What would be the ideal man for you?

[hellispink]

I am more into girls. But I also can do boys. My ideal man/girl would be

-An intelectual intelligent person. He must love studying among anything else. We should be able to have deep conversations about everything including politics and more.
-high self esteem a must. I don't want someone to be insecure about everything he does or I do. He must know where he is standing at.
- He must love himself. We dont always love ourselves but most of the days we can choose to be kind. If he doesn't respect himself, I can't expect him to respect me.
-He must be brave and courageous to say the truth and in everything else he does. He should be able to take risks and be an adventurous person. That if I want to go jumping of a plane he would be the first one to tell me yes.
-He needs to have a sense of humor. Seriousness is appreciated but if it is a person that likes monotony and doesn't like change in his life and is always complaining etc , it is a no for me.
- He must like changes and thrive always for improvement. I don't like people to stay as they are forever. I like people who enjoy growing themselves constantly, this applies in everything in his life
- he needs to have his priorities set straight and be clear from the beginning that way there is no misunderstandings
-He must be empathetic over other people and mostly animals . He must show care for causes such as helping others in need, volunteering for people or animals.
- He must be able to acknoledge his virtues and flaws. Him being able to say sorry and also applying limits to me, shows character.
-He should be able to communicate and express himself and his needs in a timely and clear manner. I dont wanna be playing mind reading games or someone that can't express his feelings and everything else nicely and smoothly.
- He is not overly clingy. I like my space, i can share a room or a house but don't be obsessed about me or on my lap 24/7
-He must never raise his voice as I won't raise mine. I dont like noisy people
-It has to be a mature guy that is not afraid of having uncomfortable conversations.
-But most importantly, a man that is able to be vulnerable next to me and show me his feelings, what he likes and what bothers him.
- He must like cooking or not be in trouble with it.
- he must be clean and functioning (able to do chores as a couple and alone)

 

[dramatizelist]

Honestly just somebody who is like me

Quite simple; very hard to find.

 

[chyme]

A man who would kill me without hesitation, no remorse.

 

[self.destractive]

i like large men ! muscley, fat, tall, it doesnt matter to me. as long as hes big enough for me to sorta- nestle into yknow. big ol' arms to curl up in at night and keep me safe! ohh! dad bods too!
chest and facial hair too - i dunno. ive never been one for thin little skinny pretty boys. i dont get the appeal?
race doesnt matter to me either and i guess i prefer them to be older than me. like im 19 but the thought of dating an 18 year old makes me squirm - i need them to be older than me.

personality wise i am just attracted to kindness. respect of physical and emotional boundaries is also very important. clinginess is my main turn off. i also couldnt be with someone turbulent and high energy,, needs to be gentile and chill? idk honestly these are just preferences it doesnt really matter

 

[KuriGohan&Kamehameha]

2D men >>>>> 3D

 

[Insomniac]

someone from sanctioned-suicide.net because if they have seen my posts here and still want to be with me then they're the one lmfao. I mean, look at my AVI.

also, anyone who has a better passport and country than mine so I can leave this shithole *insertcardiblaughter*.

 

[Deleted member 847]

2D men >>>>> 3D

The way "male beauty" is normalized in anime and eastern culture amazes me

I kind of like it to be honest,
it give a touch of eye candy to the stories

I remember the first time I watched Inuyasha (I think I was 5 or 6 years old) I thought at first glance that the white haired
demon protagonist was a girl, because I had no concept of long hair on men/boys being a thing.

 

[Insomniac]

2D men >>>>> 3D

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This is Charioce
He is NOT a tsundere. He is genuinely cruel and mad. I want to cry whenever I think of the fact that he and I will never be together.

 

[Deleted member 847]

3D > 2D

 

[kappa]

I'd sell my organs to have a real life anime girlfriend
But they don't exist, because real women want to be real people and they don't want to wear a school uniform with a mini skirt 24/7
with untied hair and make up on all the time just to please me.

Yaaa women aren't sex dolls or objects. But hey they do make sex dolls for people like you.

The sexualization of school girl uniforms is disgusting.

 

[Deleted member 847]

Yaaa women aren't sex dolls or objects. But hey they do make sex dolls for people like you.

The sexualization of school girl uniforms is disgusting.

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1. I know women can't wear skirts and make up all the time, they're human beings,
not video game npcs.
I'm someone that's obsessed with beauty and art, so excuse me for having
desires, asshole.
Wanna know what else is impossible?
Flying, being immortal, time travelling, pressing a button that would make humanity unable to ever reproduce again etc.
None of these desires are realistic,
but I still dream about them out of self indulgence
A girl that looks beautiful all the time is one of these "I wish I can time travel" type of desire
I know it's not feasible, real life isn't a video game

Where I live people don't go to school in uniforms, so
excuse me if my brain doesn't automatically associate
"skirts" with high school girls, but instead thinks of a hentai game with adult women in their 20s wearing them

Don't grown women also wear skirts? Oh yeah they do, so fuck off
I think I've watched at least 20 japanese porn videos with grown women wearing
school uniforms, so that proves to you the existence of school uniforms on grown women

Also just because I appreciate the beauty a person has it doesn't mean I'm sexually attracted to them or that I want to fuck them
I mean I compliment men for their looks too sometimes and trust me I'm not into sucking
dicks

Beauty is just beauty to me

"just to please me" doesn't mean I necessarily want them to fuck me retard

 

[Insomniac]

3D > 2D

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False. 2D>3D.

Period.

 

[come to dust]

2D men >>>>> 3D

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It's easy to like anime characters over real men because anime characters always have square jaws, straight noses, hunter eyes and no blemishes or flaws

 

[kappa]

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1. I know women can't wear skirts and make up all the time, they're human beings,
not video game npcs.
I'm someone that's obsessed with beauty and art, so excuse me for having
desires, asshole.
Wanna know what else is impossible?
Flying, being immortal, time travelling, pressing a button that would make humanity unable to ever reproduce again etc.
None of these desires are realistic,
but I still dream about them out of self indulgence
A girl that looks beautiful all the time is one of these "I wish I can time travel" type of desire
I know it's not feasible, real life isn't a video game

Where I live people don't go to school in uniforms, so
excuse me if my brain doesn't automatically associate
"skirts" with high school girls, but instead thinks of a hentai game with adult women in their 20s wearing them

Don't grown women also wear skirts? Oh yeah they do, so fuck off
I think I've watched at least 20 japanese porn videos with grown women wearing
school uniforms, so that proves to you the existence of school uniforms on grown women

Also just because I appreciate the beauty a person has it doesn't mean I'm sexually attracted to them or that I want to fuck them
I mean I compliment men for their looks too sometimes and trust me I'm not into sucking
dicks

Beauty is just beauty to me

"just to please me" doesn't mean I necessarily want them to fuck me retard

You don't associate "school girl" with being underage? I can tell I triggered you, sorry... lol

Imma see myself out now.

 

[Deleted member 847]

You don't associate "school girl" with being underage? I can tell I triggered you, sorry... lol

Imma see myself out now.

I don't associate school uniforms with school girls, because
school uniforms aren't a thing in my country.

And they do look good on grown women too, especially the short skirts (that school girls don't wear, those skirts were actually designed for women)
It makes their thighs stand out more, gives them a curvaceous figure

And even when I see these curvaceous women, my first thought isn't "I want to fuck you because you're hot"
I just think "Wow she looks hot"

Why do you people have to think about sex all the time

And then I'm the one objectifying women, okay

 

[Insomniac]

You don't associate "school girl" with being underage? I can tell I triggered you, sorry... lol

Imma see myself out nonow.

I think he meant that he doesn't associate school-uniform looking outfits with school girls. Women in their twenties wear pleated mini skirts too

 

[Deleted member 847]

It's easy to like anime characters over real men because anime characters always have square jaws, straight noses, hunter eyes and no blemishes or flaws

Yeah I don't know about the square jaws,
some anime characters have them, but
most are drawn with that pointy chin style

In real life the most masculine anime guy would look something like this

Noctis from Final Fantasy


or Raiden from Metal Gear


very different from your superman, that has a skull as big as a male skull can get, and
that's because they don't want to make them look too masculine on purpose, to not ruin the aesthetics of the show/game



But most anime boys would probably look like your baby faced bts singers



but maybe that's what they like about them
they are characters that have
both masculine and feminine qualities

I'm the exact opposite
I find women (fictional and real) with masculine qualities
unattractive

It's just me

 

[Ringo]

I could let my imagination run wild, but I think the traits I love in a man are simple, however seeing them together is a bit difficult as they tend to clash with each other.

Easygoing but polite, gentle but not dormant, protective, intelligent, I like a direct and committed person, who is unassuming and somewhat passionate, one of those that means well and has the heart in the right place.

Physically, the guys I've been attracted to, both real and fictional, are so different that I think I have a broader taste in that regard.

Noctis from Final Fantasy

Where does that Noctis come from? His post time-skip version never appeared shaved wearing his enthroned attire.

 

[FullCircle]

My husband. We got married 2 months ago. And it's weird because 3 years ago I never would have pictured myself with someone like him. But now I couldn't picture myself with anyone but him. He's a handsome Puerto Rican punk rock guy. He rants about things I know nothing about but I've learned so much from him. He listens to me and loves the mess that I am. He's walked with me through some dark things and never walked away. I love him so much.
We had to take from our savings so I could have a therapy session. He's been so supportive. After my session we were talking about my battle with depression and he said, "Just don't leave me." Now every time my mind goes there I hear him say that.
I know this isn't a recovery topic and I apologize if it's off topic but I came across the post and felt like sharing.

 

[come to dust]

Yeah I don't know about the square jaws,
some anime characters have them, but
most are drawn with that pointy chin style

All the jaws of the anime characters are still straight and chiseled. You wont have anyone without a handsome jawline in anime

 

[WhatPowerIs]

All the jaws of the anime characters are still straight and chiseled. You wont have anyone without a handsome jawline in anime

Practically everybody looks beautiful in media. Whether or not that's a good or bad thing is up to interpretation, I guess...

 

[KQuotientW]

Intelligence is important to me. I don't find magazine, clean cut models to be attractive. I prefer rugged features on a man.

No more man-child who says, "Just tell me what you want me to do and I'll do it". If they've been home all day and I haven't, they're sitting on the couch when there's a sink full of dishes, and they need to be told to wash dirty plates, that's a man-child. If the toilet or shower needs fixing, I go to the hardware store and get the parts, don't throw a fit because I took the initiative and fixed the fkn thing. I don't care who's fixed it, as long as it's fixed. I don't nag, I just get on with the job.

I grew up with paternal grandparents who were musicians. I was introduced to a wide variety of music genres from an early age. I like listening to whatever music I'm in the mood for. I don't give a care if it was written last week or 100 + years ago. I'll go to a music event for fun. I like a man with broad tastes in music.

100%, I cannot stand racism. I've met some for coffee at a café, as per the usual rules of dating, and during the conversation they've dropped some racial slurs or made broad generalisations about a particular nation. I grew up with rich, cultural diversity and don't appreciate racist bullshit. They can take their racist views, roll them up tightly and shove them, sideways, up their xenophobic bum.

I also love world movies and documentaries. I'm not, in all honesty, much of a fan of watching sports, but don't mind if the bloke does.

From my past relationships, I'd prefer someone who isn't violent and doesn't cheat. I don't think that's unreasonable. I'm not a fan of being punched or finding out that they've been boinking other women and in our bed.

None of it matters because I'll be catching the bus tomorrow. Was going to do it tonight but some unexpected visitors came over. Too tired to set it all up now and it's dark outside. I'm locking the property gate (I live on acreage) tomorrow and pretending I'm not home in case anyone turns up.

Not doubt, after I'm deceased, cops will go through my internet history. Stalker (not an ex, everyone assumes), who is more like Cletus from the Simpsons but on meth and alcohol, claims to police that he's not interested in me and that I'm, according to him, lying about his years long infatuation with me. He claims that I'm interested in him, even though I've been doing my best to avoid him for years to the point of constantly, nervously looking over my shoulder, jumping at every noise and have repeatedly told him I'm not interested in him, every time he's asked me out. Hopefully, when they see this, they'll realise that that creepy slimebag is far from what I'm interested in. He exudes disgusting from every pore.

Intelligence, honesty, good sense of humour, level headed, rugged features, no mother issues, etc, are what I find attractive. But, I'll be dead soon, so who cares and it doesn't matter.

 

[GentleJerk]

Powdered Toast Man <3

 

[WhitePill]

someone bigger than me
someone responsible
someone i respect
someone with a natal pepe

everything else i'm flexible on

 

[Deleted member 847]

This is my ideal man
Look how tall and dominant he is
I bet he has a huge dick too
and his jaw is also perfect

 

[come to dust]

Practically everybody looks beautiful in media. Whether or not that's a good or bad th

ing is up to interpretation, I guess..

anime takes it to the extreme. so does hollywood. But in most other media, talented but unattractive actors still have a chance.

 

[WhatPowerIs]

anime takes it to the extreme. so does hollywood. But in most other media, talented but unattractive actors still have a chance.

If you could make media of your own, would your protagonist / group of characters be unattractive?

 

[ejpikl]

honestly someone toxic who pushes me to be more and more unhealthy until i can end it
i know that sounds weird but i'm used to unhealthy relationships, not romantically, anyway, and like, i don't want myself to be happy so

 

[WhatPowerIs]

This is my ideal man
Look how tall and dominant he is
I bet he has a huge dick too
and his jaw is also perfect
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AND he beat the t-rex...

 

[Deleted member 847]

AND he beat the t-rex...

Somehow he did, even though they didn't even
live at the same time

He convinced the scientists from dinosaur heaven to clone him
just to show the world that he can mop the floor with their precious t-rex