Discussion What would be your ideal partner?

[NoSentimentality]

Beautiful (to me) inwardly & outwardly, loyal, acceptably strong (not necessarily as much physically as mentally), brave (by female standards of course -but not the modern ones), acceptably intelligent i.e free-thinker (intelligence could be balanced out with funny though -as in; if I can't talk deeply with the person "at least" she can make me laugh) healthy, compassionate yet badass still.

 

[thx1138]

Someone who sees me as a real human person instead of something to use and abuse, and someone who likes to have conversations instead of just waiting for their turn to speak. Someone compassionate and loyal to a fault, just like me. Someone who will never judge me and never leave me. They could be ugly as sin for all I care, looks don't matter to me at all, neither does social status, all that matters is a beautiful soul.

 

[NoSentimentality]

Someone who will never judge me and never leave me.

"Never judge you", might I ask what you mean by that?
As in you'd be almighty?
If you rape babies, steal christmas, cheat & never flush after no. 2, you're not to be judged?
Above all criticism? The person can never condemn you in any way regardless what you do?
Then I must tell you, you want a slave, a person without free will, lower than a dog (at least they only have Stockholm syndrome).

 

[K-O]

im drawn to extremes.
ive had all sorts of partners but the ones (soulmate) i truly felt completely sure and was mentally physically spiritually emotionally elevated by us being together have both ctb, one not long ago and the other 13 years ago..
so i guess im instinctively drawn to close to death souls.. both our energies just exploded, and obv the sex was extreme and otherworldly x

 

[netrezven]

I'm infected in my head and will never completely accept any partner. No matter all the proves for trust i can't fall for it. I think that even if i find my perfect partner it will only be temporarely and when my head switches it will be done again.

 

[Bct]

Attractive, doesn't make me have to worry what I'm saying (because sometimes I unintentionally say something bad), respects my decision if I'm going to CTB, and of course she needs to love me back.

 

[TheSoulless]

It would probably be someone who shares my ideology, and who I feel comfortable with (that's a given, though). I feel like looks matter somewhat, but my ideal partner would be one who wouldn't mind not having sex, in the traditional sense at least. Then again, I'm not the most attractive person myself. I would be happy if someone expressed their interest in me, but I fear that I don't know how to return their affection.

 

[pete_x]

My hand.

 

[woxihuanni]

My (ex-ish) partner minus the addiction and co-dependency they have.

 

[Kikoo Loool]

A certain Chinese-American woman

 

[Gregorius]

My girlfriend is just perfect for me. We have been together since the beginning of 2020 and help each other through the depression. I met her in psychiatry, si It gives me a reason to continue living for the time being. Still have SN in stock haha.

 

[gymletethnicel]

I can't really say since I'm a kissless hugless virgin universally hated by women because of my genetics so I'd say no relationship would be the best for me.

 

[Myforevercharlie]

I can't really say since I'm a kissless hugless virgin universally hated by women because of my genetics so I'd say no relationship would be the best for me.

Universally?

 

[gymletethnicel]

Universally?

Yes, universally, as in all of them. Never have I seen a woman treat a very short and ugly brown man with even the slightest respect, rather hate and disgust instead. It's just biological I guess so I can't blame them tbh.

 

[mediocre]

Someone who understands me and knows my limitations/fears.

 

[not4us]

She (my ideal partner) would be vegan; childfree; honest and faithful; tall; 29-38 years old (I'm 34).

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

First they'd have to be someone who would actually be able to tolerate the real me, which already disqualifies at least 99.99% of all human beings who have ever lived

 

[Harriet]

Someone who wants to fall down the rabbit hole of crazy with me

 

[FuneralCry]

I cannot stand people. Personally I would prefer to be alone, far away from anyone else.

 

[Finis Autem Spero]

Someone impossible, I think.

When I was younger, I'd say someone intelligent. Then I'd say someone faithful. Then someone who makes me laugh.

I think now, I would love all of that in a person. If I had to add to it, mostly someone who understands me, doesn't take life seriously and doesn't decide that they know what's best for me. Someone who gets that I prefer solitude over anyone's company. No matter how much I like them, they'll never compare to silence.

I think anyone with more than a few of those qualities would be wise enough to do much better than me.

 

[Manaaja]

Someone who is not from this planet, preferably from a good dimension

 

[motel rooms]

Having ideals is a really bad idea.

 

[youraffection]

Just someone that makes me happy to be around them.

I don't think I can bring myself to subject anyone to me as their partner though.

 

[quakociaptockh2]

Someone exlusive, not someone who dated a pool before settling.

Someone I knew since early, preferably before 20.

Someone "normal", who is in good/neutral mood most of the time.

Someone who treats me and other people with respect. (This ostensibly simple condition seems impossible in today's world.)

Someone from introverted / quiet / sensitive side of the spectrum.

Someone to have a family, children, a cat and lead simple and unsophisticated life.

 

[Enigmatic Sailor]

Someone who makes me feel welcomed and complete. Someone where we can both find our strengths and weaknesses to try and reach self-actualization. I hope love is real, but when I try to understand it; I become logical and can't fully grasp it. It's best to be alone at times to help you understand things better.