Discussion Will you fall in love again?

[Life_and_Death]

I love 2 people very much and they both love me back. I'm sure you can see the complications this is causing.

still a virgin at 22

I wish I was.

 

[NightmareTour]

Personally, no. I wouldn't want to. It clouds your judgement, makes you do stupid things, and makes you ignore things that you'd usually realise are dangerous. If I started feeling like that towards someone again, I'd probably have to stop talking to them. No more idiot chemicals for me thanks.

There's also the fact that I don't go out or talk to people, so I'm not sure how it could happen anyway.

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

My boyfriend just told me he needed space, I don't think I'll be able to find another man that's as funny and caring as he is. But he wants to get out there and fuck apparently, fml.

 

[Barracuda91]

I doubt it.

I can't get over my ex even if I try, it's been a year this month since she left and still no better. Funny thing is I've tried moving on with someone else and got nowhere. I'm currently speaking to another girl at the moment, but it just doesn't feel like it's gonna go anywhere, the connection isn't there...you know, having things in common etc?
My problem is I cannot forgive myself for the whole fiasco with my ex partner it was my fault I self sabotaged the relationship, now I have told myself that I don't deserve anyone for my actions, there's no forgiving myself honestly, I feel wretched.

 

[cosmicpixiedust]

After losing the love of my life, I can definitely say that I will never love anyone again..I'm not even going to attempt to fall in love again. I still have our baby..if I can make it to full term without something going wrong then I will do my very best to fill him with all the love that I could ever give anyone.

 

[Toptock]

Something to also remember. People betray you, more-so when you can't provide for them. For what reason would we put ourselves in that situation? Sure, you get someone to do stuff with, but you can just as easily do that stuff alone.

 

[Symbiote]

No, I don't think I was destined for love, it's a lot of pain and heartache. Stressful and never liked the cat-and-mouse game. All I wanted was someone to share my adventures with, but then that's what friends are for.

 

[Ani198]

It's unlikely. I'm in love currently, and it's pretty likely it'll end when I die. Hopefully, I won't be alive to fall in love again.

 

[imsorrythatimhere]

Nope, I'm too insecure and just kinda shitty in general.

 

[W’ren]

Love hurts.
I'm in love right now and he uses it like a blade to cut at me...
And i break more every day.

After him, if i'm here... (which i fully expect NOT to bei would not want the pain of love ever again.

Which, of course, means i would probably fall head over heels madly deeply in love with some unavailable man or woman who would treat me just as callously-

Love hurts. So i'd take myself out first.
Hopefully soon-

 

[AN IDIOT'S END]

I fall in love 3 times a year. They always reject me though.

 

[lofticries]

Again? I haven't even fell in love with someone once. Closest thing I've ever gotten to it is being infatuated by some people. But it was shallow infatuation since I never really got to know these people outside of work/school.

Anyway I'm more ready to fall in love with a new anime series since the one I was previously obsessed with turned out to be shit. Boku no hero in case anyone is wondering.

 

[LONE WOLF.]

Fall in love! "NO NEVER"!!! Dog's yes their worthy of your love, but human beings are Not and Never will be

 

[Somebody]

I want to love, even thought how much it has already hurt me and can still hurt me. I don't think life has a lot of meaning if you have to go at it alone. You can have a purpose in life, and focus on that and forget everything else. If thats your love then go for it. I want to find a human/emotional connection. I don't want to be alone. :)

 

[Trisolaris]

I think I will never have a normal relationship again.

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

Sure, I can fall in love. It just won't be reciprocal.

 

[Bat 17]

Since my wife walked out on me just over a year ago I have not even come close to finding anyone else. I'm still a basket case emotionally and wouldn't want to inflict that on anyone.

Also my cocktail of psychiatric drugs has rendered me an asexual, emotionally numb, libidoless zombie, which is certainly a new experience but I think not that attractive to others!

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

I really want to but I just don't see it happening anymore. I think my standards are too high but those are impossible to change. And yes, being able to love me back is too high a standard for most women I suppose.

 

[orlandom]

I mean, I think I'm doing a good job with recovery but.... I think I won't be able to love anybody never ever again. FIrst, I gotta love myself.

I'm so unstable. I need to have NORMAL DAYS all the time in order to be in a serious relationship!

What do you think? In spite of your problems, do you think you'll be able to fall in love with somebody and be in a nice relationship again?

I think I could. But I know for sure that the strongest love is behind. And I do not want to. I think someone understands me? She was incredible. She was incredible. She was incredible.

 

[sadbadpsychogirl]

not in this life anyway...

 

[Ame]

No, I won't. Whether that has to do with me not being able to or me not wanting to doesn't really matter anymore. I was never worthy -- not of being loved, nor was I worth sticking around for. I did a shit job of loving and only the end matters now.

 

[ithappens]

I'm currently married, but if he ends up dying or leaving before I die I'm just going to kill myself. There isn't really any reason to stick around aside from him and I've faced enough manipulation, backstabbing, betrayal, and abuse to know that even IF I could manage to find someone like him again it would not be worth the price I'll have to pay.

 

[HarpoMarx]

I have more interesting and deeper conversations with my 2 rescued cats than i ever had with any of my gfs, specially the last one. They speak Thai, I reply in English and Spanish to thwm. I think we understand each other, or at least that's what they try to make me think..

Funny part? they both belonged to my (now) ex but she cannot even take care of a cactus. So I was responsible.

Funny will be when I try to go back to Europe. Me going back home with two thai speaker cats.

 

[Meditation guide]

I'm sure I will always be in love.

 

[WornOutLife]

I'm sure I will always be in love.

You're lovely and still one of my favs :).

 

[Marktheghost]

I have more interesting and deeper conversations with my 2 rescued cats than i ever had with any of my gfs, specially the last one. They speak Thai, I reply in English and Spanish to thwm. I think we understand each other, or at least that's what they try to make me think..

Funny part? they both belonged to my (now) ex but she cannot even take care of a cactus. So I was responsible.

Funny will be when I try to go back to Europe. Me going back home with two thai speaker cats.

You have cats that speak Thai?!

 

[HarpoMarx]

You have cats that speak Thai?!

Yes, as I live in Thailand. Not like the actually speak the Thai language to me in their daily life. But their meows sound different from the ones the european cats i ever had did, and they only pay attention to me when i speak to them in Thai. They totally ignore me while in English, and 50-50% in Spanish.

I know its all about noises and how they sound to them in order to catch theie attention. or that's what experts say. Call me nuts. I was actually joking (50-50%). But i truly believe cats are a better company than many people. :)

 

[WornOutLife]

Yes, as I live in Thailand. Not like the actually speak the Thai language to me in their daily life. But their meows sound different from the ones the european cats i ever had did, and they only pay attention to me when i speak to them in Thai. They totally ignore me while in English, and 50-50% in Spanish.

I know its all about noises and how they sound to them in order to catch theie attention. or that's what experts say. Call me nuts. I was actually joking (50-50%). But i truly believe cats are a better company than many people. :)

Your cats rock!
My dog can understand spanish and some japanese but hates english lol.

 

[HarpoMarx]

Your cats rock!
My dog can understand spanish and some japanese but hates english lol.

I got to admit that mine react more to argentinean than to spanish from Spain ;)

 

[lonerclown666]

I never had love in life