I'm going to vote for this song, You and Me Song by Swedish power pop band The Wannadies; originally released in 1993 then revived a few years later for the Romeo & Juliet movie soundtrack. Even back then I always wanted it played at my funeral as it captured the spirit of the life of togetherness I always yearned for.
So much more to add though. The amount of variety within top 40 was so awesome back then. Reggae (
Inner Circle - Sweat), blues (
Gary Moore - Still Got the Blues), power ballads (eg.
Heart - All I Wanna Do,
Michael Bolton - How Am I Supposed to Live Without You,
Roxette - Fading Like A Flower), New Age (
Enigma - Sadeness), metal (
Metallica - Enter Sandman), techno, rock, rap, fusions like rap-metal (
Rage Against The Machine - Killing In the Name Of), and all backed by mainstays like MJ or Bon Jovi. Where did it all go?