30-35…got away from my manipulative, emotionally abusive ex, moved up in my career, got my own place, finally paid off my student loan debt, started the healthiest relationship I'd ever been in and got married. Felt too good to be true, was actually excited for the future. Then got a severe chronic illness at 35 that absolutely destroyed my life practically overnight and has left me bedridden, suffering 24/7. Life is a fucking joke.