NSFW A poll for actively suicidal folks and sexual practices

[Freedombus'25]

This thread just from a human understanding/ sociological(?) Point of view was fascinating. Lots of dif points of view...

I haven't had any sexual encounters in like 5 yrs due to just... life? Trauma? Now im like very not into it / someone needs to take the time to learn about me, my trauma & care about it instead of just tryna jump into sexual shit bc I just get triggered.

I dunno of I'll ever have any sexual things again but I'd like to? Also I dunno if ima live long enough to even... "try" or get there? I dunno. Its both unimportant but would be a nice thing to... heal? Reclaim my body. Live beyond sexual trauma... alla dat



Yeah.

 

[R. A.]

like @Namelesa said depends on if you count sexting. if yes, i don't know, maybe ten-ish; if not, zero. i'm conventionally good-looking but increasingly disabled and i now feel pretty disgusting most of the time even though i don't outwardly appear too different. getting an infection could also kill me at this point (any kind, directly or indirectly via ctb) so anything casual is out and i despise the app culture anyway.
several of my conditions would impact my ability to be a hollywood-style lover at this point so i have no interest or capacity for anything beyond an intimate partner experience, which is almost certainly off the table indefinitely now (¬_¬")

idk such sentiments on this forum shock me.

this place was founded by incels apparently, so

 

[DontTouchMeImFamous]

That's like going up to a homeless person and saying... Houses are overrated. Stuff breaks and you have to have insurance and it costs money to fix things and there's property taxes and you have to mow your yard... you should be thankful to be living on the streets without all that responsibility of taking care of a home!

Or... telling someone starving... Most food is overrated. Processed foods are bad for you and it's hard to get quality produce. Junk food is the cheapest but it'll kill you faster than starving... so you're lucky because you can't get food poisoning and stay up all night vomiting when you have nothing to eat!

Being in bad relationships must suck... I imagine... but at least you had a chance, at least someone liked you at least a little bit and for a while and there were some good times in there or you wouldn't have been in the relationship at all. No offense, but people saying "relationships aren't all great" is so not on target for those of us who have never been in one at all.

Agreed

Having a roof over your head and access to food are basic human needs... sexual relationships and partnerships, not so much.

You can die without food and shelter, you cannot die from not having a sexual relationship with another human.

Not true at all. You probably don't understand why most of us are here. Communication and human bonding are essential human needs. It's in our DNA. That's how humans work. We wouldn't be humans if it wasn't for this.

Evolution is getting rid of those who can't socialize and that's why we are here.

Loneliness is a silent killer.

 

[kagebunshin]

The only person who has your back at the end of the day is you. Nobody knows you (and your body) better than you, yourself.

No shame in paying for sex... oldest profession in the world, after all.

Definitely my opinion, yes, and just chiming in because I can safely say based on my ample experience that having a partnered sexual encounter isn't the be all end all.

I see your point but it's not that adult virgins or lonely people want a quick fuck. It isn't even about pleasure. They wish to make love in the physical and spiritual sense, when you choose to be with someone who sees you, judges you, and chooses to be with you. They want to make themselves naked, body and soul, with someone who also bears all to them in an act of deep, mutual trust. It's about the freedom of vulnerability, and the ability to accept themselves through the eyes of a human being who accepts them. I don't think it's difficult to understand this and sympathise with it. We all want to be accepted and loved for who we are.

But of course if you view sex only as a quick fuck and nothing more, and that is all it means to you, then perhaps it is difficult to see it from other perspectives, I'm not sure about that.

 

[kcon1243]

Agreed

Not true at all. You probably don't understand why most of us are here. Communication and human bonding are essential human needs. It's in our DNA. That's how humans work. We wouldn't be humans if it wasn't for this.

Evolution is getting rid of those who can't socialize and that's why we are here.

Loneliness is a silent killer.

Communication and human bonding are definitely part of the human experience, but you dont need to fuck to have that. Sex doesnt cure loneliness, point blank.

If sex is all it takes to have connection, the world would be a much happier place and there would be far fewer suicides... but here we are, people who have connections and sex are still killing themselves every hour of every day.

If it was as simple as sex we wouldn't need drugs and hospitals... we could just open up government funded brothels and companionship centers, right? Do you think that would cure the suicide and loneliness epidemic? Personally, i dont.

 

[FadingSnowFake]

There was one and there will only ever this same person. Only thing is, I don't even know if I'll ever see this person again.