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fightclub17

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Why do psych wards exist? Like, everyone's biggest fear is ending up in grippy sock jail.

Psych wards can feel really intimidating and overwhelming, especially when you're already vulnerable. You're in an unfamiliar environment, surrounded by people you don't know, with routines and rules that can make you feel like you've lost autonomy.

There's a constant sense of unpredictability - not knowing what will happen next, who you'll interact with, or how you'll be treated. Nurses can be incredibly judgemental. Being observed so closely can feel invasive, and it can be hard to feel safe or settled.

When you're already struggling, that environment can amplify feelings of fear, isolation, and confusion, rather than ease them. You end up worse off coming out of that environment. What someone in that state often needs most is reassurance, gentle support and a sense of belonging - not locked away in a grey room, on a single mattress with a single grey chair hearing eerie sounds, screams and dinging bells.

I think what suicide attempt survivors need the most is some sort of retreat program in the hills or something. Like the tv series 'nine perfect strangers' where you get to meet other people who tried to unalive themselves. Create a space where people can speak openly without shame, guilt and remorse. Where support is immediate and compassionate. Where people share stories and experiences. To process trauma and build coping skills. Learn breathwork. Somatic therapy. Psilocybin ceremonies. Art therapy. Nature walks.

Suicidality just deepens with the stigma suicidal people feel in our society. That shunning does more than hurt feelings - it reinforces isolation, secrecy and shame, which can make suicidal thoughts feel even more inescapable.

It's a vicious cycle: the more society shuns someone, the more alone they feel, and the harder it becomes for them to reach out for help.
 
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psych wards exist, cause they cant just leave a suicidal person alone, its that easy.
if you live in a country with a bad system, then thats too bad.
I visited my exes psychward and there was stuff to do, and more so "grounding" i do believe they can do it in a better fashion, but its better than letting them out in the world.
 
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psych wards exist, cause they cant just leave a suicidal person alone, its that easy.
if you live in a country with a bad system, then thats too bad.
I visited my exes psychward and there was stuff to do, and more so "grounding" i do believe they can do it in a better fashion, but its better than letting them out in the world.
There is a role for psych wards - they're meant to keep people safe during acute crises. But what is missing is my point: safety alone isn't the same as care, understanding or dignity. And when the system is cold, under resourced or impersonal, it can absolutely add to the feeling of being shut away rather than supported.

Saying 'it's better than letting them out in the world' can feel especially harsh, because it frames suicidal people as a problem to contain rather than people who need connection and compassion. That's exactly the kind of attitude that feeds the stigma I was talking about.
 
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Topaz111

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They exist to keep the "crazies" away from public, "out of sight out of mind!". It's a prison where your only "crime" is feeling unwell. They don't give a fuck about how you feel, they just don't want to be "liable" if you hurt yourself. The biggest reason why people in despair don't seek help, (besides monetary barriers) is the fear of getting locked up. The single biggest thing that would improve recovery rates and reduce impulsive suicides would be the ability to access support without the everpresent threat of getting sent away.
 
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Shiitake

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There is a role for psych wards - they're meant to keep people safe during acute crises. But what is missing is my point: safety alone isn't the same as care, understanding or dignity. And when the system is cold, under resourced or impersonal, it can absolutely add to the feeling of being shut away rather than supported.

Saying 'it's better than letting them out in the world' can feel especially harsh, because it frames suicidal people as a problem to contain rather than people who need connection and compassion. That's exactly the kind of attitude that feeds the stigma I was talking about.
the latter sentence is litteraly it, what their goal is, if you live in like a shit hole like usa, where all faucets of public bla bla is shit then too bad
 
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They exist to keep the "crazies" away from public, "out of sight out of mind!". It's a prison where your only "crime" is feeling unwell. They don't give a fuck about how you feel, they just don't want to be "liable" if you hurt yourself. The biggest reason why people in despair don't seek help, (besides monetary barriers) is the fear of getting locked up. The single biggest thing that would improve recovery rates and reduce impulsive suicides would be the ability to access support without the everpresent threat of getting sent away.
100% - if only psychiatrists didn't have months long wait times and cost hundreds of dollars! And psych wards didn't treat people like prisoners. What we need is support that feels safe and human, not just containment.
 
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they arent perfect, but subjectively they do need to exist. there are people who are too mentally unstable to be allowed to be free.

when i say that, im not talking about the people who are depressed and feeling suicidal who get taken and involuntarily committed, only making their suicidal feelings worse. im talking about the people are are truly mentally unstable and unable to fit into society. Hearing voices, seeing things, cant control their thoughts or actions, lashing out violently. ive seen way too many police bodycam videos on youtube of mentally unstable people who are off their meds going out and hurting people and causing a scene during a manic episode.

whether you like it or not, there are people who cant fit into society and psych wards are there to keep them from hurting more people.
 
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they arent perfect, but subjectively they do need to exist. there are people who are too mentally unstable to be allowed to be free.

when i say that, im not talking about the people who are depressed and feeling suicidal who get taken and involuntarily committed, only making their suicidal feelings worse. im talking about the people are are truly mentally unstable and unable to fit into society. Hearing voices, seeing things, cant control their thoughts or actions, lashing out violently. ive seen way too many police bodycam videos on youtube of mentally unstable people who are off their meds going out and hurting people and causing a scene during a manic episode.

whether you like it or not, there are people who cant fit into society and psych wards are there to keep them from hurting more people.
I understand there are situations where people need intensive support for safety. But most people experiencing severe mental health episodes are vulnerable, not dangerous. The goal shouldn't be to separate them from society, but to support them in a way that's humane and actually helps them recover. Maybe it's wishful thinking that the same funding could be used to create environments conducive to healing, and not one that traumatises a vulnerable individual even more.
 
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Matchaaa

Matchaaa

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I've always felt that some terrible psych wards exist in order to punish those with suicidal ideation, subjecting them to horrific experiences and conditions in order to deter them from attempting suicide again without others finding out.
I would also hope that psych wards today are places where people can feel warmth and find healing.

Unfortunately, in my country psych wards are in poor condition are frequently plagued by human rights issues(there were even cases a few years ago where people were 'admitted' simply for expressing political dissent).
 
fightclub17

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I've always felt that some terrible psych wards exist in order to punish those with suicidal ideation, subjecting them to horrific experiences and conditions in order to deter them from attempting suicide again without others finding out.
I would also hope that psych wards today are places where people can feel warmth and find healing.

Unfortunately, in my country psych wards are in poor condition are frequently plagued by human rights issues(there were even cases a few years ago where people were 'admitted' simply for expressing political dissent).
Haha that's one way to look at it. I've been in and out of hospitals this past year, and they just make me more suicidal.

That's nuts people were admitted for merely challenging politics. What country is this?
 
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Matchaaa

Please excuse any tone misunderstandings,thank you
Dec 10, 2025
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Haha that's one way to look at it. I've been in and out of hospitals this past year, and they just make me more suicidal.

That's nuts people were admitted for merely challenging politics. What country is this?
China💔
 
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Because society wants "crazy people" locked up so they do not have to deal with them. That then turned into a massive business. Then they turned into a secondary prison system where you can get people locked up way easier than you can in actual prison. So, money and getting rid of people someone does not like.
 

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