anyone else is dying as loner virgin?

[yive]

in fact, girls will not be interested in a relationship with you if you are a NEET, because no one needs such a "wrong" guy.

so if you hate work, study, life and people as much as i do, your chances of finding a girl in this world tend to zero. that is, you can expect lifelong virginity, and, as a result, very agonizing sexual frustration...

do not listen to those who are trying to instill false hopes in you, use your own brain and logic...
p. s. i'm a guy

 

[ZardozOmega]

in fact, girls will not be interested in a relationship with you if you are a NEET, because no one needs such a "wrong" guy.

so if you hate work, study, life and people as much as i do, your chances of finding a girl in this world tend to zero. that is, you can expect lifelong virginity, and, as a result, very agonizing sexual frustration...

do not listen to those who are trying to instill false hopes in you, use your own brain and logic...
p. s. i'm a guy

I honestly can't blame them. I wouldn't date myself.

 

[Panna]

It makes me wish that it wasn't so difficult, people judge over the most petty things, the way that we constantly judge our own selves even if they aren't. it's just so tiring.

 

[DJJE]

Thats the cold hard truth of it.

Women will deny this as its not they way they want to be portrayed.

They expect a man to be emotionally strong, successful, and show no weakness. Then they wonder where toxic masculinity comes from.

 

[yive]

I honestly can't blame them. I wouldn't date myself.

well, you seem to have low self-esteem...
in any case, you DESERVE to be with a loving partner. any of us who need it and who suffer from it DESERVES IT. no matter what!

 

[ZardozOmega]

well, you seem to have low self-esteem...
in any case, you DESERVE to be with a loving partner. any of us who need it and who suffer from it DESERVES IT. no matter what!

until we can have robotic waifus/hasubandos, we'll have to endure loneliness.

 

[Meditation guide]

Just find a girl NEET. I've seen happy NEET couples.

 

[AintNoWayOut]

I just lost my virginity at 38. Realized it isnt that hard to get a gf as long as you put yourself out there, make something of yourself, have passions, and most importantly, have a personality. Unfortunately for me, I had none of those and the gf became an ex in a few months. Told me that she perceived me to be very different to what she saw in my pictures. I will say this, I will die with a lot of regrets but at least I'm saved from the regret of dying a virgin.

its too bad for me that my pain issues have taken away all of those things from me then. i cant put myself out there and express my true self anymore thanks to my broken body/mind. thats why i hate when people give me that type of advice, because it doesnt apply to me. maybe if it wasnt for those things i wouldnt be a 22 year old virgin, but who knows... theres a chance i still would be, because i've always been more of an introvert, am not the most attractive guy, and dating for men is not the easiest in the current climate, but i know for sure i'd be way happier with life and would be more hopeful of sex and romance in the future.

i came close to losing my virginity almost a year ago now and it didnt happen because... well, i just couldnt get "excited" because i was so anxious and uncomfortable and tbh i didnt feel very attracted to the girl. at the time that made me feel better about being a virgin because sex felt really fake and weird to me in that moment but then i realized its probably way different when you're in love with and attracted to the girl. thats something i'll never experience. and to people here saying "just go out, be yourself, you'll succeed with girls"... we are on a suicide forum. a lot of us are really depressed and deal with severe issues that stop us from being able to offer much, and especially as a guy you've got to fill out quite a few check boxes to be considered. that advice only applies when you're an able bodied, sound minded person.

 

[StuckAF]

5'10 manlet here

5'10 isn't short :)

 

[ZardozOmega]

5'10 isn't short :)

tell that to europeans

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

5'10 isn't short :)

And this isn't even the only meme like this either.

 

[lonerclown666]

Me its sad but its hard to get a woman in this age i will die kissless too

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

Destroyed my penis by jerking off and now don't even want to have sex IRL.

Now all I have to do is deal with the lack of intimacy/love, which I am actually naturally good at (temporarily lost this strength but am regaining it).

 

[lofticries]

Virgin here. But honestly was put off by sex until a couple of years ago. Didn't even masturbate until then as well. Never felt the need yet still consumed, porn, hentai,and other naughty stuff. lol mainly for research when I used to write fanfiction. Other than that all attraction I had for men and some women was purely for aesthetic reasons. Fuck, there were times where I started picturing this person with this person because I thought they'd look good together. Any times I desired a boyfriend in highschool and such were just to show people that I was normal. Not really for my own personal reasons. Fast forward to now and I'm curious af to see what sex is all about. I even have kinks involving me which I never thought in a million years I've had. If I do have sex I want it to be a one night stand. The less personal the better imo.

I don't get why highschool romance is often romanticized. Yes it can happen but often times it's a big mess. I don't regret not having a boyfriend at all in highschool. The kids I went to highshool with were terrible in general. The boys were douchebags and always fucking around and sharing nudes of their girlfriends and the girls were shallow loud idiots always ready to throw down with any girl that their man even glanced at. I know this from a very personal experience...

 

[ThrownAwayTom]

tell that to europeans

Take it from a 6'4" guy, height doesn't mean shit if you're not attractive.

I'm not a virgin, but missing what I did have with my previous partner is a big drive behind how shit I feel. Is it better to have loved and lost than to have never loved? I think maybe.

 

[lonerclown666]

Its hard stay alive as a virgin even more if you hate humanity

 

[disabledsuicidegirl]

i missed out on teen love days and stuff. I realized lately how my ugly face and short height were the reasons I always been the circus ape of class.
sometimes i close my eyes and think how would my life be if i had a gf/lover .. but I feel nothing, it's probably better for me to stay alone.
when my brain chemicals trick me into a depressive state due to lack of love and emotions i get i cope by playing chess.

anyone else relate? how do you cope by being a virgin loner.


I expect this thread to be male only because I truly doubt there would be any female/girl that can relate. their sexual lives are set on auto pilot mode.

Im a 24 female virgin because I'm in a wheelchair and no one ever liked me and now I have a long distance relationship but it's very hard. Sometimes I get urges to hookup with random people online but I always back out last second. I don't wanna die a virgin but it looks like I might :(

 

[lonerclown666]

The people who put you in this suicidal place are the ones who win in life sadly i hate this world

 

[Alec]

I'm a loner and a virgin but I used to not be worried about it at all. Now that it has become hard for me to find friends and the chances of finding somebody romantically interested in me have decreased drastically it bothers somewhat but not too much since I'm mostly emotionally numb.

Literally the same. I'm 24 and I'm such a loner. I don't have any friends at all in real life.

 

[Sprite_Geist]

It is likely that I will die as one. If someone ever asks me if I own a chastity belt I will say: "Yes. My face."

 

[Scribble Fan]

My social skills are much too poor to get a girlfriend lol. I'm not even sure what I'd do with a relationship. Talk about how meaningless life is? Discuss methods? Probably not a good idea haha

 

[Deadlyroses]

I expect this thread to be male only because I truly doubt there would be any female/girl that can relate. their sexual lives are set on auto pilot mode.

I'm a female. I'm a loner and a virgin at 25. I've been a loner all my life thanks to my depression, anxiety, and insecurities. I will die without ever experiencing the love, affection, passion, and intimacy that I've always dreamed about.

 

[JamesUK]

At this point I will almost certainly die a virgin, but still hope not. I don't even need sex, just to experience some sort of romantic intimacy for the first time.

I mean, anyone can pay for sex but that's not real is it? The other person has to be into you too and love you.

 

[makethepainstop]

i missed out on teen love days and stuff. I realized lately how my ugly face and short height were the reasons I always been the circus ape of class.
sometimes i close my eyes and think how would my life be if i had a gf/lover .. but I feel nothing, it's probably better for me to stay alone.
when my brain chemicals trick me into a depressive state due to lack of love and emotions i get i cope by playing chess.

anyone else relate? how do you cope by being a virgin loner.


I expect this thread to be male only because I truly doubt there would be any female/girl that can relate. their sexual lives are set on auto pilot mode.

If I were to swear to someone that I was a virgin, a bolt of lightning sent from God would kill us both! BANG! Then God would say,"That man is a colossal LIAR!"

 

[AintNoWayOut]

At this point I will almost certainly die a virgin, but still hope not. I don't even need sex, just to experience some sort of romantic intimacy for the first time.

I mean, anyone can pay for sex but that's not real is it? The other person has to be into you too and love you.

to die having not experienced these things makes it so much more harsh.

not only is our current situation bad enough to put us in this mindset, but we dont even have those normal, enriching life experiences to look back on to make us feel complete in any way when we decide to go. we'll die feeling like half of people... dying having barely lived.

its fucking rough to think about how i'll likely die as well unloved all my life... you know, in the romantic sense. this one shot i got at life, all of these people in the world, so much potential love and intimacy to go around, but i'll most likely go having never had a piece. i know i have good things to offer, i know i can be a good, cool, funny person, but because im flawed and unlucky i dont get to experience it. just really opens your eyes to the fact that life isnt a fairytale, and not everyone finds their "true love" (or any love) like people love to insist with their baseless platitudes. and that cold truth simply makes me want to go even more.

 

[JamesUK]

I realise there's often the massive low and despair of a breakup after having previously found love, but that's basically only like rejection, albeit after having more hope.

I did at least have a reasonable childhood, but the 100% lack of romance makes me think I basically haven't experienced adult life.