question is: what am I wanting to do for someone? I want to make someone happy, to feel emotion, to feel she's not alone. To feel inspired to save the world — or destroy it. This is something for me to live for

(Well, I guess under gendered logic, I'm supposed to be the one saving the world. Eh, patriarchy)

Now, for random self-interested normies... sure, a 'relationship' is fine. She gets my attempts at being amusing, I get her breath in my mouth, all's good while it lasts. She'll eventually tire of me & disappear in my rear-view mirror

 

[Ernest1964]

I am not now, nor have I ever been homicidal... suicidal at various times throughout my life.
Regarding relationships: The more people I have in my life, the less PEACE I have in my life and so I have VERY few relationships in my life. Fewer people, less drama, more peace, more peace more contentment (I don't say happiness because I'm never happy, but it seems that this may be as good as it gets.).

 

[ctbgurl]

Homicidal?

the fact that people like you make mental illness so hard to Discuss is a lot of people's one of many reasons to hate this Place. stop with restrictions on general conversation.

Nope. I mean, there's many horrifically abused people here, and naturally I'd support their burning desires for justice. But we all may differ in that regard

What I do find bothersome is me saying "I want a relationship". Something morally corrupting about it. No, the question is: what am I wanting to do for someone? I want to make someone happy, to feel emotion, to feel she's not alone. To feel inspired to save the world — or destroy it. This is something for me to live for

(Well, I guess under gendered logic, I'm supposed to be the one saving the world. Eh, patriarchy)

Now, for random self-interested normies... sure, a 'relationship' is fine. She gets my attempts at being amusing, I get her breath in my mouth, all's good while it lasts. She'll eventually tire of me & disappear in my rear-view mirror

people normalize ideation of suicide but never Want to hear what led people to it. anything immoral or unethical crossing the human brain is an instant no-no For these people.

 

[Lookingtoflyfree]

Ehhh okay, but homicidal?
Being a part of this site almost just feels more and more shameful everyday.

Agree. I feel really unsafe to share with someone here talking about homicide.

 

[ctbgurl]

We don't have homicidal people here if there is any, they need to leave. This is strictly for suicidal topics we don't encourage crimes and killing. I hope you're not one I really don't appreciate chatting with homicidal people..

brushing away people with intrusive thoughts or ideations of such things like they don't Exist is such a crude act and Many people's reason for disdain for this earth. Stop making conversation revolving around unethical topics so closed off. it pushes People south.

i'm sure homicidal people wouldn't be too appreciative to Have a conversation with a closed-minded person like you either, and looking back i don't Think anyone forced you to speak to them to begin with. this is a suicide discussion forum, often discussing reasons for people having their tendencies, not just the tendencies themselves.

or people are lying and hiding it lol

i think a lot of people don't realize this board is also used for discussing What makes people suicidal, not just suicidal Culture itself... or whatever the fuck these people R thinking.

 

[sserafim]

Nope. I mean, there's many horrifically abused people here, and naturally I'd support their burning desires for justice. But we all may differ in that regard

What I do find bothersome is me saying "I want a relationship". Something morally corrupting about it. No, the question is: what am I wanting to do for someone? I want to make someone happy, to feel emotion, to feel she's not alone. To feel inspired to save the world — or destroy it. This is something for me to live for

(Well, I guess under gendered logic, I'm supposed to be the one saving the world. Eh, patriarchy)

Now, for random self-interested normies... sure, a 'relationship' is fine. She gets my attempts at being amusing, I get her breath in my mouth, all's good while it lasts. She'll eventually tire of me & disappear in my rear-view mirror

Why would you want to do something for someone or make someone happy? Genuinely curious. Personally, I could care less if people are happy or not…

 

[ctbgurl]

There's homicidal people on here? What?

this is a suicide discussion forum, often discussing reasons for people having their tendencies, not just the tendencies Themselves.

 

[VidFlumina]

And look at all the people who would normally talk about what a "welcoming" community this is, judging others just for having the wrong mental health. Just because people have thoughts or ideation doesn't mean action, get a grip.

Do we have to be welcoming towards everything? Where's the line?

I am a bit concerned and have to agree with the person saying that homicide/homicidal ideation is an uncomfortable topic because I know that murders and murder-suicides aren't that uncommon. Yesterday there was murder-suicide in Brooklyn but also in Sacramento county.

I don't understand people who are surprised that some people feel uneasy with this topic and call them judgemental.

i pose the question innocently and to include all sides of the perspective, as a suicidal or homicidal person, What are your opinions on relationships/sexuality? do you often ponder this thought? is this a potential reason for your yearning of nothing?

I personally have no opinion as that type of thing never has time to be on my mind. i Despise seeing people "happy" together though, because it is all a guise of gimp, i don't think there is anyone on this earth capable of being truly Loyal or respectful

As a suicidal person I don't think relationships are worth pursuing. What's the use if I am going to die soon anyway?
I can't pursue purely sexual relationships either because of my PSSD, but also because I predict I would just feel like a used fleshlight.

 

[hikikomorizombie]

I don't like going down that level but I have no choice: You need to shut the fuck up & don't appreciate you or your homicidal people chatting with me either! Oh " closed minded" excuse me "open minded" just please don't kill your family!! You and your funny English language

you're the 1 crying abt homicidal thoughts/ppl despite interacting w this post, yet you're telling OP to stfu??take ur own advice & do ur pearl clutching somewhere else.

 

[Life_and_Death]

And look at all the people who would normally talk about what a "welcoming" community this is, judging others just for having the wrong mental health. Just because people have thoughts or ideation doesn't mean action, get a grip.

this is what i "love" so much about this site. they hold themselves above the others but are just like them XD XD XD

 

[ctbgurl]

I don't like going down that level but I have no choice: You need to shut the fuck up & don't appreciate you or your homicidal people chatting with me either! Oh " closed minded" excuse me "open minded" just please don't kill your family!! You and your funny English language

you're literally smashing your face into a brick wall and being incredibly hypocritical with those Statements. people can WANT to kill themselves BECAUSE of those ideations, and you can't do anything about it when it comes to them talking about it. Don't interact with posts that directly involve people you don't want to B involved with.

 

[Life_and_Death]

Don't interact with posts that directly involve people you don't want to B involved with

isnt there this cute option called an ignore button??

 

[Aim]

Nope. I mean, there's many horrifically abused people here, and naturally I'd support their burning desires for justice. But we all may differ in that regard

What I do find bothersome is me saying "I want a relationship". Something morally corrupting about it. No, the question is: what am I wanting to do for someone? I want to make someone happy, to feel emotion, to feel she's not alone. To feel inspired to save the world — or destroy it. This is something for me to live for

(Well, I guess under gendered logic, I'm supposed to be the one saving the world. Eh, patriarchy)

Now, for random self-interested normies... sure, a 'relationship' is fine. She gets my attempts at being amusing, I get her breath in my mouth, all's good while it lasts. She'll eventually tire of me & disappear in my rear-view mirror

Agree. I feel really unsafe to share with someone here talking about homicide.

This was my point to. It's like, you disagree or you have an argument with this person, but instead of solving it. You end up getting wacked instead. (Against your will) . Nope. That would even be to much for a suicidal person like me.

However, I'm fine with people not liking me or disagreeing with me and my opinion on this. Maybe I don't know enough about this subject, but i know enough about myself to be able to say that I would never be abel to trust these people enough. (Excuse me, i do not mean to offend anyone)

But I'm happy and glad to hear that there is people that is capable of this. Everyone deserves to get support, no matter how big the problems are.

And btw, there is a huge difference between those that struggle with homicidal intrusive thoughts (my heart goes out to you guys, truly)
. And people that has actually committed homicide. But when someone just writes homicidal like that is a thing. Without any further details. On a forum like this. Then oblivious this can create different reactions.

 

[Life_and_Death]

But when someone just writes homicidal like that is a thing

but it is a thing.. or...does it not exist??

 

[ctbgurl]

This was my point to. It's like, you disagree or you have an argument with this person, but instead of solving it. You end up getting wacked instead. (Against your will) . Nope. That would even be to much for a suicidal person like me.

However, I'm fine with people not liking me or disagreeing with me and my opinion on this. Maybe I don't know enough about this subject, but i know enough about myself to be able to say that I would never be abel to trust these people enough. (Excuse me, i do not mean to offend anyone)

But I'm happy and glad to hear that there is people that is capable of this. Everyone deserves to get support, no matter how big the problems are.

And btw, there is a huge difference between those that struggle with homicidal intrusive thoughts (my heart goes out to you guys, truly)
. And people that has actually committed homicide. But when someone just writes homicidal like that is a thing. Then obliviously you got to be prepared for different reactions. Homicide I would guess, is probably one of the most frightening tabu subjects in the history of mankind. And not a word one should be throwing away lightly.

respectable Response

 

[TiredOfAllThis]

Your mileage may vary in relationships - there are decent people and there are freaking predators.

 

[ReadyOrNot?]

If it's not family, in the end very single relationship will bring more suffering in the end. Breaking up, dead, the things life does.
I had only one relationship where I look back on and say to my self it was worth it (most of the time, I also have days were I don't think that). But even that just adds to the pain.
I just want to feel safe. But I can't I'm so fragile that I constantly think about end of relationships, failure and what comes after.

 

[Vesper_The_Ghost]

I don't really care top much about romantic and sexual relationships but in terms of platonic friendshipsI feel like there two sides to me, one that loves hanging out with friends and having a great time and there's one that keeps to themselves and is kinda suicidal. In a way since when I hang out with friends I always almost magically forget about that other side I guess it kinda is what's keeping me going.

 

[sserafim]

Homicidal people: hit me up please. I'm ready to go…

but it is a thing.. or...does it not exist??

I don't know but I'd like to find out

 

[Captive_Mind515]

the fact that people like you make mental illness so hard to Discuss is a lot of people's one of many reasons to hate this Place. stop with restrictions on general conversation.

You got all of that from a "?"

 

[FloodedForest]

Been with my partner 14 years now, not married. One thing all this has taught me, is while you can find someone who loves you, two anxiety sufferers being together can make life really stressful and at times difficult. On the other hand, I probably couldn't function being with an out going person.

 

[Meteora]

Guys, can you please stop making fun of someone's thoughts? That's so f*cking wretched.
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Homicidal and suicidal tendencies are not that far away from each other. Both have issues with aggression.

 

[Depresso]

I use sex and relationships to help not feel so shitty in life. The downside of it is being used by predatory men that chew me up and spit me out when I'm no longer new and shiny to them. One of my reasons for being suicidal is because of my constant rejection and lack of intimacy in my life.

 

[leloyon]

Do we have to be welcoming towards everything? Where's the line?

I am a bit concerned and have to agree with the person saying that homicide/homicidal ideation is an uncomfortable topic because I know that murders and murder-suicides aren't that uncommon. Yesterday there was murder-suicide in Brooklyn but also in Sacramento county.

I don't understand people who are surprised that some people feel uneasy with this topic and call them judgemental.

I mean, this is painted as a judgement-free forum to talk about mental health. I can see people being uncomfortable by it, and there is a simple solution: if you direct your vision to the title of the thread, you will see "homicidal" in there, anyone uncomfortable is free to ignore threads that are directed towards people with homicidal ideation.

However you have people in this thread straight up saying that people with homicidal ideation should leave the forum or questioning them being here, when they may have no plans or desires to act on it. Some of the people in this thread seem to have intrusive thoughts about harming others, which cannot be controlled and are distressing towards those suffering from it.

Not everyone with these thoughts is a maniac who feels nothing, and for a lot of people this can be a source of great stress to them, and could even be one of the reasons why they want to commit suicide. And despite some people in this thread casting doubt on these people, homicidal and suicidal often go hand-in-hand (not that people who want to commit suicide are often homicidal, but I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of people who are homicidal are also suicidal).

 

[Aim]

I mean, this is painted as a judgement-free forum to talk about mental health. I can see people being uncomfortable by it, and there is a simple solution: if you direct your vision to the title of the thread, you will see "homicidal" in there, anyone uncomfortable is free to ignore threads that are directed towards people with homicidal ideation.

However you have people in this thread straight up saying that people with homicidal ideation should leave the forum or questioning them being here, when they may have no plans or desires to act on it. Some of the people in this thread seem to have intrusive thoughts about harming others, which cannot be controlled and are distressing towards those suffering from it.

Not everyone with these thoughts is a maniac who feels nothing, and for a lot of people this can be a source of great stress to them, and could even be one of the reasons why they want to commit suicide. And despite some people in this thread casting doubt on these people, homicidal and suicidal often go hand-in-hand (not that people who want to commit suicide are often homicidal, but I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of people who are homicidal are also suicidal).

Very well explained.