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How do you most frequently communicate with friends/family?

  • In person

    Votes: 3 8.8%
  • On the phone

    Votes: 1 2.9%
  • Texting

    Votes: 14 41.2%
  • Online- email

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Online- social media

    Votes: 2 5.9%
  • Online- messaging/ chat apps

    Votes: 10 29.4%
  • Online- forums

    Votes: 3 8.8%
  • Online- games

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • Other (I'm sure I missed something...)

    Votes: 1 2.9%

  • Total voters
    34
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Forever Sleep

Earned it we have...
May 4, 2022
15,304
I thought about doing this as a sort of percentage poll but then, couldn't figure out how to get that to work. So- the poll is for your most used method of social interaction (with friends and family). If you want to though, you could break it down into a percentage score. For me, it looks fairly shockingly as follows: Probably something like:

78% online- here.
10% in person
8% by telephone
4% maybe texting

I'm going by total time spent. So- I text more than I phone chat but, phone calls last longer. But overall, it's mostly here I come for social interaction.

If you are more of a hermit- like me, do you think that contributes to the way you feel? Do you need a lot of social interaction?

I think I'd struggle if I had nothing. I do really appreciate the people I do keep in touch with but, I can probably get by on comparitively little.

Have you changed throughout your life? Has the way you communicate changed?

I was never much one for phone chatting with friends- mostly texting. More with family there. I used to see friends in person more though. I'm more likely to try and find excuses rather than see people these days. I think it's harder to mask in person. Or, on the phone really. They have more to go on that something's off. How about you?
 
XiaroX

XiaroX

Team Empathy Singularity
Dec 5, 2025
109
Things have changed a lot over the years, and right now I don't think I can write a detailed response, but I'll try to come back to this thread later. I clicked 'other' because I guess when it comes to friends/family, most of my communication is 'psychic'', which I know sounds flaky. It's just that I feel I understand why they don't understand, and I wish them well in their lives, I wish them happiness and love.
 
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FoxSauce

FoxSauce

Emotionally unstable like an IKEA table
Aug 23, 2024
1,263
For me depends I hate talking on the phone moslty. Cuz I cant handle it as much, if is a person I know pretty well then yea.

I just dont wanna be judge and you cant see what face their making so.

But the down side I cant order by myself sometimes cuz I feel like im wasting everybody's time.

Texting is also good ig. I cant even call a pharmacy to pick up pills cuz I just freeze

Everything has it pros and cons
 
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NearlyIrrelevantCake

NearlyIrrelevantCake

The Cake Is A Lie
Aug 12, 2021
2,516
My phone is on silent, not even vibration on, 99% of the time. I only turn it on if I'm waiting for a specific call, almost always medical shit to set up appointments or to do the appointments over the phone themselves. I never use my phone for outgoing calls except for the same reason--medical shit.

I use FB a lot, mostly just fucking around posting memes and news but sometimes chatting.

Discord is the main way I'm in contact with friends and shit, I'm on it all day.
 
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