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Are you unloveable?

  • I unloveable because of societal standards

    Votes: 30 19.6%
  • I am just unloveable

    Votes: 90 58.8%
  • I am loveable

    Votes: 33 21.6%

  • Total voters
    153
Throwawayacc3

Throwawayacc3

Freedom
Mar 4, 2024
1,385
I forgot to say why I'm not lovable. Well, first of all, the very obvious reason, bc I'm dumb AF.:):) and my temper is just impossible to bear with. I'm annoying and self-absorbed. I'm whiny. I'm irresponsible and unreliable. I'm a crazy sad little bitch :):):) There's probably something else I'm forgetting to mention 😂 😂
You situation is bad and I'm not taking that away.

The one thing that made me smile which is rare - I read this paragraph and your username is a mistake of nature. lol. It's rare for me to smile. I don't know how you pulled that one off haha.
 
vitbar

vitbar

Escaped Lunatic
Jun 4, 2023
574
I have been loved though I don't understand why.
 
Christopher Reeve

Christopher Reeve

Ein wunderschöner Baum um sich zu erhängen
Mar 27, 2024
74
I never had much attention from any family member, they simply threw me into a sect and I was raised by other people, then I became disenchanted with religion, I was very focused on reading everything that caught my attention, so I wasn't someone you could talk, due to my melancholy people avoided me, so I was always someone needy but I learned to just be a quiet person who observed the world. The relationships I had, I don't know how I got them but they were always with very emotional girls, which over time wore me down... but over time I gave up on even having relationships. Today I'm just a person who doesn't wait for anything else, in the jobs I had I just said good morning and have a good rest...
I may not be unbearable to people because I don't talk to them, but my apathy and pessimism would definitely make me annoying
 
Ww42

Ww42

Experienced
Feb 24, 2024
292
I sure feel unloveable. I screw up everything I set out to do. Im a trainwreck of a person
 
U

unabletocope

I'd like to shut down
Mar 13, 2024
727
Yes, but only because I fucked myself up
 
R

rozeske

Maybe I am the problem
Dec 2, 2023
4,223
From birth till now I guess I have proved myself to be very very very hard to love 💔
 
sserafim

sserafim

they say it's darkest of all before the dawn
Sep 13, 2023
9,013
I don't care about love. I don't care about giving or receiving love. I have no love to give anyways. It's all in your head; none of it is real. Even if I am unloveable, I don't give a shit. I have more important things to think about
Idk and idc
 
untothedepths

untothedepths

want off this ride
Mar 20, 2023
641
I'm hideous and with a sappy yet increasingly cynical personality. Lots of traits with BPD (just to disclaimer myself I'm not in diagnosis) and very likely on the autism spectrum. I don't think I'm loveable at all.
 
B

born_borken

Member
Apr 1, 2024
25
I have been loved.
But I can't feel it and I can't feel love, neither for myself, for anything, for anyone.
It destroys me, makes my life meaningless and unbearable, and I can't take it anymore.
 
ijustwishtodie

ijustwishtodie

I have finally found my ultimate bliss
Oct 29, 2023
5,795
I'm unlovable though I only say this to answer your question truthfully and not because I hate myself. I don't hate myself but I can rationally see that I am unlovable due to my neurotype as well as my behaviour. I also don't believe in the cliché that everybody is lovable because there certainly are people who aren't lovable
 
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M

m_h_d

Member
Mar 9, 2024
22
I forgot to say why I'm not lovable. Well, first of all, the very obvious reason, bc I'm dumb AF.:):) and my temper is just impossible to bear with. I'm annoying and self-absorbed. I'm whiny. I'm irresponsible and unreliable. I'm a crazy sad little bitch :):):) There's probably something else I'm forgetting to mention 😂 😂
You are not dumb - you are very intelligent, smart and (when you want to be) incredibly funny. You are not whiny but my God you can be a bitch sometimes. Agreed about your temper. You forgot to mention that you lash tend to lash out at random.

Я вернулся, чтобы сказать тебе, что я сожалею о своем поведении, что ты заслуживаешь лучшего, чем то, как я с тобой обращался. Я молюсь, чтобы однажды ты обрела счастье, самоуважение и человека, который сможет любить тебя без всяких условий.

Я оставлю это надолго, чтобы вы могли прочитать, а затем покину этот сайт.
 

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