Discussion Are you pathetic?

[ZardozOmega]

If so, why?
I'm pathetic

 

[KleinerWolf]

Yes.
Chinese passport and unable to leave. fuck that shit.

 

[WornOutLife]

I'm kinda pathetic yeah. Just can't face life anymore and decided to become a NEET.
However, I've started working again because without any money I'll end up either as a homeless or living with my family and there's no way that's happening.

 

[nerve]

Absolutely!

I'm a NEET of 7 years who can't overcome the modest obstacles set before me. I've given up on improving myself or my life so I just drag myself through each day distracting myself with video games and food because at least I can't fail at those.

 

[BluesRunTheGame]

Hell yes. I completely dropped out of life and yet still cling to the hope that women might date me.

 

[ansiedad]

Yes

 

[Good4Nothing]

Yup. My dad thought it was real important that I grow up to be a loser, for some reason.

 

[ZardozOmega]

Absolutely!

I'm a NEET of 7 years who can't overcome the modest obstacles set before me. I've given up on improving myself or my life so I just drag myself through each day distracting myself with video games and food because at least I can't fail at those.

This sounds so much like me it's unreal. The only difference is that I've been a NEET for only 5 years

 

[MindFog]

Definitely.. There will be a net gain for this world once I go out. Can't wait for my parents to throw a party after I go.

 

[MrBlue]

Completely. I'm basically a child trapped in a hairier child's body, and have achieved shit all.

 

[Jean Améry]

No and I will never regard myself as such as long as I manage to live up to my values. One should never let circumstances and others determine one's own worth and opinion of oneself.

 

[Barracuda91]

If so, why?
I'm pathetic

Yes, I am it's unquestionable.
I've never been able to hold a job down.
I've been in 7 relationships and they never went anywhere, other than fornication, ridicule and abuse.
I don't drive, my anxiety is too much and I have ADD.
I'm socially inept.
I'm paranoid. I smoke a lot. I have no friends.
All this contributes to me throwing in the towel, so now... NEET it is.

 

[Deleted member 22624]

Thoroughly. I'm not worth this screen space.





But I take shit anyway

 

[Wrennie]

I'm a jobless disabled virgin NEET who's living with her parents, so pretty much yes.

 

[ZardozOmega]

I'm a jobless disabled virgin NEET who's living with her parents, so pretty much yes.

i'm living with my parents to. my mom, that is.

 

[Wrennie]

i'm living with my parents to. my mom, that is.

I certainly don't think that living with one's parents is pathetic in and of itself (tons of normies do it after college while paying off their student loans etc.)
It's just that in my specific situation a mix of disability, lack of employment, disease, a warped personality, and being a genetic deadend who's completely reliant upon her parents for everything combines together.

 

[262653]

Is this what I see? NEETs are taking over a thread about being pathetic? I thought about saying a few words bc I'm can be classified as NEET too. (I'm self-educating as a hobby, but not for expected monetary benefit in some distant, phantasmal future.) Until now, I never bothered to check the word "pathetic" in a dictionary before. So being pathetic it's about evoking in others the feelings of pity towards oneself. In that sense, if I'm pathetic (evoking pity in others towards me), then it's their problem, not mine. They are the ones who feel it. Their pity has no use to me. There is a difference between arousing pity in others towards myself, and arousing pity in myself towards myself.

It's like, imagine if being angry would mean arousing anger towards you in others. That just sounds bizarre. Being pathetic in a sense of arousing pity in others feels like externalization. I'm going to say it again, it's their problem, not mine.

 

[Ghost2211]

Disability makes me dependent on others in order to survive in society, so probsbly.

 

[ZardozOmega]

Is this what I see? NEETs are taking over a thread about being pathetic? I thought about saying a few words bc I'm can be classified as NEET too. (I'm self-educating as a hobby, but not for expected monetary benefit in some distant, phantasmal future.) Until now, I never bothered to check the word "pathetic" in a dictionary before. So being pathetic it's about evoking in others the feelings of pity towards oneself. In that sense, if I'm pathetic (evoking pity in others towards me), then it's their problem, not mine. They are the ones who feel it. Their pity has no use to me. There is a difference between arousing pity in others towards myself, and arousing pity in myself towards myself.

It's like, imagine if being angry would mean arousing anger towards you in others. That just sounds bizarre. Being pathetic in a sense of arousing pity in others feels like externalization. I'm going to say it again, it's their problem, not mine.

pathetic can also mean "miserably inadequate; of very low standard"
that's definitely me

 

[AutoTap]

Yes

 

[EmptyManForever]

I'm pathetic because my life sux, I suffer from anhedonia which means I cant feel pleasure from anything anymore, I have little sex drive as in I have to abstain from sexual activities for atleast 4 days so I can orgasm and after that it goes back to zero and repeat that all over again, all I basically do is basic life processes like eat,sleep and breath which sux cuz when you keep only doing those things life becomes really boring , I have no emotion as well , I'm numb , cant feel happy feeling or sad feeling , just empty, so yeah I'm as pathetic as it can get

 

[awfullife]

Yes. Pathetic is a good word to describe me.

 

[262653]

pathetic can also mean "miserably inadequate; of very low standard"
that's definitely me

That's definitely me too, as I have excessively high standards for myself.

 

[Bigpink]

Yep, pathetic and also weak. Just not built for this world

 

[Deleted member 94]

Yes I'm king of pathetic land.

 

[Going Home]

If I let this asshole keep bullying me I would be pathetic. We might leave this bitch together.

 

[Ender]

Yes. People see myself, and I do see myself. It is I, lord Pathetic, here to spread sadness and idiocy across my life.

 

[StringPuppet]

Yes for reasons I'm too ashamed to even say

 

[death137]

Yes

 

[Deleted member 18655]

Yes. Just yes.

The main reason is too pathetic and embarrassing to mention. But it's definitely what qualifies me as Pathetic.