Discussion Why give up SH?

[ugulamugula]

Why would you give up SH? It has so many benefits and i don´t see any negatives, so why would you try to quit it if ur already struggling? Pls correct me if you think im wrong, im open minded!

 

[AloneGunManTheory]

I know a girl who SHs and her wound recently got badly infected..that's something to look out for.

 

[meowpuppy]

you have to hide it from your parents, any potential partner will know about it, your mental health treatment could change..

lots and lots of downsides. i'm actually, trying not to hurt myself

 

[sadbh—itstimetogo🤎]

If you genuinely see no negatives in sh, then yeah, why would you stop? I think you answered your own question.

 

[dragonofenvy]

I stopped because I found other ways to cope. I realized it was a means for me to gain control over something and to feel a physical sensation. I purchased these fidget balls and they've helped me a lot. I still feel the urge sometimes but it's and urge that eventually passes. I wish I could give you the silver bullet that would let you stop if that's what you want to do, but I can't. One day I woke up and said "enough is enough." I know it sounds stupid, but I'm serious. That's what made me stop. I think everyone eventually has that same moment but it takes time.

 

[softfur]

running out of space