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Married and forget about us? Sorry, but that is a sweeping generalization. Like I said, complicated grief and the guilt survivors (especially of suicide victims) feel is all too real and painful. Have you, yourself, ever lost someone you love with all your heart? You never really get over that trauma. It lives with you everyday. I know a mother who lost her son to an overdose and she blames herself and hasn't been able to fully move on. Yes, everybody is different and will move on (sometimes) but it is never easy for the people left behind, unless you never cared for the person in the first place. All I said is, if you are going to cbt and you have people who will truly miss you (and many will) then do everything you can to let them know that you love them and that it isn't their fault. Plain and simple.
Mine is too. And I want to be with him...i understand your pain friend
I do kinda dig what you're saying because when I was taking care of my mother 24/7 I was frank with her, I said once you pass I'm probably gonna join you soon but she said I need to stick around for my sister. My sister died last week so now I'm in the mindset of there's really no one left to stick around for
Wow, sorry to hear that. Damn, that's rough losing both of them. I too, looked after my mother when she was ill for years and my favourite uncle died just a few weeks ago. It's not easy, I feel your pain.
Yes, see you understand what I'm dealing with...I took care of my father on hospice, a month later my mother and only 2 months later my sister passed away....it was like bam bam bam, little time to breathe and morn
Lol, dude, speaking of sweeping generalizations. yes I have, and yes I did. You're talking out of your ass. Trauma survivors can and do move on, not always, but they can.
Oh good god you are so belligerent. My main point was to cherish the ones you love, cbt or not, let them know and leave something in a fucking note to ease their pain. What don't you get here?
Yes, it is certainly a hellava lot to deal with and take in. Sometimes it doesn't rain but it pours. You have been dealt with some major blows in life in regards to loss. The only thing I can say to you is, you did a great job looking after your family and I am sure they were proud of you and loved you very much. Whatever you do from here on out is your journey. Best wishes my friend!
Many people here don't have the coping skills, mental power, empathy, even some with enough intelligence to deal with life's challenges. Everyone is different and it's not right to hold them accountable to your standards.
