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OneAndOnly!!

OneAndOnly!!

Happiest person alive!!
Nov 24, 2023
11
I'd prefer to be remembered, I think. I'm in quite a solemn mood today.. sigh. It's a strange mix of: I want to be remembered by strangers, and I want to be forgotten by those who are close to me. I crave attention, but I don't want anyone close to me to suffer. What are your thoughts?
 
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Mi Mi

No One Special
Mar 18, 2024
308
I'd prefer to be remembered, I think. I'm in quite a solemn mood today.. sigh. It's a strange mix of: I want to be remembered by strangers, and I want to be forgotten by those who are close to me. I crave attention, but I don't want anyone close to me to suffer. What are your thoughts?
I would have rather been loved and appreciated while I was alive
Once I'm gone it will be the same
Only now when someone needs a reliable person
A ride
Or a filler
I won't be here
 
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UmbraDweller

UmbraDweller

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Sep 15, 2023
142
I wish I never even existed, so forgotten. I want to dissapear completely, I would erase peoples memories of me if I could. I'm nothing special to be remembered for either and could care less if anyone talks about me after dying, I will be damn dead to experience that anyway.
 
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BardBarrie

Specialist
Mar 17, 2024
300
I'd much rather be forgotten.
I've been nothing but a dipshit failure throughout my life and I've hurt plenty of good people.
 
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thenamingofcats

annihilation anxiety
Apr 19, 2024
453
Forgotten feels best to me.
 
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LaughingGoat

Mage
Apr 11, 2024
597
I would choose to forget myself if possible, so definitely wouldn't want to condemn others to remembering me.
 
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Scythe

Lost in a delusion
Sep 5, 2022
526
Remembered, otherwise I feel like I suffered for nothing. I don't expect or want to be remembered forever, just until when I would be 60 or 70. So I can live my life through memories.
 
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Dr Iron Arc

Dr Iron Arc

Into the Unknown
Feb 10, 2020
20,246
I want to say I'd prefer to be forgotten but the truth is I still have enough selfishness and ego to be curious about how people will remember and if they do they better remember me for all the negative aspects and not the positive ones.
 
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fleetingnight

fleetingnight

incapable of shutting up
May 2, 2024
428
I was going to say the exact same thing as you did. In an ideal world, I'd have some sort of minor celebrity fame and be remembered as sort of a legend, but I'd have been distant enough from people who actually knew me that it didn't hurt them very much. It's unlikely, though I do work under an alias partially for that reason.
 
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angel31

angel31

sause
Jun 14, 2023
255
Forgotten 100% i dont want ppl grieving over me
 
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Forever Sleep

Earned it we have...
May 4, 2022
8,128
Yeah- same as you really. It would be nice to be remembered fondly by the people I cared about. Not that I'll know much about it. But- if that then creates suffering, it's tricky really. Maybe it would be better if there were no memories at all.
 
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Lady Laudanum

Lady Laudanum

Specialist
May 9, 2024
307
Honestly I don't give a shit. Once I'm dead, I just stop existing. Literally nothing matters after that.
 
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vampire2002

vampire2002

weeb & neet ♡
Oct 8, 2023
74
i couldn't care less. we'll all be forgotten eventually. only ~1.6% of all human history is recorded. that's billions and billions of lives completely forgotten by now. one day our species will also go extinct. i have no particular desire to be remembered, even the people who may remember me will all be forgotten in time. it's all meaningless, it doesn't do me any good.
 
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sancta-simplicitas

sancta-simplicitas

Experienced
Dec 14, 2023
268
Forgotten. I even have a hard time with the fact that people remember me now while I'm alive. Especially my parents.
 
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thebelljarrr

thebelljarrr

Member
Apr 26, 2024
87
Actually I don't care. But maybe it's better to be forgotten and erase my traces from this shithole
 
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Dark Moon

Dark Moon

Wizard
Sep 21, 2022
686
Eh, probably forgotten but I think I will be remembered by family members.
 
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Leichter Kampfwagen

Leichter Kampfwagen

(LK1)
Dec 24, 2023
25
I can't care, I'll be dead! I'll care the exact same amount as I did before I was born: "zero point zero."
 
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Praestat_Mori

Mori praestat, quam haec pati!
May 21, 2023
10,026
I think, in my case, it'd be better if I was really forgotten and nobody ever remembered me. I suffer from a big failure in life that made me a failure and that is nothing what anyone should be remembered for.
 
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ijustwishtodie

ijustwishtodie

death will be my ultimate bliss
Oct 29, 2023
3,619
I wouldn't really care if I got forgotten or remembered but, if I were to have a preference, I'd rather be forgotten and have it as if I was never born to begin with
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
35,287
In my case all I wish for is to be forgotten about like I never existed at all, it comforts me to think of this existence disappearing into nothingness, all that I wish for is non-existence as it's the permanent absence of all suffering and harm. If it's up to me I'd choose to erase my existence so it's like I never existed in the first place, the existence of life was just a terrible tragedy to me that is best erased, only never existing is perfection to me, I wish I stayed permanently unaware of the abomination that is existence.
 
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EvisceratedJester

EvisceratedJester

|| What Else Could I Be But a Jester ||
Oct 21, 2023
2,019
Forgotten, tbh. I kind of suck so I think it'd be in everyones best interest if they forgot about my entire existence.
 
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derpyderpins

derpyderpins

Proud Normie
Sep 19, 2023
1,339
Like others have said, after you're dead it doesn't matter to you, but just like a will, the heart of the question is what gives you more comfort in life: knowing you'll be remembered or forgotten.

As I am now I don't really care. I'm fine. A disappointment by my own standards but otherwise forgettable middle of the bell curve.

I've always had a yearning to be remembered for something great. To be loved by the masses. I understand young people who just want to be Youtube famous.

"I'd rather be famous than righteous or holy anyday."
 
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firefoxes2000

New Member
Apr 16, 2024
1
forgotten, I don't want it to linger on people
 
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greebo6

Enlightened
Sep 11, 2020
1,570
Preferably forgotten by most but perhaps remembered by just a select few.
 
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Coconut blue

Coconut blue

Student
May 13, 2024
155
doesnt make a difference once im dead
 
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FrownyFace

FrownyFace

Member
May 15, 2024
13
I would much rather be forgotten. I don't think anything about me is worth keeping in memory and most of it's humiliating to me . I just want to be gone and treated like I never existed. Burn all my stuff, no funeral, no headstone. Just gone
 
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lkjhgfdsa1

lkjhgfdsa1

🖤
Apr 17, 2024
442
everybody has already forgotten about me
 
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wristcutangel

wristcutangel

What value is there to a life that wants to end?
Jul 5, 2023
159
i already know i'll be forgotten, so i suppose it doesn't really matter. it'd be nice if my friends could remember me, but i already know that won't happen.
 
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why am i alive?

why am i alive?

Look where i ended
Oct 18, 2023
101
Forgotten. I don't know of anyone cares about my death but I don't want to cause others pain by ending mine. I wish I could just erase the memory so no-one knows I even existed
 
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Forveleth

I knew I forgot to do something when I was 15...
Mar 26, 2024
755
Good God I hope no one wastes valuable brain space trying to remember my loser ass. 😩
 

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