
Chupacabra 44
If boredom were a CTB method, I would be long gone
- Sep 13, 2020
- 710
If your referring to the "seeking a female" thread I'll explain why I left the comment I made. Lots of women like myself are here because of abuse from ex's and men in general. We are not here to give someone a "girlfriend experience" . To me the post gave off a bad predator vibe because he was asking for a "female to supply" him with a girlfriend experience. If he just wanted friends why not include everyone? I have seen WAY too many predators here in my time and I think healthy skepticism and caution was warranted with that post. I didn't think I was flaming someone who was potentially suicidal I feel like it's good to warn about an alarming post like that. This is not a "hook up or a dating site" people here are suffering and sadly far too many get exploited. If he sincerely wants to meet women go to a dating site not SS.
And for people who have made lasting genuine friendships here that's great. I have made lots of wonderful genuine friends here. I just think healthy caution is very important... exploiting vulnerable people who are suffering is about as low someone can go and it happens too much sadly.
If your referring to the "seeking a female" thread I'll explain why I left the comment I made. Lots of women like myself are here because of abuse from ex's and men in general. We are not here to give someone a "girlfriend experience" . To me the post gave off a bad predator vibe because he was asking for a "female to supply" him with a girlfriend experience. If he just wanted friends why not include everyone? I have seen WAY too many predators here in my time and I think healthy skepticism and caution was warranted with that post. I didn't think I was flaming someone who was potentially suicidal I feel like it's good to warn about an alarming post like that. This is not a "hook up or a dating site" people here are suffering and sadly far too many get exploited. If he sincerely wants to meet women go to a dating site not SS.
And for people who have made lasting genuine friendships here that's great. I have made lots of wonderful genuine friends here. I just think healthy caution is very important... exploiting vulnerable people who are suffering is about as low someone can go and it happens too much sadly.
Just as I struggle to understand why I see the same tinnitus thread posted here over and over versus posting those concepts on one of the many tinnitus forums, I too struggle with why somebody posts a dating thread on a site like this?
I sympathize with those who were offended by that thread.
As much as the OP was cringy, nevertheless I hope nothing pushed him over the edge. I'm too sensitive and had no desire to read and see his potential handling of responses.
Bottom line, I care and hope everyone came away from that thread unscathed.