Discussion Why is love painful?

[KillingPain267]

Love is supposed to be beautiful, but when it ends it hurts so much that nothing even matters anymore

I advise anyone who wants to try love... just DON'T. It's not worth the risk of pain. It's like alcohol and drugs. It's fun at first but then hurts you so much to the point of organ failure.

 

[moshimoshi]

I really feel that so deeply. It hurts to love, when people are ripped away from you, when people who promised they would stay and said they would love you forever, then they leave in the end. It really is so shattering and heartbreaking. It's one of the worst pains I've ever experienced, worse than anything physical. I'm so sorry you've been through this too

 

[jujujr]

yeah. is what it is ))

 

[1MiserableGuy]

Because you confuse it with the emotional state of romance, when in reality, it's vonultary selfess actions

 

[diviosd]

True love shouldn't be painful. Anyways watch the perks of being a wallflower

 

[Valso]

I advise anyone who wants to try love... just DON'T. It's not worth the risk of pain.

+1 on that!

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

Well apparently, when love is at its most painful that's just this thing called limerence which is actually super bad because the person you love or are limerent towards us actually supposedly the one who suffers more. Oops.

That said, maybe love is meant to hurt in order to punish us for not doing it right. Idk, whoever designed it is a fucking moron.

 

[Valso]

maybe love is meant to hurt

... so that you don't make the same mistake again.

 

[Forever Sleep]

Because it brings with it huge potential for loss.

 

[FakeSmileGuy]

I have a girlfriend, but she has to go to a college very far away. We won't be able to spend the summer together, so we really only have a few weeks left with each other. She wants to do long distance but I don't know if I'm strong enough for that. I wish I could stop time and spend it all with her, I love her so much, but I don't know if we can stay together. I don't want to feel this heartbreak. I don't want this pain. I don't want to break her heart. Fuck.