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Worthless_nobody

Enlightened
Feb 14, 2019
1,384
I have not started cleaning up or any decluttering. I just don't have the motivation or energy. I won't leave a mess but I figure I'll leave my belongings to 2 people if they want them. There isn't much stuff I lost a lot through moves and homelessness. Maybe the belongings can remind them of me. I got what little money I have in a safe area so it can go to my partner. I have written almost all of my note and informal will.
 
icanhasnick

icanhasnick

Student
Sep 3, 2020
155
are probably going to look through them and there's a lot I don't want them to ever see
Most likely they won't. If going through all the pages of this text from you and about you looks like quite a chore to you, imagine to others.
 
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Shades of Grey

Shades of Grey

Student
Jun 17, 2020
183
Part of the reason I've purchased a bunch of stuff for my new place is effectively "staging". I know that this is likely where I will die, and I don't want it to be a shitty depressing mess (or a huge pain for somebody I care about to have to deal with) when the time comes. I guess I just want it to look like a functional person lived here.

Which is probably kind of weird. I'll own that. It is what it is.
 
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trainwreck2

Member
Aug 31, 2020
20
I feel like I sort of have things in order, like I don't have any piles of paper, magazines, etc. sitting around. I'm one of those people who declutters once every couple years or so, so what I have left is decent stuff that someone in my family will want. My OCD has paid off for once!
 
OnlyTheWind

OnlyTheWind

Serena / Meatball head
Aug 29, 2020
962
I have way too much stuff. This is gonna take a while :(
 
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DyingAlf

Specialist
Aug 22, 2020
345
I have cleared out/sold/given away loads of my stuff before previous attempts.
It's a right pain in the a** when I've failed & realise that I now have to shop for clothes/stuff (which I hate) on top of feeling so crap because I've failed & still have to exist.
 
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Dr Iron Arc

Dr Iron Arc

Into the Unknown
Feb 10, 2020
21,286
Not physically, but there's some digital cleaning i would definitely want to do...
 
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BPD Barbie

BPD Barbie

Visionary
Dec 1, 2019
2,359
I have a will which I've documented my funeral arrangements in but that's all. I don't plan on decluttering etc as I don't own a great deal of things anyway and have no money to give to people.
 
Sarahlynn

Sarahlynn

Deep breath, stand back, it's time.
Aug 19, 2020
127
That is my plan, and it is an ongoing process, altough a slow one.

Some things are hard though. Like special, collected souvenirs or postcards from a better time. There is always the chance that I'll fail and there are some things that are important to me and very hard to throw away. I went through this process a few years ago, and I shredded a lot of personal letters from my grandma that I have been regretting. I never had the energy to read them thouroghly and now they are gone.

Last time I had much more doubt though, and ended not going through with it, the situation is different now. But still, some things are hard. But I don't want these things around for my parentes and siblibgs to clean up either, I want things to be as ordered as possible when I CTB.
 
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icanhasnick

icanhasnick

Student
Sep 3, 2020
155
What about stashing them all in a box labeled "if I pass, throw away/dispose of it unopened" ?
 
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