Anyone disgusted by the thought of being posted on Social Media after your death?

[Deleted member 65988]

Absolutely, I'd rather not be posted about.

 

[blue_muse]

Completely disgusted. Immediate narcissistic family will use my death as a hall pass "Please don't stress me, I'm grieving.". As for friends, they'll pull out the 'Should've reached out to me' card.

Each one of those sanctimonious hypocrits figuratively poked and prodded to get me to the point I'm at now. Plus, each one of them faces serious prison time because my death has the potential to open floodgates.

 

[Asingletwig]

I hate the fact that my family who have basically ignored me for a decade will post some old bs picture of me and them on Facebook Or Instagram looking for sympathy. I know my best mate won't post a thing about me and I think some of the assholes I used to call friends will 100% make some it's okay to reach out about how your feeling post on Instagram. Even though they have ignored or said no every single time I tried to plan a group hangout for the last two years.

 

[TheSpookyNameGuy]

I wish to be no one and nothing.

I'd love to die abroad and I'm looking at options for it, i want to be burned tossed away and forgotten about.

I need no legacy for the apes to ponder as they were only a cosmic stopgap that i will cease to be a part of.

 

[brokeandbroken]

I have a lot of "friends", or rather acquaintances, that I am 99% sure would post half-assed Instagram stories with pictures of me, spreading the word that I died. I find even the thought of that disgusting because I am aware that some people I know are so addicted to posting on Social Media that they would go on to share every single detail about their (or other) lives. Also, these people would then go on and write texts about how important it is to reach out to suicidal people (even though they never did; most people only liked me when I had money) which would just further perpetuate this anti-suicide narrative that we have in modern society.

Do you understand my frustration with this?

I will leave a note which will clearly say that I do not want to be posted on SM after I'm gone.

Let me know your thoughts about this dear members of the community.

I don't know what would be more sad/insulting. People like my family putting on crocodile tears for sympathy after I died because that's all they care about. or no one giving a shit. Both is equally sad.

 

[gardenofaphrodite]

I have a lot of "friends", or rather acquaintances, that I am 99% sure would post half-assed Instagram stories with pictures of me, spreading the word that I died. I find even the thought of that disgusting because I am aware that some people I know are so addicted to posting on Social Media that they would go on to share every single detail about their (or other) lives. Also, these people would then go on and write texts about how important it is to reach out to suicidal people (even though they never did; most people only liked me when I had money) which would just further perpetuate this anti-suicide narrative that we have in modern society.

Do you understand my frustration with this?

I will leave a note which will clearly say that I do not want to be posted on SM after I'm gone.

Let me know your thoughts about this dear members of the community.

When I do die, I will absolutely write out who I know shouldn't be speaking about me or on my behalf. Their full legal & account names. I will specify how many times I had previously reached out, to be ignored or the topic changed, how little they care. I will publicly embarrass them after I'm dead. I think people who do shit like that, who pretend to care & front that they do- are awful people. I will point it out to the public, tag their friends, make a scene on social media - as they would have of my suicide. I think people like that, deserve to be shown what their true colors are, & I will make sure those colors shine to everyone they know.

I hold grudges, I can be petty, I do not forgive easily - those are my flaws, but I will embrace them in that instance.

 

[Scythe]

I just hope my family doesn't get my death on the news. I don't think anyone will make posts about me, as I don't have a lot of connections. I just hope nobody talks about my death while they don't know me at all and try to make my death look like something that could've been avoided. I feel that it can make my close friends feel worse about my death because those comments might make them feel that they could've done more. Which they couldn't have.

 

[NoReasonToLive2023]

Given what I've been accused of, I can honestly see social media being quite interested when I CTB. All the dickheads that piled in on the video will probably seek to blacken my name. I'm afraid that my mother will have to deal with this, and she truly doesn't deserve such grief, but my suffering is just too great.

 

[Freedombus'25]

Yeahhh my parents would have the audacity to say stupid shit like "no matter what we did we couldn't stop them" and other blameless stupid virtue signaling.

Im going to make sure I leave a note where I tell them what all their abuse did to me and how it contributed to my suicide. Im tired of being forgiving, understanding and nice.

Other people? I'd prefer no one use me for some stupid mental health awareness and just leave it alone. Like maybe I shall put in my note too that if they will do anything regarding my death it's advocating the right to die.

My brother will be the only one to respect my wishes. So ik if I request no funeral my piece of shit mother will go ahead with one anyway and it'll piss of my brother bc all the family who will attend will be fake ass people who didn't care for me. Ik that will stress him out to see/know about and it just makes me angry.


So I truely hope no one writes about me or anything. If ya wanted to talk about me then ya should've helped me in life thats my view. So only a few people in my life have the right to do that.