which saying do you hate the most?

[cemeteryismyhome]

"What have you tried to get better?"

 

[Dyingoportunity]

"you're not going to do that. I won't let you"


This was the response from loved ones after telling them that I want to catch the bus. It's because my personal autonomy has been fucked over like this my whole life that I want to in the first place. Not even loved ones have any say over death.

 

[unluckysadness]

"It will be OK"... I hate these words because it has never been OK

 

[Magi129]

"You're too young to really know", generally applied when you say how horrible you find living. "Too young to know if life is bad"

 

[Sergeant45]

''What goes around comes around''.

No, it seems bad things just never fucking happen to the correct people for once.

 

[xhelx]

"Others have it worse"

Do you expect me to be happy about people suffering?

 

[ChrisFromEarth]

It's ok to not be ok

Fuck that!!!

 

[The Morningstar]

Just believe in yourself.

Ok. And then...?

 

[tulero]

"Others have it worse"

Do you expect me to be happy about people suffering?

got to say this one helped me up to some point

but after some time it stopped working ahaha

 

[Bxtra]

"It is what it is"

 

[Amile]

"life doesn't owe you anything", "happiness is a choice", "it surely beats the alternative", "It is what it is" and the classic "other have it worse".
That type of passive-aggressive things that i don't even know why anybody would say ever, it infuriates me as anything else. It does not even attempt to be empathetic and is just insulting.
I find them mainly in the internet, fortunately i hasn't found anybody in real life that is jerk enough to say any of that.

 

[Angst Filled Fuck Up]

Today it's "your loss". I'm aware it's not exactly ctb-related, but I was posting elsewhere about types of people I'm not into, and was immediately hit with that. How is it my loss if I don't want it to begin with? It makes no sense.

 

[kittyloverxd]

it's either "it'll get better" or "there's someone else who has it worse" i mean like i understand it but everybody is different and one of the things that make us different is the way how we handle what happens into our life

 

[theboy]

I tell my problems
The answer: You are still young - you have a lot to live for :)

 

[S like Siren]

for me it is

time heals all wounds

Omg!it's the first thing I thought when I just read the title...
Exactly that!

But also i want add:
-"there is the light at the end of the tunnel"

Yeah,I am still in the dark,never came out the tunnel,the tunnel is infinite.

Also I want say i related to everybody that posted before

 

[Dark Moon]

"It will get better over time" my friend back in school said that and it never did.

 

[auniqueusername!]

The early bird gets the worm

I always respond with the second mouse gets the cheese lol

 

[metfan647]

"It is what it is". Too overused.

 

[Sprite_Geist]

"life doesn't owe you anything", "happiness is a choice", "it surely beats the alternative", "It is what it is" and the classic "other have it worse".
That type of passive-aggressive things that i don't even know why anybody would say ever, it infuriates me as anything else. It does not even attempt to be empathetic and is just insulting.
I find them mainly in the internet, fortunately i hasn't found anybody in real life that is jerk enough to say any of that.

...But suicidal people are heavily criticized and berated for wanting to die, as if we "owe" life another chance. Phrases such as: "X does not owe you anything" in some contexts can come across as apathetic and very individualistic - the same type of apathetic attitude that suicidal people are labelled as selfish for supposedly having.

Why do you have a duty to someone, or something, that has no obligations to you?