NSFW Anyone Else Bothered By Not Having Sex Before CTB?

[mortuarymary]

i learned it many years ago but I forgot where exactly my source was. I just tried to look it up again and found this: https://www.urologyhealth.org/healt...ulations-lessen-the-chance-of-prostate-cancer

I will show this my partner. He loves wanking, so if it saves his life then goodoo.

 

[sserafim]

Just collecting data. (Feel free not to oblige.) Whenever someone perceives sex to be gross, I wonder if it's localized to an act they personally derive no pleasure from — or if they see the grossness of their own pleasures & bodies too

The thought of bodies slapping on bodies is gross to me.

 

[SexyIncél]

The thought of bodies slapping on bodies is gross to me.

Yep, I got that part. Even though I loooove dat body-slappin', it's trivial for me use your lens — that it's gross. And when I do that, logical consistency means I see eating as far grosser

Wonder if I can invert the lens: get crazy turned on at a buffet

 

[Praestat_Mori]

Sex was never sth very important in my life.

 

[deedeme]

Never had sex, low-key wanted to experience it but only with the right person.

I'm good dying a virgin.

 

[d2reason]

I'm not bothered by this. I don't want to live any more, and sex isn't a very important part of life.
If the one thing you're living for is sex, I feel like there's something wrong with you, no offense.

 

[mortuarymary]

Yep, I got that part. Even though I loooove dat body-slappin', it's trivial for me use your lens — that it's gross. And when I do that, logical consistency means I see eating as far grosser

Wonder if I can invert the lens: get crazy turned on at a buffet.

Nothing like a good ass slap

 

[Aim]

Haha, yess, i am. lol. But its wierd, because back when i was healthy i did not think about sex that muchat all to be hounest. So my conclusion to this,, must be that i in the back of my mind get that my time is ticking. Hehe.

 

[ijustwishtodie]

No, I'm not bothered at all. I don't care about sex at all. There's nothing in this world that I care about. I just want to be dead

 

[KafkaF]

Not bothered at all - had quite some.

I mean, I've had sex hundreds of times too. But the idea of not having it again before I go still bothers me.

 

[sserafim]

Yep, I got that part. Even though I loooove dat body-slappin', it's trivial for me use your lens — that it's gross. And when I do that, logical consistency means I see eating as far grosser

Wonder if I can invert the lens: get crazy turned on at a buffet

The thought of someone else's body part inside of you is far grosser, I would say.

No, I'm not bothered at all. I don't care about sex at all. There's nothing in this world that I care about. I just want to be dead

I feel like it's massively overrated

 

[KafkaF]

I'm not bothered by this. I don't want to live any more, and sex isn't a very important part of life.
If the one thing you're living for is sex, I feel like there's something wrong with you, no offense.

I didn't say "I am only living for sex." I said that it bothers me the idea of not having sex before I die. And to what degree sex is important to you is subjective. To me the idea of feeling intimacy again before I die IS important. And that's not the same as "living for sex." To others it may not be important, that's fine too.

And there's plenty wrong with me. But it has nothing to do with my desire to have sex before I die. What a shitty thing to say. Don't be so judgemental of people. If people want to live for sex (which, again, isn't me), I say they should live however they want. It doesn't harm anyone and we all give our lives meaning in our own way. I'm not going to judge them. And I think you shouldn't either.

Ignoring you from now on.

 

[Aim]

I didn't say "I am only living for sex." I said that it bothers me the idea of not having sex before I die. And to what degree sex is important to you is subjective. To me the idea of feeling intimacy again before I die IS important. And that's not the same as "living for sex." To others it may not be important, that's fine too.

And there's plenty wrong with me. But it has nothing to do with my desire to have sex before I die. What a shitty thing to say. Don't be so judgemental of people. If people want to live for sex (which, again, isn't me), I say they should live however they want. It doesn't harm anyone and we all give our lives meaning in our own way. I'm not going to judge them. And I think you shouldn't either.

Ignoring you from now on.

Hello!:), i just thougth about this, and maybe it could help you. But why dont you just hire an escort? If its one specific circumstanse where i this has to be 100 prosent legit. Then it has to be before chosing to take suicide! :) There is no shame in wanting to have some extra fun and pleasure before ctb.

I'm not bothered by this. I don't want to live any more, and sex isn't a very important part of life.
If the one thing you're living for is sex, I feel like there's something wrong with you, no offense.

Sex is great! So why not! There is no shame in being sexual and its at least not legit to try to shame someone for having different needs then you!;)

 

[KafkaF]

Hello!:), i just thougth about this, and maybe it could help you. But why dont you just hire an escort? If its one specific circumstanse where i feel like this has to 100 prosent legit. Then it has to be before chosing to take suicide. hehe! :) There is no shame in wanting to have some extra fun and pleasure before ctb.

Sex is great! So why not! There is no shame in being sexual and at least not legit to shame someone for having different needs then you!;)

Well, for one thing I can't do it the way I want with an escort. Secondly they're expensive. And thirdly and most importantly the thought makes me uncomfortable. I've only ever had sex with women I love and was in a relationship with.

 

[Aim]

Well, for one thing I can't do it the way I want with an escort. Secondly they're expensive. And thirdly and most importantly the thought makes me uncomfortable. I've only ever had sex with women I love and was in a relationship with.

Aha okay, I see. Oh well no sex then I guess! :)

 

[Silent Raindrops]

With what I'm going through, sex is the last thing I'm thinking about.

The way I see it, if I have sex before I go, I do .... If I don't, I don't. I'm not losing any sleep over it either way.

 

[Buh-bye!]

I think when you have truly crossed to that mental state where you are committed to ctb, all these earthly pleasures don't matter anymore.

true dat

 

[Final_Choice]

At some point maybe but I don't really care if I die a virgin at this point, it's not something I give any thought to these days nor do I actually want to do it before CTB.